New Dilemma

[Becka]

Hi Gals! I am facing a new Dilemma or challenge. I have always been a shopper, even with my guy clothes. I remember some time ago, moving into a new place and my new neighbor saying, ” I have never seen a guy with so many clothes!”

So now when i buy a new shirt i am automatically thinking, “I need (femme) shoes to match!”

I am not sure how to control this. Perhaps its omly buying shirts i already have a match for. I do a lot of “opportunity purchasing” as well. That is especiallytrue with shoes.

If I see a pair i like and are my size, I buy them!

My most recent acquisitions, cream yellow and olive green casual loafers! I am running out of space!

Help!!!

[Cassie Jayson]

Hi Rebekka. I didn’t get from your post Is it just the space that is the problem or is it $$$ to. I know for me Cassie’s things are taking up more space all the time. A lot of the time I look at what I have and see the things I don’t wear at all and wish I had never bought them, So that I had the money to buy more things.
It is about time for me to go through ‘his’ clothes once again and pack away or toss some. AND frankly a few of Cassie’s things need to be donated to Goodwill seeing as I no longer like that style or they don’t fit.
Giving up any of your pretty things can be so hard, but sometime a girl does what a girl has to do.

. Cassie

[Becka]

Hi Cassie,

Its both and it’s getting more difficult to hide the more feminine things inhave that SO has not seen. I need to start introducing those things and i know one of her fears has always been, “today its shoes, what is next?” Fear of becomong more and more femme.

[Becky Davis]

I do the same not so much shoes but other things tops, dress’s and so on. I’m starting to look through my closet and have been bagging things I just don’t wear anymore. I keep thinking I’ll sell them on E-Bay but they will just go to Salvation Army and hopefully someone will also enjoy them like I did…

[Anonymous]

I too love to shop.  I love to bring home new clothes, shoes, makeup, etc.  However, I’ve always been able to control myself.  I only buy things when I have money to spend, and look for the best deals that I can get.   All I can say is good luck, Rebekka, and enjoy your new shoes.

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