How accomplished/comfortable are you in heels?

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  • I don't wear high heels
  • I'm new to heels and still learning
  • Need lots more heel time and practice
  • Doing OK when I get the chance
  • Feeling quite comfortable in heels for extended periods
  • Wear heels almost daily and am a very accomplished wearer
  • High Heels are my default footwear - feel wrong without them
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    • #406131
      Patty Phose
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      I’ve been wearing heels since I was 17. I’m pretty good in them. Some shoes more then others.

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      Jennifer Walker
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      I a am perfectly comfortable in Kitten heels and getting pretty good in my three inch heels.  The six inch stilettos are still a challenge.

      Jennifer

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      Dala Carlian
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      I’ve never had trouble in heels.  I’m used to ice skates from playing hockey for many years. After getting used to standing on a 2mm wide blade that has you 3 inches off the ground….heels feel like no big deal.

      Hugs

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    • #402356
      Jessica
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      I love heels and normally 2-3 inches make me feel feminine and I can walk in them like a champion ball room dancer, 4″ would be ok except I am already 5’11”. Boots are another story because I can find really sexy boots in flats though I do prefer a small heel or stiletto on those as well.

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      June
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      I want to wear heels, but I walk like a drunk duck on ice in anything over kitten heels.  I definitely need more practice.  Finding “cute” shoes in womens size 12 – 13 is a challenge!  Finding comfortable shoes in that size is more challenging!

      June

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      Scarlett398
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      Every pair of footwear I own has heels most of them in the four inch heel height category.

      If you purchase the right size, even the pointy toe heels are easy to walk in.

      I’m lucky, I wear a size 11 in every style of footwear.

      I’ve never owned a pair of flats! I don’t find them sexy at all!

      Now several of my Liz Claiborn knee high boots in black or dark brown only have a heel that’s 1 to 2 inches high which means you can run a 100 yard dash very easily if the boys are chasing you. They are very sexy and pretty boots too made of really good leather!

      I love suede ankle booties and have close to 8 pairs of them and most of them are by Liz Claiborne! Everything she makes fits me just right.

      When I go into my Sexy Redhead’s closet to borrow anything I want to borrow, her footwear is the only thing in there I can’t borrow because she’s an 8.5 and she and I have about the same amount of knee high boots and ankle booties to choose from but she’s got a couple of sexy light colored suede knee high boots I would love to get my feet in! We purchased them while on vacation up in beautiful Boston Mass when the leaves were at the peak of floliage in late September! They were at a DSW store in a shopping strip right across from our Hampton Hotel. I purchased here six pair of knee high boots that day and she still wears all of them during the Fall and Winter months.

      Great question and sorry about my long winded answer, Candy!

      XOXOXO Scarlett

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    • #401139
      Jessica Wilde
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      I love heels! Back when I dressed a lot I was a pro in them. No pun intended here but once you hit your stride in them you’ve got it. I haven’t got to walk in heels for a long time and I’m dying to do so now but under my present circumstances I’m gonna have to wait. I used to have a pretty good shoe collection but a purge took them all away. I am chomping at the bit to buy me some new heels. I fear I will go overboard when I get to buy some LOL.

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    • #401136
      Rachel Cross
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      i have a standard truck and drive in heels all the time. not much difference.

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      ChloeC
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      The first time I put on heels (more than 1″) I thought, yes, this is exactly the feeling I’ve always wanted.  I don’t wear them enough to feel really practiced, but when I do, it’s always an enjoyable time.  I mostly just 3″ or 3 1/2″ heels.  I’ve thought about getting taller ones, but where I’m at, what I have does well enough.  And when I get into a comfortable gait, do I feel good.

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      DeeAnn Hopings
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      I love heels and have a few pairs in various heights.
      When I wear heels it is typically for the day. On my first visit to spa to get my hair and makeup done I was wearing my peep toe booties with heels. The owner of the spa asked how I manage to drive in heels, explaining that she finds it very difficult. I drive standard and I don’t find heels make much difference, or at least I can adapt to them quite easily.

