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- September 19, 2020 at 8:05 am #385222
Greetings, gurls. I am single and in my late 60s and I still have soaring hopes for a romance as CeCe. This kind of relationship is eluding me, however. I have not yet found a man or woman who wants to romance me as CeCe. Does anyone have any advice?
- September 19, 2020 at 8:28 am #385232
Hi Cece,
I don’t have much in the way of advice, but being in my 60s I imagine dating is a challenge, not to mention the whole Covid thing.
I wish you the best in finding love and am hoping it happens for you.
Heather
- September 20, 2020 at 6:37 am #385516
Hi, yes, this topic pops up occasionally. I myself have posted about it as well.
I date men, so I can only speak from that point of view. It’s hard to find men who really want a CD, not impossible, but hard.
I meet many straight/bi men who like CDs but are reluctant to actually meet and fool around, let alone date. Often, these men are married so they are secretive to the point of absurdly paranoid.
Gay men tend to not be into CDs. Some sisters here will disagree, but I find this to be true over and over again. Just this week, a gay guy propositioned me. He wants me in thongs, jock straps etc, but claims to be turned off by anything feminine, so my CDing is out. To each his own, I suppose. This sort of thing happens to me A LOT.
If you do find a guy who genuinely wants you as a CD, my advice is HOLD ON to him and don’t let go. He’s a pretty rare find.
- September 21, 2020 at 8:13 am #385979
I can only say, be sweet, be kind, and keep your eyes open because you don’t want to miss any opportunity to meet another good person.
- February 3, 2021 at 7:24 am #442326
I think most would want to have a romantic partner. That so hard to find but I believe they re out there. Don’t give up the search and don’t settle.
- February 3, 2021 at 7:55 am #442346Anonymous
Hi CeCe
I agree with Jenny.
I date men or meet just to fool around and and for most it has to be in secret because they are bi/straight and married.
But on the flip side I have met some men that are interested in dating a CD. Recently I was out at a store and a fellow got the “courage” to approach me. I am very honest and explained who I am and we met up a few days later and had a wonderful evening together. Walking down the street holding hands felt amazing. One of those girlie moments.
Like Tabitha said be sweet and kind because you never know when the opportunity to meet someone will happen.
Hugs
Jessica
- February 3, 2021 at 8:55 am #442384
Hi all
This is an interesting subject with some lovely comments, but please be careful what you post.
May I say firstly, that there is nothing wrong with talking about sexual desire and preference as it relates to crossdressing.
It is perfectly acceptable to say “I am attracted to women” or “I am attracted to men, but only when I crossdress” or similar general comments.
However, In order to keep this site functioning the way it was intended to, I am going to ask you all to refrain from discussing specific sexual practices, techniques or results in the replies to this thread.
The subject in this topic is quite close to the boundaries, so it is easy to post something which is out with the site guidelines
Also, please do not post links to forums or sites which are not seen as ‘family friendly’ as these are not with in the sites remit.
We will edit some posts that we feel are a little close to the line, so just a gentle reminder.
I appreciate your help in keeping CDH a sanctuary for us girls.
Thank you !
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- February 3, 2021 at 1:54 pm #442517Anonymous
Fetlife????
C💋
- February 6, 2021 at 10:15 pm #444176
Be open and honest about what you want and then let go. It’s shocking how attracted many people are to brutal honesty and confidence.
When I first presented, meekly, the idea of making love while crossdressed to my wife more than 10 years ago, she nearly divorced me. The subject was reapproached a few years later and I confidently stated that this was a significant desire of mine, she agreed in order to please me. Now, it’s not something we do with any frequency, but it’s something.
- February 14, 2021 at 1:44 pm #448147
Darling Cece…
Get out and about! Dress up and go to plays, shows… have dinner out (take a book). Be confident , hold your posture and show your confidence! There is a heap to be said in the phrase ‘fake it until you make it’.
The Internet is a wonderful tool if you take care in its use and it can net you a whole lot of friends but the real friends are the ones you meet at the bowling club or the bridge club etc.Hugs Polly
- February 15, 2021 at 7:56 am #448556
I hope you find someone. It will happen!
I’ve had men approach me while shopping, but they seemed to be a bit seedy.
Just be careful!!
- February 15, 2021 at 1:45 pm #448730Anonymous
Don’t give up CeCe they are out there I am 57 and found this wonderful guy met about month ago when dining with friends. Now we dating me as Donna and him a perfect gentlemen.
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