My wife’s initial reaction was similar about the gay thing.
She was initially supportive ,however she is now just tolerant.
It’s funny one of the things that eroded our situation is me shaving my legs.
She is ok and helps me wax my chest belly and privates,but she does not want me to shave my legs.
I only get to on special occasions.
It’s one thing she has always liked about me.
So I understand but I want my legs shaved so bad.
Part of compromise I guess.
She is a great wife.