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Finally. Finally! FINALLY!!
So the past few weeks as Stevie has been able to dress daily and regularly, she has been dying to talk about it face to face. I found my ex SO would be safe, we had spent a dozen years together, split up 5 years ago but still stay in touch. I’ve been hanging around with her quite a bit lately, spending some nights ( she suffers from depression ) and have been discussing the CD/TG community and CDH, my longer girly hair, getting her ready…. Then last night while I’m on site she asks why? Finally! I simply say that it’s where I belong and these are ” my kind of people “. She knows I would love to meet with some of my ” girlfriends” here.
If course, the first question is “so you’re gay”? That’s always,the first question, isn’t it? Lol. I reply no, I’m more in the TG part of the community. This gets a simple okay …. Then she asks ” did you want to be a woman?” I just looked her straight in the eye and said yes, since I was a child. I did receive a smile from her, but nothing else. Stevie was sitting there thinking Ask Me Anything! Sadly, she wasn’t into discussing it much, but not against it.
I have to say, it was soooo nice sitting with an old friend talking about my desire for more femme hair, my dear fellow sisters here ( who gave me strength ), and just Finally looking someone in the eye and saying ” yes, I’m in the wrong body “. Just wanted to share ….
Another step on the road of my journey. 🙂🙂
Stevie
Congrats Stevie….you held your nerve….and you did it!!!.. I love stories like this, I am so pleased for you..onward and upward girl…a BIG hugg….grace x
Hello Stevie,
My wonderful sis.
I am so very happy to read this. It truly frees ones soul. It isnt good to keep a soul bottled up. It needs to be who it wishes to be and set free.
Thus I am sure you seen my posts and or profile. 2003 my soul had enough of hidding. I just developed a I dont care what others think attitude. After I told everyone at the reunion parties, it was over. My soul was finally freed. Natasha was out in the world. She was…..finally happy…
I am so happy for you luv. I hope it keeps getting better for you…. So you can finally be set free and be……YOU💖
Hugs
Natasha💋
Way to go Stevie!!! Congratulations hon. No more steps on your travels will be that big, and you made it! I understand the feeling of telling someone the truth that has been a part of your previous life. Many people knew me as Paula, as that is who they met at the clubs, for a long time, but the day my sister and I crossed that bridge was sooo awesome, and the pressure just evaporated.
Keep up the progress and enjoy that door opening just a little bit more.
WooHoo!!
PaulaF
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