It's the way were are, we are created this way for a purpose

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When it comes to what others think about my love to dress as a woman, society just doesn’t understand.  This desire is natural and it is who we are, it’s how we were made.  It’s not a sickness, it’s actually a blessing as we combined the best from both the male and female world.  I’m a cross dresser.  I’m a man, I want to stay a man, but, if I  could, i would live and dress as a woman full time.

Why is this desire natural?  For me it goes back to 4th grade.  Before I saw girly magazines, so I know it’s hard wired in us.  My fourth grade school teacher was young and would dress in short skirts and shinny vinyl pumps.  I really like the way she looked.  Every chance I got, I would look at her 3″ block vinyl heels.  I fell in love with her dressing and I could see myself wearing her pumps.

When I was 11, my mom purchased some black 3″ heel boots and I was in love with the boots.  My mom and sister would go shopping and asked if I wanted to go.  I would always say no, i will stay home. Once they were out of sight, I would put on my mom’s panty hose, the high heel boots and a black slip (very silky).  I found a wig she had in the closet and added this.  Then I explored her makeup and I was a girl.  I loved this feeling.  Every chance I got, I dressed as Charlene.  At times I would switch from the boots to high heel pumps, but it was the same love.  I love the silky feel against my body from the panty hose and the slip.  I loved the feeling of slipping my stocking covered foot into heels.  It was who I was.  This was before I had any body hair so I thought I  was a complete girl.

In a way, this is how Charlene started and I believe this is the way we were created.  We received this strength of being a woman in the womb.  It ‘s our   destiny. I feel I’m more softer and feminine that other men.  I’m a good listener, I do not get mad, I care about the little things.  I love to touch as a way of communication and I loved to be touched.  I’m feminine and I love it.

Charlene

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[Anonymous]

Very well said Charlene, I agree with you completely. My wife didn’t understand at first and sent me to a psychiatrist and she expected me to come home with a magic pill to take this “sickness” away.When I didn’t she was even more upset so I took her to the doctor and she explained this to her. I t has taken a long time and a lot of talking but she understands now, doesn’t always accept but understands me.

I also like the duality of seeing things from both sides of the fence, as a man’s and woman’s point of view. I have two daughters ad this came in very handy when they were growing up, especially the teenage years, boy that was fun. LOL I have been complimented many times by men and women on my openness and my ease of communication with people of all genders, ages and races as I did a lot of training before I retired and I dealt with all kinds of people.

So carry on Charlene at just being the best you’ you can be.Take care Heather.

 

 

 

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