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    Elissa Ashbee
    Registered On: January 5, 2023
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    Hello all.  Just dropping a brief into.  Very much in the beginner steps of crossdressing.  Don’t yet know where the steps will lead, only that I’ve moved from passing thoughts to actually doing.  At this point I’m not even sure why exactly I’m doing it.  All I know is there are positive feelings associated with it.  Maybe I just feel pretty.  Maybe it gives me a sense of freedom I can’t get otherwise.  Maybe I feel I’m somehow finding my more genuine self.  Haven’t quite nailed down the why yet, just moving my feet and exploring.  Joining this site, I suppose, is a part of that exploration.  Maybe I’ll just lurk around a while.  Maybe I’ll make connections or even friends.  Maybe I’ll tuck tail and run.  Only time will tell.  Until then…. Hi!

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    • #708263
      Fiona-Ann Moss
      Registered On: October 7, 2018
      Topics: 392
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      Hi Elissa. My take on it is go with the flow. The chances are you have been that way longer than you think. Sometimes the signs are there but we cannot read them. Enjoy the experience and good luck with your journey xx

      Fiona xx

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    • #708251
      Registered On: June 13, 2018
      Topics: 3
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      enjoy and explore to find out what you like, want and desire.  You will develop your own style of lingerie, clothes and make  up.   Enjoy your journey

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      Sylvia Knauer
      Registered On: January 8, 2023
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      One step at a time hun, but know that your not alone, we are all still on this wonderful journey. Ifor one enjoy being about to express myself and be comfortable in my own skin

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      Rozalyn Richards
      Registered On: July 27, 2022
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      Hi Elissa welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you, we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family, I’m a mature crossdresser I’ve been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister’s lingerie on, we all had to start somewhere and most of us are still on that journey, I know I’m still on it I’m not sure where I’ll end up, if it’s help and advice you need you have come to the right place we don’t judge anyone on here it’s a safe place for everyone, I’m sorry i can’t meet up with you for a coffee ☕ I’m on the other side of the pond in the UK, I’m sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat, I’m sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X 🎀

      Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

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      Deborah Sullivan
      Registered On: February 27, 2020
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      Be prepared to blossom  like a flower and enjoy the journey we have all been on with no regrets

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      Lynda Jones
      Baroness - Annual
      Registered On: September 1, 2021
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      Elissa, Welcome to CDH, I will have to say once you dip your toe in, next step you will be well over your head. Do love to dress when I have the chance.

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      Stephanie Flowers
      Registered On: June 26, 2017
      Topics: 35
      Replies: 6647
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      Elissa welcome to Cdh

      Stephanie 🌷

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      Elissa Ashbee
      Registered On: January 5, 2023
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      Thank you all for the welcomes and kind comments.  I look forward to spending some time here, to new friendships, and to the journey in front of me.

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      Julia Reynolds
      Registered On: November 16, 2022
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 35
      Has thanked: 215 times
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      Welcome aboard!  If you happen to figure out why we all do this, let me know.  I have been at it for over 60 years, and I still can’t pin down a specific reason.  Just enjoy who you are.  Lots of great people to meet here.  XO – Julia

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    • #707437
      Jill Lacey
      Registered On: December 25, 2022
      Topics: 3
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      Welcome girl. Don’t get too hung up on why, just concentrate on accepting who you are and the fact you enjoy it. Enjoy your ride.
      Hugs, Jill

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      Greta La Folle
      Registered On: August 6, 2022
      Topics: 6
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      Hello Elisa,

      Welcome to CDH, a large and welcoming family. It’s a pleasure to meet you here.
      Here you will be able to exchange opinions and information and find support to go forward in your enfemme adventure.
      Have fun participating in the forums, polls and questionnaires.
      Here no one is judged, but always welcomed with a warm embrace.

      I’m Greta, a 56-year-old CD/TG person (I’m taking my first steps in HRT); with a life a little complicated by having to hide my gender identity for too long ….. when I’m alone at home and I know I have no guests I’m Greta, if I’m at work or I have guests at home I’m Greta dressed in unisex clothing outwardly like Mr. Antonio but wearing my women’s underwear of course.

      XOXOX from Italy 🇮🇹
      Greta ❤️

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      Erika Henderson
      Duchess - Annual
      Registered On: November 26, 2022
      Topics: 5
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      Welcome to CDH, Elissa!  Please feel free to dip your toes in the water here!  I can’t wait to hear of your progress



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    • #707371
      Jen Vivi
      Registered On: January 3, 2023
      Topics: 2
      Replies: 18
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      Welcome, Elissa! I recently joined CDH and have already made friends and feel right at home. This is a wonderful community of friends, helpers and supporters with open minds and hearts.

      Whatever your motivation for crossdressing, enjoy it. And if you ever need help, have questions, need advice, or just want to vent, I can assure you that our CDH community will be by your side and will help in any way they can.


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    • #707370
      Kari Johnson
      Registered On: November 17, 2022
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      Dip and enjoy the journey Elissa. We will be here cheering you on

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      Alice Underwire
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
      Topics: 98
      Replies: 5801
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      Hi Elissa,

      Welcome to CDH.



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    • #707352
      Stephanie Bass
      Registered On: November 30, 2019
      Topics: 27
      Replies: 4419
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      Hi Elissa nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here .. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also..  Girl there is so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from many ladys here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Elissa as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now girlfriend as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all girlfriend we are just a simple click away from you..  Its so wonderful for you to have a supportive wife as many others here myself included makes life so much girly and easier at home .. If you would be intrested and your wife also theres a group here Called For Wifes and Significant others for them to ask many questions of other wifes as we cant access it just for them to have the privacy to ask questions of many ladies there my wife included is a member so look around and have fun girlfriend .. Once again nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

      Stephanie Bass

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      Fiona Black
      Baroness - Annual
      Registered On: November 23, 2019
      Topics: 1
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      Welcome to CDH Elissa.

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    • #707324
      Christina Isme
      Registered On: April 8, 2022
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      I’m not sure anyone can for why we do what we do. And it takes a lot of looking at ourselves to know what we really want. But I can tell you the feeling never goes away. I have been full time since I was 9 till now at 62. Just take one step at a time and you will figure it out. We are glad to have you welcome to the site

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      April Sinclair
      Registered On: April 29, 2022
      Topics: 9
      Replies: 443
      Has thanked: 5729 times
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      Hello Elissa  welcome to CDH I am glad you have shared a part of who you are and found us and made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or public expression and or level of personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression or those on the path to transition and those that have.  There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of acceptance and self expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or world were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are; as being who you truly are as your authentic self  of you being a man, a woman, or expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. As you are sharing a part of your authentic self  here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. I am happy you have made the step to be here. Welcome!

      Hugs April

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      Jamie Smyth
      Registered On: December 15, 2022
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 7
      Has thanked: 162 times
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      Hi Elissa,

      Sometimes I feel the same way. But this is a great place to explore with a lot of friendly people ready to help and make you feel right at home.




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