I am on a committee at my church to get a congregational vote to officially become a Reconciling in Christ church. I am also out to my pastor as transgender, non binary. My wife isn’t cool with more than the pastor knowing yet, but he’s cool with it. We also have a lesbian couple in the church. Lutheran, by the way. I don’t really want to go to church dressed en Femme as I don’t want people to be focused on me though, that takes away from why we’re all there.