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    Isshe
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    Last night was such a nice night for me, after a not too great day. My SO obviously knew that I wasn’t very happy so she said, come on, let’s get dressed up. She took me up to the bedroom and got some of my underwear out and asked what I would like to wear, then got out some tops and dresses for me to pick one (a nice shimmery flapper style dress was the chosen one) and a selection of tights (pantyhose) to choose from. I was dispatched to do my makeup and nails while she dressed and did the same. That is the first time that we have ever dressed together and she was pro-active in helping me choose and dress, even taking an interest in my self adhesive ‘invisible’ bra, as she had never seen one before. I had discussed them with her but did not get dressed in front of her, just in case it was too weird for her, but we crossed that threshold last night. She looked great in a red top with sparkly stars on and some black leggings. She says we should do it one night each weekend, if we can. Well at the start of this year I would never have believed such things were possible but I just feel so lucky, right now, to have such a caring and understanding SO. If I hadn’t asked her to paint my nails for me one night, we would never be where we are now. πŸ™‚

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      Chloe Grace Anthony
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      I’m so jealous! I wish my wife would let me do that, though I wouldn’t do so right now with my mother in law in town.

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      • #650250
        Isshe
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        Maybe you could do a 3-way with the mother-in-law πŸ™‚

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          Chloe Grace Anthony
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          No, she wouldn’t stand for it. My wife won’t either.

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      Brielle Ross
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      Hang on to this SO! She is very special and you are so fortunate to have her in your life.

      Hugs,

      Brie

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      Danielle MacGuffin
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      Isshe… sounds like a wonderful night! So happy for you! Take care of your SO, she’s a keeper.

      Xoxo,

      Dani

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      • #647572
        Isshe
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        You are so right Danielle πŸ™‚

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      Mia Mor’e
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      You are so blessed to have a spouse that supports you!!! Let’s all give a BIG SHOUT OUT to all the SO’s that support us girls !!!!!!

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      Your experience sounds amazing. Hoping to get there with my wife!

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      • #647124
        Isshe
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        Hi Sophie. I started with my nails and let her get used to them for a while and then asked if I could try a little makeup and just built it up like that. Before long she was buying me nail polish, makeup and later underwear and clothing, as she could see how it was helping me. If I had jumped in with everything all at once, I honestly think the result would have been quite different. We haven’t got as far as the wig stage yet but hopefully it will come, eventually.

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          Yes. I believe taking it slowly is important. Today my wife asked if I could go to the grocery with her. I said yes, and asked if I could wear my black leggins. She was OK with it. Then she gave me grief about the shirt I had on as it didnt cover my rear. I put on a longer mens shirt and away we went. It was my first time out of the car in public with womens clothing on.

          Sophie

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          • #647169
            Isshe
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            Oh Sophie that is brilliant. Such a milestone. You will be so happy and proud of yourself and something to build on.

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            Thank you! One day I would love to have dinner out fully dressed with my wife and one of her friends. A girls night out. This is out there a bit but a goal of mine. First I have to go out dressed with her a few times, I’m going to try this next time we are out of town. I think she will be accepting knowing we will not run into someone we know.

             

            Sophie.

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          • #647356
            Isshe
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            Fingers crossed, then. I do hope it goes well and that you have a great time. We all need something to look forward to in our lives, to keep us going.

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      Jaime Dallas
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      Congratulations Isshe!! Wish you both have many more such nights.

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      • #647088
        Isshe
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        Many thanks, Jaine. Me too πŸ™‚ We have just been looking at other outfits for me. She has definitely had a swing towards supporting me, as she can see how it is helping me as a person.

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      Cassie Jayson
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      Isshe, SOOOOOOOO happy for the both of you. Wishing the both of you many more happy nights and days.

      Cassie

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      • #647015
        Isshe
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        Thank you so much, Cassie. We do seem to have crossed a bridge, here.

    • #646756
      Katie Plowright
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      Isshe, wonderful, beautiful congratulations. Look after your wife and pamper her. I am also lucky to have an accepting wife, as with you it’s only taken 36 years for me. Katie

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      • #646773
        Isshe
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        Thank you Katie. I wonder if I should have done it earlier but maybe now was just the right time? Better late than never, I guess.

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    • #646726
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      I would stop by a florist shop today and buy her a bouquet of her favorite flowers or take her out for a special evening.Β  She is a very special lady.

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      • #646735
        Isshe
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        She is special, Barbie, so just to show her how special she is, we went and planted two new trees in her niece’s field boundary. See, who said romance was dead 😁

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          Barbie Satin
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          <script src=”moz-extension://a5db4fb3-7504-42a5-af80-56e622fefbfe/js/app.js” type=”text/javascript”></script>I love that! Planting trees is a a very romantic thing to do because it affirms the future.

