- March 16, 2021 at 3:23 am #464426Kellie BlackParticipantRegistered On: March 16, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 29Has thanked: 45 timesBeen thanked: 126 times
Today (16/3/21) I spoke to my female partner about wanting to explore crossdressing. We sat and chatted about what I wanted. How deep I wanted to go and she was extremely understanding and supportive. She just wants me to be happy and to be the true me.
I joined this site as I would like to get better support with everything, like makeup tips. Best places to buy clothes, etc..
I’m a UK member but I will happily chat with anyone.
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- April 15, 2021 at 3:19 pm #478167Katie TimeDuchessRegistered On: April 3, 2021Topics: 17Replies: 118Has thanked: 727 timesBeen thanked: 642 times
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- March 20, 2021 at 1:51 pm #466582Stephanie BassPrincess - AnnualRegistered On: November 30, 2019Topics: 12Replies: 1592Has thanked: 17749 timesBeen thanked: 5268 times
Hi Kellie nice to meet you and happy you found us girls here .. As all these wonderful ladies here have said I cant add much to them but just a few things .. You are a new sister and family member here we welcome you with open arms so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself as you are home now .. Your wife is a gem in our world as accepting your Kellie side as a bunch here also have that wonderful spouse and SOs to live with as myself included .. So give her a hug and allways talk to her about whats going on in your mind and heart she deserves to know for your help and guidance as much as hers .. Again nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon ..
Stephanie Bass from Montana U>S>A>
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- March 20, 2021 at 3:00 am #466290Kellie BlackDuchessRegistered On: March 16, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 29Has thanked: 45 timesBeen thanked: 126 times
Thank you! It is such an amazing site. I’ve felt so comfortable being me here.
I know manchester pretty well. Lived there for a while in the early 2000s.
Everyone on here has been amazing 🥰
- March 19, 2021 at 12:29 pm #466076Kelly RhoadsDuchessRegistered On: April 15, 2019Topics: 0Replies: 1Has thanked: 1 timeBeen thanked: 3 times
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- March 19, 2021 at 12:29 pm #466075Rozalyne RichardsLadyRegistered On: March 10, 2018Topics: 0Replies: 572Has thanked: 1004 timesBeen thanked: 1933 times
Hi Kellie welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you, I’m sure you have lots of questions to ask so just ask and the girls will get back to you, we are like one big happy family on here x
I’m sure you will get lots of help and advice from all the girls x
Hugs Rozalyne x
- March 19, 2021 at 12:02 pm #466066Jamie PeridotLadyRegistered On: February 19, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 264Has thanked: 1549 timesBeen thanked: 788 times
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- March 16, 2021 at 6:49 pm #464803Catherine LasharDuchessRegistered On: September 1, 2019Topics: 1Replies: 13Has thanked: 1 timeBeen thanked: 78 times
You will find help ,support and friendship here.
There are many tutorials and links for perfecting your female persona.
Glad to here your SO is supportive of your journey.
May the day find you well.
- March 16, 2021 at 2:03 pm #464689Alice UnderwireLadyRegistered On: September 16, 2019Topics: 26Replies: 3083Has thanked: 2932 timesBeen thanked: 6484 times
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Welcome! You are going to LOVE it here – tons of wonderful, loving support! Don’t worry too much about your makeup skills, they will come with practice – and having your SO on-board will give you plenty of opportunities to do just that. Enjoy yourself and don’t be too critical of your first attempts, it’s all just a part of the learning curve. I’m so happy for you!
- March 16, 2021 at 8:29 am #464529DuchessRegistered On: March 16, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 29Has thanked: 45 timesBeen thanked: 126 times
Thank you 🥰 it will be strange for both of us at first. I’ve never gone fully into it before and my partner hasn’t seen me even in tights before. So there is a fear she won’t feel the same about Kellie as about the male side of me and that upsets her. She wants me to be me. I trusted her enough to open up about this, and I do think she’s overthinking it. I know her as a person and know that she will help me as much as she can.
I know I have this amazing community too to help me explore Kellie a lot better. Everyone has been so welcoming. I love it 🥰
- March 16, 2021 at 5:34 am #464472GenevïéveLadyRegistered On: July 28, 2020Topics: 30Replies: 1197Has thanked: 10203 timesBeen thanked: 4918 times
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Thank you Gen ❤
I feel like a huge weight has been lifted from me. That I can finally be someone I have always felt I needed to be. I’m happy to have found a safe place online to share this side of me.
- March 16, 2021 at 9:19 am #464557GenevïéveLadyRegistered On: July 28, 2020Topics: 30Replies: 1197Has thanked: 10203 timesBeen thanked: 4918 times
You are welcome hon… 😊
Yes, I know that ‘weight’ all too well… I carried that burden for many years until I came out to my wife last July…. she is very accepting.
I’m sure you will enjoy CDH Kellie…. the ladies here are wonderful.
- March 16, 2021 at 5:15 am #464468Diana MorganLadyRegistered On: February 22, 2021Topics: 8Replies: 647Has thanked: 4436 timesBeen thanked: 2055 times
Hi Kellie and welcome to CDH, I wouldn’t get too down in the dumps about lack of makeup skills as it’s an esoteric art that takes time to master, I suspect we’ve all had the experience of looking at our first attempts in the mirror in horror, but there are plenty of girls here who have mastered this art and are more than willing to share their knowledge – just ask.
