Karen would organize a monthly get-together for CD/TG’s. During my makeover, she would encourage me to attend… These past few weeks, when I had extended time to dress, I was so overwhelmed for Leonara to be with like-minded “ladies.”
I guess the stars, planets, and the moon were aligned just right; I took the opportunity (Kathy’s overnight stay with her dad) to attend the Femme Fever, which you can google, the weekly party at a local tavern just 20 minutes away. Knowing Terri, whom I met through CDH was attending, helped make my “debut” a reality and less stressful attending with a friend. As some of you know, I live in a condo community with very “nosy” neighbors.
I had to go to the basement garage to get to my car. The logistics were planned: wearing a dress or short skirt would be a distraction for a senior community, so I decided to leave my unit wearing black skinny pants, a white bra with forms, a white cami underneath a satin white blouse, loafers, makeup sans lipstick, but including eyeshadow & mascara and a light jacket as a coverup. I went down the stairs instead of an elevator to get to my car. My heels, earrings, and my blond wig I carried in a small satchel. I borrowed a small shoulder purse from Kathy to hold keys, lipstick, cash, credit card, and ID.
With all the precautions taken, I did not meet any neighbors… lol. Arriving at the Tavern, parking, was difficult to find although my handicap placard saved the day. Before I got out of the car, I donned my wig and put on my open-toe heels and dangling gold earrings. I applied my red lipstick, which matched my polished toenails. I walked the walk as I approached the tavern door. As I’ve always done it before (not), I reached in my purse and paid the cover charge ($15).
I entered and was approached by a lady who welcomed me nicely. I noticed all in attendance were wearing dresses or short skirts. I found Terri, who had indicated that she would be wearing a black and white striped dress. My only contact with her was by cell or text. She complimented me that I was looking good, and that made me feel better.
We had a drink (white wine for this lady, of course) and talked with one of her friends. I had another obligation, so I previously planned to arrive at 10 pm and leave at about 11:30. By the way, when I drove home it was my first time wearing heels and a wig. Since it was almost midnight, I went to my unit fully dressed…
As you might imagine, the adrenaline was flowing, and it took a while to relax and fall asleep. I did take the time to remove the makeup.
Thank you for reading. It was my first time attending a party, and Leonara can cross it off her bucket list. I’m now looking forward to Keystone 2023…
Leonara, thanks for sharing you story. It is important that we share our triumphs like yours here. I would love to meet a few other CD’s or trans girls at a small party like that. So far I will settle to be out as Cassie at my class reunion this summer. To be accepted as ‘one of the girls’ by old classmate was a dream come true.
. Cassie
Thank you so much for dropping by and commenting on my article..coming out to like minded ladies at the party not only crossed off my bucket list for 2022 but felt so natural..I hope you will be accepted as “one of the girls” at your class reunion.
warmest regards, Leonara
Already have, the reunion was the best weekend I have had in years. Described it in a couple of articles a month ago.
Thanks Cassie
Congrats on your first big outing Leonara! Can’t wait to meet ya and share a toast at Keystone in 2023!
Cyn
Thank you Cynthia looking forward to it
Oh Leonara! how exciting! I am so happy for you to experience the outside world! One day I would love to go out with you and paint the town red! Thank you for posting a fabulous post! Hugs!
Thank you Rachael, for taking the time to read the article… I am looking the opportunity to “Paint the red” with you
hugs, Leonara
Leonara I’m so sad I missed that one. It would so fun to meet you. Those parties are great fun and Karen is such a kind person arranging these and doing all she can for us girls. She’s amazing ! Then there’s Terri one of my faves here on CDH. Diane also will attend the parties too. My hope is to be there in oct for the Halloween party. I’m so glad you got out. Wait till Keystone! It’s a life changer!
carole
Carole, thank you for reaching out.. I am so surprised that you are part of the “femme fever group” We have a great mutual friend in Terri … I am looking forward to Keystone
2023.. Warmest regards, Leonara
Excellent story Leonara and good for you. I am and I’m sure many other’s are so proud of you dahling, so proud. It does make a huge difference when your in the company of likeminded other’s. I’m not only proud of you but I’m excited for you as well. This was huge for you and it’s only a beginning of your need to be out. I see big things for you in the very near future, big things. Each time you go out it will build your confidence and with confidence you can accomplish all of the beauty you seek.… Read more »
Thank you Jackie for stopping by…and for words of encouragement… yes for me it was a big step and I am grateful that I had an opportunity to attend my first cd/tg party …xoxoxo Leonara
Congrats Leonara the first time is always the hardest
Thank you Roxxy to take the time to read the article… hugs, Leonara
Hi Leonara congrats to you girlfriend sounds lika a wonderful girly time .. Was this your first trip out as Leonara ?? So looking forward to Keystone 2023 and best of all collecting on my hug really looking forward to that he he ..
Stephanie
yes Stephanie it’s Leonara first time steppin out with like minded ladies… taking baby steps to experience Keystone and looking forward to your hug ….Leonara
Leonara, so wonderful to read about your night out. Sorry I wasn’t at the party myself. Maybe in October. Hugs, Valerie
Valerie, thank you for taking the time to read my article hopefully we will be able to share a party together….xoxoxo Leonara
Ii am a closet cd with very few clothes and very shy, were is the best place to find clothing
Michelle try finding store websites schein and Venus are suggestions Happy shopping
I’ve been really trying to get to this party. I’m glad you had a good experience Leonard. I’ve heard nothing but good things including this article.
Thank you Melanie Elizabeth… I am glad my article may help you to try a party … being with like minded ladies is very inviting