      My MINI is my 8th vehicle and I’m proud to say that none have been automatics. However, what is unfortunate is when wearing heels, I don’t have enough flexibility in my right ankle to do heel & toe downshifts. Other than that, 3 pedals and feet? No Problem…

      Meant: 3 pedals and 2 feet (I think about 5 Orders of Magnitude faster than I type…)

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      Heather Jameson
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      I’ve been wearing heels long enough that they’re just like a pair of running shoes to me, mind you my heels have become shorter as my age has grown higher, I can’t do the six inch stilettos anymore. My biggest accomplishment is I can drive my car with a manual transmission, three pedals no those want to be paddle shifters in 4″ heels. Men think they’re the best drivers, yeah put on some 4″ heels and try and get my car to move. Not many people know how to drive a standard anymore, I believe that only 1.7% of the cars and light trucks manufactured in the world  are equipped with a manual transmission. I actually get 5% off my insurance because it’s harder to steal.

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      Dandy Lion
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      I JUMPED RIGHT IN TO LIKE A 6″ SPIKE I have not broken anything yet so I’ll keep trying I Thank they are just so dam sexy. I now got two more short heel boots can get around better but not giving up on spikes just more practice needed I’ll get there or brake my neck trying.

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    • #400593
      stephanie plumb
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      I find 3″ heels are my go to everyday comfortable heels with just enough ‘lift’ to instantly transform me and bring on that delicious feminine feeling. They alter my centre of gravity slightly forward over the balls of my size 9.5’s, giving me a more graceful stance and definitely help with the girly walk.

      My choice of dress goes hand-in-hand with the what I put on my feet. Match and compliment.

      Housework?  3″ courts (pumps).

      To be more femme I wear 4″ pumps.  My 5″ stilettoes  only come out when the full lingerie experience is required.

      When out in the country I prefer 3″ chunky shoes, robust wedges or ankle boots. I must have that lift even when sploshing along  muddy paths.   Otherwise I just don’t feel quite feminine enough.

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      • #400597
        Grace Scarlett
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        …isn’t sploshing a brilliant word…g. x

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          stephanie plumb
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          It is….  image sploshing after getting sloshed.   Another great word.   Having a curry on saturday – beef vindaloo,  tarka dhal  and all the trimmings.  And getting sloshed.

          Have a great weekend

          Steph p x

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      DeeAnn Hopings
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      I love heels and have a few pairs in various heights.
      When I wear heels it is typically for the day. On my first visit to spa to get my hair and makeup done I was wearing my peep toe booties with heels. The owner of the spa asked how I manage to drive in heels, explaining that she finds it very difficult. I drive standard and I don’t find heels make much difference, or at least I can adapt to them quite easily.

      My MINI is my 8th vehicle and I’m proud to say that none have been automatics. However, what is unfortunate is when wearing heels, I don’t have enough flexibility in my right ankle to do heel & toe downshifts. Other than that, 3 pedals and feet? No Problem…

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      DeLora
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      I love heels and have a few pairs in various heights.
      When I wear heels it is typically for the day. On my first visit to spa to get my hair and makeup done I was wearing my peep toe booties with heels. The owner of the spa asked how I manage to drive in heels, explaining that she finds it very difficult. I drive standard and I don’t find heels make much difference, or at least I can adapt to them quite easily.

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    • #400484
      Cheri Loves
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      High heels are awesome. I feel very sexy in them.

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    • #400477
      Rachel Cross
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      i started wit 4″ heels and that a good height. im pretty good in them. i play pool friday and saturday nights dressed. i wear them about 5 hours each night. also like to go shopping in heels. love the sound they make and the heads they turn. longest time in heels was 3 days. kinda hard to walk a line on a tilted road when you get pulled over by the cops. but it was fun and i got a complement from the woman cop who said she couldn’t walk in heels. i hate flat shoes. shoes, sandals and boots all must have heels to make me feel sexy. i do have a few flat shoes, but the dont impress me much.

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      Kayla Olson
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      Have been practicing and wearing high heels out for several years. Started with 4″ wedges now I can  comfortably wear 7″-8″ stilettos all day. Of the 70 pairs of heel including wedges and stilettos only 1 pair is under 6″ and those are a 4″ wedge that are just to comfortable to give up. Most in my collection are 6.5′ to 7″ heels.

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    • #400259
      Penny Jay
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      Quite comfortable in 3inch, 4’s are getting there as long as I’m not on my feet a lot, higher than that is definitely work in progress. All great fun, as I’m already taller than my wife she prefers me in lower heels when we go out.

