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I was a member, then decided to just be a man and that lasted few months, now I’m back. Hit 50, almost died though I would stop with the crossdressing, be 100% there for family. Was going good and then as life comes at you , the stress piles up and i needed to get away for this realty. Michelle is my way to keep my wits.
The problem i had before is that she got to controlling over me. I found my self at every free moment dressing. Taking big risk that could effect my family. I got rid of everything, deleted my account and photo and video of myself dressed. Now i find my self longing to be Michelle. I caved the other day and found a piece about being her. Now I’m struggling, to be or not to be. Hard to give up sometimes (someone) who is apart of you since 13. I’m a better father and husband with out her but a mess on the inside.
Hi Michelle welcome home girlfriend please rekindle old friendships and start new ones as the purge is a expensive lesson but like you said she is a part of you that seems never to go away.. We all have been thru these stages in our girly life as for staying in the closet or coming out to wife at least maybe not all family quite yet but be coming honest to your wife is a big step forward .. I know its easy for me to say this as i came out to my wife just after we were married which was 39 years ago now she was a little aprehensive at first but came to love Stephanie as a great girlfriend and a wonderful part of hubby .. Good luck girlfriend and happy you are home again ,,
Stephanie Bass
Michelle. trying to figure who we are is certainly a taunting task but now you are among friends. We understand how you must be feeling and here is a good place to explore and discover who you are. With our families many here experience different paths and experienced hardships. Especially making decisions about the what’s best for all.
but all have a common goal to transform ourselves to be that lady and stay within our boundaries. Meet with them ,talk to and share each others experiences through this and spend your time with us and know your part of a caring community of support and acceptance for all , welcome
Stephanie 🌹
Hi Michelle, and welcome back! I understand your dilemma. Paulette for me is the best stress reliever I could ever hope for because when I am in “Paulette Mode” I am a completely different person, much more in tune with my feelings. The biggest thing I had to confront when I returned to crossdressing after a long absence was how to tell my wife and family because I decide NOT to keep my passion secret. I’m not going to say it was completely ‘smooth’, but after a few rocky moments it has worked itself out where my wife accepts Paulette in small doses. And quite frankly my sons (who are all older) are fine with Paulette. I try not overdo it, which is great because I suspect if I was Paulette full time, it would no longer be as much fun as it is getting made-up and putting on pretty clothes. I hope you work out the dynamics of your situation. It is never easy, but the rewards of being able to fully explore your feminine side are worth it! Take care. Hugs, Paulette
Hi Michelle,
Welcome, it is lovely to meet you.
I am sure lots of the girls on here can relate to all that you are saying, we all face self doubt in our life and question why we do things. I think it helps to be able to discuss these things with like minded people and who can help you make sense of things in your mind. Please reach out to others here, there is a lot of help available.
I am happy to help if I can, please feel free to message me if you want to ask any questions or just to get things off your mind.
Take care,
Tara.
Hi Michelle, a major event in your conscious self has tormented you since the age of 13. Purging your needs, but unable to let go.
You have a difficult road and I can only wish you happiness with your decision what ever that is.
You could open up to your family
As I did,and hope you are comforted and accepted. Communication is the key.
Best Wishes
Jane-
Thank you all. Coming out ,we’ll that would be hard because she would want to know why. And why I can’t stop. You understand but she won’t.
Hi Michelle, Being 50 I know that you have likely been married for quite a while and if you have not already told your wife i bet that she already has an idea of Michelle existence. You need to sit down and have a good talk with her and let her know how badly you need to bring Michelle out. Likely you can you will find a way to live part time as Michelle and part time in your male mode. And if your children are mostly grown up they will understand, as in todays world gender isues are much better understood and accepted. You obviously need to express your feminine side so come on out and TALK TO YOUR WIFE
Best of luck and happy dressing always and may the force be always with you
Rach
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