Denise ..you’re certainly on your way, start building that courage and soon pass through those Gates and discover that world ahead. We are blessed in having many wonderful ladies here always willing to help in every way. From their advice and tips to better understand more of who you are and support that is second to none. So no need to purge as it is certainly expensive and hard on one’s conscience. With acceptance for all that passes I know you’ll be happy to be part of a community that really cares for all. The best to you and it’s very nice meeting you. Welcome. ..