      PennyJ

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      Grace Scarlett
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      Hello lovelies

      To me, High heels are a drug,…once bitten, forever smitten…..they arch your back, thrust your bust and the sound they make !!!!!!……100% female.

      grace x

    • #400242
      KHeart
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      Just starting to learn to walk in heels as I’ve only recently got my first pair less then a month ago, although they are 5″, so maybe a little high for a beginner. I don’t get many opportunities to try them out, but I feel that I am starting to get slightly used to them when I do wear them. I’m stumbling a lot less, but I haven’t worn them for any prolonged amount of time.

      Just love swaying my hips with each step… feels so feminine and also helps with my balance too 😜

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      Britney Summers
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      I haven’t worn my 4.5 inch jessica simpson platform heels after I fell in a pile on to myself when my ankle rolled.  I want to try to get use to something lower first, which I should have done in the first place. I like doing things the hard way.  Still haven’t found that perfect 2 or 3 inch heel shoe.

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      Wendy Swift
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      I still need work and practice.  I am ok in 3 inch pumps, but i rarely get a chance to wear them as my wife doesn’t like me wearing heels in the house.

       

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      Deborah Sullivan
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      How much difference an inch can make now. I can spend the whole day in 3 inch booties but can only last a few hours in four inch pumps

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      Lee Ann Rakers
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      I try to wear heels every day. The highest heel I can wear is 3 inches. I am open to a 2 inch heel, but I won’t go lower.

      I’ve GGs walk awfully fast in heels. I wish I could do that, but I don’t get enough practice time.

      During the week I get maybe an hour a day in heels, on the weekends maybe 2 hours a day.

      So many things about being a woman give me some amazing and wonderful sensations. I love the way a bra hugs me. I love when I have heels on(oh la la)and I can feel the heel elevating my foot, even when sitting.

      Lee Ann

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      Samantha
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      Started off with 3inch heels. Now mainly wear 5 to 6 inch heels. Feel more girly that way.

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    • #399964
      Kelly Terry
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      I put “High Heels are my default footwear” since any day I’m able to dress up to any level (which is most of the time) I wear some heels, at least 4″ or more and I wear them all day. Right now I’m wearing some 16cm/6.3″ stiletto single sole heels and I have to confess that I have to practice more in them (and that’s why I wear them today) but my 5.5″ single sole boots is no problem, even took a 6km walk in them one night.
      My biggest issue with some stiletto heels is that I can’t walk to much in them outside, the pavement kills the heel in no time. Currently trying to find some winter boots with at least 12cm/4.7″ heel (and no platform) that have a decent sized heel and cost < $100USD. Have some candidates but still looking.

      /kt

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    • #399962
      Robyn Devine
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      With the exception of my studded stilettos which are 4.5 inch, all my other shoes and boots are comfortable.  I can wear them most of the day around the house no problem…and YES…I do move around the house a lot…intentionally as practice.

      Robyn

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    • #399961
      Lexie Trask
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      I fear the cuts and bruises I would get with anything over 2 inches… but I am learning.

      I understand. Whatever makes you comfortable is what you should do. I don’t dress a certain way because someone else dresses that way, or someone says something. I dress to please myself.  Sometimes in miniskirts with thigh high stockings and 8 inch platform stilettos! Sometimes not.

      just be comfortable with yourself and how YOU want to express yourself!

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      Maria Pink
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      I fear the cuts and bruises I would get with anything over 2 inches… but I am learning.

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      Rei Durden
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      I wear my 4” pumps daily, sometimes for many hours, sometimes only briefly. I’m OK, getting better, but have a loooooong way to go.

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      Lexie Trask
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      before COVID, I could wear 6 inch platform stilettos for 8+ hours a day!

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      Amy Myers
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      I replied that I am quite comfortable in heels for extended periods of time. The quality and comfort of some are definitely much better than others.

      Practice time also helps! If I go weeks without wearing heels, it takes a bit of time to get back into the swing of them.

      Amy

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      T.J. Byron
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      Started in 1953-4 area…Mom’ s size 5 Blue Pumps… Grew out way too soon!

      Now at 74,  no issues at all. Had to adjust after right paralysis after Back surgery. Now I am scheduling a new Right knee replacement.

      Hell getting old…I will cont. To represent as long as I look good.

      Later , Dr. T.J.

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