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          • #646752
            Isshe
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            My wife loves her garden and plants. We grew these trees from seed so have been nurturing them for 4 years now. It was very tongue in cheek of me saying it was romantic but I know she will be grateful that I took the time to gwt all the equipment to go and plant the trees, stakes, manure, water, spade etc as well as transporting them as they are 7-8 feet tall.

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    • #646721
      Natalie Dane
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      Isshe, What a fantastic surprise! After a long and stressful day ins’t getting dressed up the best way to let things go. I truly hope you’re able to maintain a weekly ritual of girl time with your spouse. – Natalie.

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      • #646736
        Isshe
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        Thanks Natalie. I hope we manage to as well as it cements our bond, when I know just how much she cares.

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      Suzanne Martin
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      What a lovely surprise and evening – very happy for you – you are lucky to have such an understanding SO

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      • #646738
        Isshe
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        It turned an otherwise bad day for me into a great day that relieved my stress completely. She is a star.

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          Suzanne Martin
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          Isshe –

          I can relate to the stress reduction part of dressing.Β  In a number of conversations I have had with my wife she has mentioned that my dressing helps to reduce my stress.Β  It is nice that she acknowledges that and will give me time to dress.Β  You are very fortunate to have such a lovely SO that helps you dress andΒ  spend time with you dressed.Β  I hope that I can do the same some day.

          XOXO
          Suzanne

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          • #647056
            Isshe
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            Thanks Suzanne, I hope that you can too, as it makes such a difference to feeling accepted and the difference in being relaxed is amazing. I feel that she is really buying into it, now, and is helping more and more.

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      Julie Shaw
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      Never take her for granted – a supportive spouse is a treasure.Β  You are blessed, Sweetie.

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      • #646739
        Isshe
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        I feel very blessed to have someone who cares so much and I have real sympathy for those who are not as fortunate as I am.

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    • #646712
      Michelle Isgurly
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      What a great night that must have been, love your story 💖 She loves you very much.

      I wish my wife would surprise me that way. She’s off and on with it but is ok with it for the most part. She did like my photo’s that I just posted here the other day and said I did a pretty good job with my makeup, that made me happy 🥰

      Michelle 💋💋

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      • #646983
        Jane Mansfield
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        Hi Michelle, congrats on your wise comments. It us so important to have support from our SO We all need reassurance, and what a way to spice up our marriages. The feeling of closeness and wlingness to do more increases.
        Humans can often achieve wonderful deeds like generosity of spirit, love ,understanding.
        Keep working on your dreams, oerhaps suggest a weekend trip. Worked wonders fir my SO and myself.
        Best Wishes
        Jane

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      • #646742
        Isshe
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        Thanks Michelle. I probably didn’t realise how much she did care for me until I came out to her. We have been together 38 years and it ia easy to take each other for granted but I have certainly got newly rekindled love and respect for her.

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      Sarah Kanter
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      I hope you always treasure this opportunity to go out with your wife. A dressed up date night with my wife, even once a month, would be a dream come true for me. I am so happy for you!

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      • #646744
        Isshe
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        Thank you Sarah. I hope this comes true for you sometime soon in the futue.

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    • #646704
      Michelle McQueen
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      Its scary and a huge gamble coming out to our SO’s but the results can be surprising and so rewarding. Glad your situation turned out so wonderful. Hope you and the wife can have tons of fun now and I know you will be looking forward to the weekends. She has gained a new girlfriend.

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      • #646745
        Isshe
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        Thanks Michelle. It exceeeded my wildest dreams and just goes to show thay even after 38 years she can still surprise me.

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          Michelle McQueen
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          Yep no one can really say how things will go when coming out. My long term wife is supportive too. I think that a long term marriage is in our favor of keeping together, and the SO more willing to try and understand our fem side. They probably realize that decades of building a complex life with what was always a good husband, is more valuable than their partner wearing a few female clothes now and then. After a time they can see the relationship becomes closer and more bonding than before with this shared secret.

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          • #646811
            Isshe
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            I think you are so right. After answering the usual questions. It was fine.

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      Jane Mansfield
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      Welcome Isshe out, i am very happy for you, to have a beautiful accepting SO.
      As you say without telling her about your inner dreams you may have been in turmoil, or not where you are.
      Communication, and faith in your partner is a key to our dressing. It has taken time and a willing attitude but my SO, is also accepting, and understands how I have suppressed my feelings for too long.
      A win for you, and your SO.
      Well fone life life, enjoy.
      Jane

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        Isshe
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        Thank you Jane. It was a fight for a long time before I plucked up the courage. I honestly didn’t know that she would accept it but we have been together for 38 years and obviously thought I was worth keeping πŸ™‚

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      Billie
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      Thanks for sharing a great story. Very lucky to have a wonderful wife.

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        Isshe
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        I feel very blessed, Billie.

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      Patty Phose
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      Great night Isshe. Hope you have many more.

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        Isshe
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        Thank you Patty, that is very kind.

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