Mid-life CD. Professional, and I get out as Philma when I can. Slowly getting more comfortable in public, but not in my midwest mid-sized bigoted town... I have to travel about an hour to get to a town without aggressive criticism. Out to my wife and a few select friends, but closeted at work and in general, especially most of my family. Wishing acceptance was more normal, but knowing this region just isn’t ready for girls like us!