Hi Saleena,
When my wife found out she did not want to see, but dis not want me hiding anuthing form her.
When i would buy myself something i would hide the purchase. To try and not have her see, that was wrong.
When i would get dresses i would wait until she was out of the room to put on my panties every day. That made it look like and feel like i was hiding.
She did not want to tell me no i could not dress, or tell me what i could or could not wear. So thay left me with get up get dressed the way i want and be proud of my self.
If she sees me it is ok. Because knowing about and not seeing it is very hard. Her mind went to worst case sinario. The reality was I get dressed to feel comfortable doing what i am about to do, and then jusy be myself.
Some times it means jeans and a top, other it means a skirt or dress. Either way I just be me doing what i need to do.
I hope you find your confidance, it will give your SO condinance in you.
Paula
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