How often do you go out?

How many times per year do you get out in public crossdressed?

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  • Full time
  • Every Week
  • Monthly
  • 6-8 times a year
  • 1-5 times a year
  • only a couple of times, ever
  • never

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    • #407054
      Rei Durden
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      Only once so far and that briefly, but there’s definitely more in the near future.

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      Lucinda Hawkns
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      I don’t go out dressed up, I under dress and go out does that count?   I did go out 2 times 1 time for Halloween the other time was to a x dressers meeting called Buffalo Bells.  but i do not go out shopping in female clothing.

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    • #406604
      DeLora
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      I get to go out dressed about once a month right now.

      I travel for work, driving 960 km from my home to the job site where I stay for 3 or 4 weeks at a time. These drives have become the time that I can enjoy being dressed for 12 hours at a time. I do makeup, get dressed and drive. There are a few towns I stop in to go shopping or for food/coffee/fuel. The sandwich shop where I get lunch actually know my usual now. It is so affirming to be acknowledged as a person in my femme presentation.

       

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    • #406547
      Grace Scarlett
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      Hi Billiejay

      Grace is out and about every week, amount of days per week depends on amount of cash to spend…haha

      Smiles, grace x

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      Patty Phose
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      I try to get out as often as possible. Often it’s just a drive around in the car and getting out here and there or doing some brief errands. I have found on the hot and humid summer days, wearing a wig is very uncomfortable and hot so I won’t go out because of that. On some brutally cold winter days I find ust the opposite to be true. As much as I love my sheer pantyhose and, short dresses, it’s just too cold to go out dressed that way if it’s just going to be a get out and experience adventure.

      In the spring and fall seasons I get out as often as possible. I would love to have really great adventures with other CD’s when I do but often it’s just my little drive arounds with brief stops.

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    • #406438
      michaela jane
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      I checked every week. It might be more, or less depending on where I am going. Most of my outings are for grocery pickups and one of those involves entering a store. When I go into a store, I don’t wear my wig or forms but my pants, shoes (no heels), top and undies are all ladies wear. I have read in CDH in the past that this is “stealth” mode. If I do a drive up grocery pickup, I still don’t wear my wig, but very often turn up in a skirt, hose and ballerina flats and also have my forms on. Picking up groceries at Walmart doesn’t require you to get out of the car, so driving there and back home en femme, albeit wig-less, is an achievement for me.

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      Paula F
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      The only time I go out in public and am not dressed is on my way to or from work, and then it is a typical male shopping exercise…. rush in, get what I need and then leave.  20 minutes tops.  I find it so much more relaxing to take my time when I am dressed the way I should be, and even a Wal-Mart trip can take over an hour sometimes.

      PaulaF

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    • #406424
      Rachel Cross
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      i go out about 3 times a week, sometimes more. i go out every friday and saturday night usually to go out to a restaurant to eat and then to a bar to play pool. its about a 7 to 8 hour a night. then during the week ill dress and go shopping  or something for a few hours. in the summer i like to go walking around at the beach. i can usually spend 20 to 30 hours a week out dressed.

    • #406394
      Sally Drinkwater
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      Nice question BillieJay,

      Up to the onset of the killer bugs I would have said that I would go out ‘every time’ I got dressed. I don’t mean clubbing or pubbing but I loved to go mixing and mingling and would drive miles to explore new shopping centres, I would even take my own shopping with me in order to ‘fit in’ with the crowd.

      Alas, no more crowds to hide in and I’ll be damned if I would smudge my lipstick wearing a sweaty mask.

      Sal x

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    • #406391
      Vanessa Vanreed
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      I usually go out on the weekends to go shopping. I love to get my hair and nails done en femme I am surprised at the compliments I get.

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    • #406386
      Kelli Marlowe
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      I’ll check 1-5, although so far this year it’s one(Halloween drive).It did embolden me to perhaps try another drive or 2  this year.realistically, that’s about as far as I can go unless I drive 100 miles from home, too well known in my tiny county of 30,000.

    • #406335
      Penny Jay
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      Only been out 3 times this year, so far!

      Every time I’m out my confidence is growing, so I could see it becoming closer to monthly next year.

      PennyJ

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    • #406317
      BillieJay
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      Emily our weekend out kind of inspired my poll/post.

      Stevie, I get that, totally. my first time out, the hardest step I ever took was the first step outside of my room, the first time I went out with the ladies.

      Kim, the mask and sunglasses during the day make me soooooooooo much more confident!

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      • #406343
        Emily Alt
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        Billie that was a great weekend.  It helped me realize I can still live my life despite the pandemic.

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    • #406316
      Emily Alt
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      The pandemic impacted my outings a lot.  I didn’t go out for several months. I’ve started again – maybe 1-2 times a month. I can live with that until things improve. My goal is to live part-time for the next few years. When I retire I want to go full-time.

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    • #406313
      Stevie Steiner
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      As sad as it makes me, haven’t been out full femme yet, so I had to vote never.  Just not gotten that far …. yet!

      Stevie

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    • #406312
      Sa•man•tha
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      Closer to full time, not 100%.  Maybe 80 – 90%.  I voted for every week.

      Another nice poll btw, thank you!  Hi BillieJay!! 😀

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    • #406311
      BillieJay
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      the answers to this poll are awesome!

      I want to thank every one of you!

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    • #406303
      Brenda Lynn
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      Used to go out a lot, when I was living in Colorado, but I retired, moved back to Maine, and don’t get the chance to dress much at all and never to go out.

       

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    • #406296
      Alison Anderson
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      I put down every week, although it is more like almost every day, at least since March when I started working from home.

      We have an app from our company that will give us points if we reach certain step levels (or equivalent by doing other exercises) each day.  These points could be exchanged for gift cards.

      I would usually reach these levels on work days, but not on weekends.  I decided a year and a half ago that if I’m going to get paid to go out and walk on weekends (as long as the weather wasn’t awful), I would do it en femme.  When the weather or other circumstances prevent it, I’d do my walking on the treadmill.

      Since working from home in mid March, I have gone out en femme almost every day for a walk around my neighborhood.  Since I only did it a couple of times as a guy before switching to always do it as a woman, the people I see only know me as a woman.  I have also done a lot of shopping en femme, partly because of the mask, and partly because I am now shopping solo (being with family members would possibly make me more recognizable; being alone no one will pay close enough attention to figure out who I am).

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    • #406293
      T.J. Byron
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      We have several social groups in this area of the Puget Sound. Mostly we go out to lunch and shopping. Other outings are Social Justice groups  in the area to promote LGBTQ+ issues.

      We always have a great time!

      Be safe All. Later…Dr.T.J.

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      kim dones
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      now is the time to go out with  a mask only your eyes show. so get dressed and go for it

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