In the perfect world no one would care what we had on, and I would tend to the more fem clothing most of the time. But just as some women do when out gardening, hiking thru the woods, and a few other tasks it make no sense to be dressed in the really nice and soft delicate fabrics and heels that are what define fem clothing to me.
So I will continue to march thru the world being Paula as much as I can when the chance presents itself and HandsomeHusband the rest of the time wearing the rough and tumble male clothing that is better suited for the task at hand. Which a lot of the time for me is making my wife smile.
Yes I could do the Tom Boy look and have some of the more durable fabrics, it seams a waste of time. If Paula is coming out she wants to be as fem as she can be, I don’t think I have ever had a pair of female pants, always dresses or skirts.