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Hi ladies!
I would love to give something special to my husband/girlfriend as a celebration of becoming themselves fully with me.
I have bought all the lace and frills..love the look, but wanted some advice on something which would be a special gift.
What would be something you wish you were gifted?
Imogen xx
Hi Imogen,
Let me start by saying your husband is blessed to have such a supportive wife. My wife truly loves me but has a very hard time with the feminine part of me so I have to keep it to the alone times. So, to your question, if there is a crossdressing service anywhere by you, a professional makeover where you get to try on different outfits and wigs and take lot's of pics professionally made up to look your best is a gift I would be excited about.
Hugs,
Michelle
Does your husband have a female name? If so, a necklace with that name on it would be special. I'd love a necklace with Cerys on it, but alas, my wife doesn't want me to have a female name, so it will never happen 🙂
If you want to be daring.... Take him to have his ears pierced! My wife did this to me. We were laying in bed one Saturday morning, and she asked me what I'd like to do that day. I said that I wasn't too bothered. The she said "I thought we'd go into town and get your ears pierced". This blew me away. My wife was never keen. I'd mentioned it to her many times over the 30 years we'd been married.... Later that day I was sat in a piercing salon having a lovely pair of studs put in my ears. I'll never forget that day.
Cerys
That is very nice of you to think of doing that for her.
For my birthday my wife took me to get my ears pierced which was special. Since then she surprised me one day by taking me to a boutique that sold a lot of jewelry and had me pick out a pair of earrings and necklace (she got a new pair of earrings and necklace too). New earrings are always a special gift in my opinion, actually any jewelry is. The other nice part about jewelry is that the 2 of you can share it, my wife and I have done that a few times.
Hope that helps. Now that you've asked and peaked our curiosity you'll have to let us know what you get her.
XOXO
Suzanne
Might suggest something "designer" she would not buy for herself. Something a bit over the top, but not too crazy. I am thing something like a Hermes scarf, or a Louis Vitton handbag.
Dear Imogen,
Could you give us a little more information about your partner? Your desire to please him/her with a special gift is wonderful but also unusual. I know what I would love to receive, but that's because I know who I am and what I want.
Livi
Two of the biggest problems I face is shoes that fit (I wear a women's size 14 in US) and jewelry. I have gained weight over the years and my hands were always kind of big. Finding a ring or bracelet that fits can also be challenging. Etsy has been useful in the jewelry department.
Every girl needs pearls.
A supportive spouse is indeed very special! I am blessed to be married to one.
May I suggest in no special order:
A piece of jewelry with her name engraved on it.
A set of frilly lace color panties.
Her favorite perfume, if she has one?
Hi Imogene,
Your SO has a very special gift from your acceptance. As others have said Jewelery is a great gift or a spa day. Perhaps, a trip for a mani/pedi is in order as a girls day out.
Alice
Another very special option is a photo shoot en femme. Nothing says I love you and accept your feminine side like a permanant memento of being dressed to the nines and recording it for posterity.
A glamour and boudouir photo shoot is amazingly empowering...and great fun.
Just thought I would post a slight update. No gift yet, however, I did suggest and we had a girls day out of shopping, trying on clothes and lunch!
It was a fantastic day and Amber ended up with some pretty underwear and some casual dresses for daily wear when we do venture out with her dressed.
It was amazing seeing her smile while trying on dresses and finding all the pretty things.
Hi Imogen,
I just sent you a private message. Someone before me suggested a makeover. Well down on the Gold Coast you have House of Transformations
Google that and see if the idea suits.
Regards
Caty.