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Hi Erica, my suggestion is to use the restroom where you’d feel most confident and comfortable. I’ve used female restrooms while dressed en femme without incident (whew!) I’ve used male restrooms while dressed androgynously and have been told on quite a few occasions that I was in the wrong restroom. That’s until I use the urinal and then the guys calm down. It is really a flip of the coin as both sexes have wackos and you never know when you’d run into one of them. Though small, the likelihood of receiving a serious injury would be greater by using the male restroom while dressed en femme. But if you are confident when entering a male restroom dressed en femme, you can diffuse conflict situations with humor. I did use the male restroom while totally glammed up one time about ten years ago, but everyone at the event knew I was crossdressing (it was a fundraiser luncheon). But since then, when I am dressed en femme, I use the female restroom. Hope this helps. All the best, stay safe, stay healthy, Hugs, Krista
If you are presenting as female, you should be 100% female. That means the ladies room. Or if, they offer, a “family” room. Just do it with confidence. You belong there. And don’t linger when done.
Also, no matter how nicely scented the hand soap may be, NEVER walk out sniffing your fingers (giggle).
Hi Erica Use the ladies room. I assure you you will get more looks in the men’s room. Just go in and do your business wash your hands and leave. There is no need for chit chat Please make sure you sit when doing your business. It is scary the first time. Fortunately for us things are changing . I am seeing more Men’s/Ladies rooms. Luv Stephanie
I ues the women’s when I am dressed as Carla. I go in do my business, wash my hands and leave.
Carla
When i went to my first cd dinner, i went to go to the restroom. I stopped in front of the two doors (M & F) and also didn’t know what to do. An experienced cd walked up and I turned to her with that “what do I do?” look on my face. She hooked her arm in mine, and said “Honey don’t even think about it! You’re a female right now” And we marched right into the ladies washroom! I’ll never forget that precious moment and I have NEVER hesitated again! Thanks Sara!
Absolutely the ladies room. No question about it. We don’t wanna see true guys in the ladies room, why would they want to see us in the men’s room?
Depends if im in a naughty mood or not as i have been kissed in the mens toilet and ravished, but if i need a wee then the ladies as above all im a lady and even when im dressed as a bloke i still sit down to wee as its easier rather than pulling your tights and knickers down easier to sit and so defo sitting down
I’ve only been in a ladies room a few times….and never dressed. How? Well I was a part time janitor in a sort of past life. The ones I’ve been in and I assume most all now, have stalls with doors. (unlike more than I care to remember, some men’s rooms) . So why not use them if dressed . it’s not like you’re in some kind of contest or anything.
Personally I find most mens rooms disgusting and will never get even close to a urinal unless matters absolutely call for it. They are so unhygienic as to be beyond understanding. I value my pants too much to subject them to that and then walk around in public like they’re still almost spotless (dry eventually maybe but who wants that????).
And nothing wrong with sittin’, sister.
I think there is no question if you are en femme, using the Ladies are a must. Though it would depend how femme you are. If you are more like in stealth mode, then the Men’s is likely alright, but you have a dress or skirt, forms, etc, really you have no choice but to use the Ladies.
Imagine the sensation you will cause going into the Men’s if you look femme!
As others have said, just go in, do what you need to do, wash up and leave.
Amy
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