- March 16, 2021 at 5:14 am #464467Effie JayneDuchessRegistered On: February 7, 2021Topics: 27Replies: 682Has thanked: 1374 timesBeen thanked: 2345 times
- March 16, 2021 at 4:11 am #464449Tonya LerenLadyRegistered On: January 5, 2021Topics: 23Replies: 223Has thanked: 635 timesBeen thanked: 1094 times
Welcome as you have probably already learned this is one of the best places to be in starting your journey as there are many like you, and myself who are new to the adventure. I’ve only been open about my want of CD a little over a year abs only really just started about 6 months ago.
I’m extremely happy to hear your partner is open to it. That will in itself help you along a lot many of us either have partners who don’t like it so have to keep it hidden, partners who know abs are ok with it as long as they aren’t involved, ones that they could never tell, and many who are unsure of wether to come out to their partner. mine is taking baby steps herself getting used to the idea of my CD but is ok helping with clothes and things. So I’m lucky in that aspect.
there are ladies here from all walks of life and various parts of the world. It’s such a loving community and so very helpful. If ever you just want a friend to talk to, or have any questions feel free to ask as the ladies here can tell you I’m a free spirit always willing to listen☺️
Lots of Love
- March 16, 2021 at 4:17 am #464451DuchessRegistered On: March 16, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 29Has thanked: 45 timesBeen thanked: 126 times
Thank you Tonya 🥰
Already I have been welcomed to this site and I am so grateful that I am able to ask for advice, while I’ve dabbled in crossdressing for years, I have decided I want to fully embrace it, as it is something that makes me happy. I feel so comfortable when I’m wearing pretty clothes.
It really does help knowing that I have a partner who will support me. It also makes everything so much easier being a part of the community on here. So many friendly ladies already.
I will gladly add you as a friend as it is great to be able to have someone who can offer advice. Or even just to listen when I feel like my makeup skills are woeful and I’m ready to cry lol
- March 16, 2021 at 4:33 am #464456Tonya LerenLadyRegistered On: January 5, 2021Topics: 23Replies: 223Has thanked: 635 timesBeen thanked: 1094 times
I have yet to dabble in make-up as far as putting it on myself so, I know the tears of feeling I can’t do it right are going to come.
I dabbled for a long time myself before coming to terms with myself saying,”I feel amazing when wearing a cute top with a pair of equally cute jeans, knowing the panties, and as of only recently about a month, the bra I’m wearing fit and feel better than any male clothes have ever felt. I just recently, Sunday to be exact bought my first skirt, and a pair of short side zip boots and a new bra. Can’t wait for Saturday when I get to wear it all for the first time🥰😻
- March 16, 2021 at 9:32 am #464563DuchessRegistered On: March 16, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 29Has thanked: 45 timesBeen thanked: 126 times
I have always felt that about women’s panties and tights, that they have felt so much better on my skin that anything I could ever buy in the men’s section. I think with makeup it’s going to be baby steps, learning one technique at a time, getting it right, and one day I’ll look half presentable and less like the Joker lol
- March 16, 2021 at 3:47 am #464437Teralynn LovingLadyRegistered On: October 17, 2019Topics: 3Replies: 1155Has thanked: 10683 timesBeen thanked: 2222 times
Hi Kellie, Teralynn here. Welcome to CDH Luv! I am an American living in rural Florida and I will communicate with anyone who wishes to communicate with me. Love and understanding knows no geopolitical or national borders. We have members from all of the world and all crossdressing people and their significant others are welcome here as long as they observe the site’s rules. You won’t find a more accepting and supportive site for crossdressing people than this one. Give your understanding wife a big hug and kiss for me. I am seeing more and more people who are telling us that there significant others are at least somwhat accepting and supportive. Yet there are many crossdressing people who long for such a person to be in their life. There is even a group on this site for significant others that can be very helpful for those that may have many questions about crossdressing. It is not open to anyone – just the significant others of crossdressing people. You should mention this to your wife and encourage her to join the site in her own right. I look at crossdressing from a psychological perspective because I have a background in psychology. I am also available to assist in understanding the why and how to deal with a lot of crossdressing matters, and will respond to anyone having a specific problem(s) with their crossdressing journey. However, if there are problems with makeup or fashion your wife or some of our other wonderful members would be better able to assist in those areas. They are all accepting, supportive and friendly. Wait until you see how many welcoming posts you get and then you will see what I mean. If I can ever be of service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. A post on my home profile page wall or a private message will get the fastest response. – Blessings from Teralynn
- March 16, 2021 at 3:58 am #464441DuchessRegistered On: March 16, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 29Has thanked: 45 timesBeen thanked: 126 times
Thank you 😊 already I have been made to feel welcome in the chat. So many friendly ladies. I can’t wait to grow as Kellie and get to know more people who understand me and can help me grow in confidence as a woman. I will mention to my partner regarding the forum dedicated to supportive partners/significant others. I’m sure she would like to help me be who I want to be.
Thank you again
- March 16, 2021 at 3:30 am #464428Eva KellyDuchessRegistered On: March 1, 2021Topics: 7Replies: 257Has thanked: 2830 timesBeen thanked: 1227 times
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