Good and bad isn’t it Barb? I’m glad you are taking care of yourself and won’t be totally messed up by the outing of your feminine identity. Yes, it certainly is a big deal, but you have all of our support.
I know it’s a risk I’m taking as I am more and more open about my alter ego’s life as Amy, but I also hate hiding an important part of me, so if something similar happens to me I hope I will also have fortitude similar to you.
Certainly being here for the last few years is one factor which has helped my confidence immensely as well.
Creepy guys, I’ve been hit on too, not here but another site I’ve been on has had one or two. Sheesh.