What is your favorite piece of shapewear to wear?
This poll asks what is your favorite piece of shapewear to wear?
- Girdle
- Pads (hip, butt)
- Padded panty girdle
- Waist nipper/cincher
- Corset
- Other
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- January 30, 2023 at 7:33 am #713955
Holly Morris
ParticipantRegistered On: April 15, 2022Topics: 117Replies: 311Has thanked: 3871 timesBeen thanked: 3874 timesHi ladies!
If you’re like me, you’re probably afflicted with the dreaded MBS Syndrome. MBS = male body structure, and no, it’s not real, I just made it up! 😉 But the syndrome is real, in that many of us who crossdress don’t have any of those luscious feminine curves that we so long for, we just have the flat butts, no curves, bigger stomachs and no hips that sometimes make it difficult to camouflage the fact that we’re not biological women.
So of course, that’s where shapewear comes in! And if you’re like me, you love your shapewear! I love it, because wearing it just reminds me on a daily basis how feminized I am and how wonderful it is to be a woman! Especially girdles, I love girdles! Whether they’re the longline pantygirdles, body briefers, open bottom style with garters to attach my stockings or padded panty girdles that really help me get that lovely feminine silhouette we all desire, I love shapewear! My favorite is my padded Veronica panty girdle from Classic Curves International. It gives me padding on both my hips and butt so that, when combined with a waist cincher or corset, I have the classic feminine hourglass shape that just screams “I’m a woman!”
So of course, that got me to wondering…
What is your favorite piece of shapewear to wear?
I’m not talking about breast forms and breast plates, we all love and use those, I’m talking about shapewear that helps you get that womanly form we all want to have.
Hugs,
Holly
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- February 9, 2023 at 3:19 pm #717059
Kari_B
LadyRegistered On: December 7, 2015Topics: 2Replies: 2Has thanked: 7 timesBeen thanked: 8 timesI have a black one piece Cupid body shaper with 3 hooks at the gusset. Love it.
Kari 💋
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- February 2, 2023 at 8:15 am #714789
Sarah Kanter
LadyRegistered On: April 25, 2019Topics: 18Replies: 199Has thanked: 455 timesBeen thanked: 1108 timesI have two pieces that I really love to wear. One is a black body suit. It’s only shape wear in the sense that it’s designed to smooth everything out. There’s no padding. It’s like a one piece women’s swimsuit. It’s fun to put it on first, then get all my other clothes for the day put together. The other is similar but it’s a “wear your own bra shaping slip.” So, it’s like a dress down below instead of a brief and it doesn’t cover the breasts.
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- February 2, 2023 at 7:11 am #714771
Coleen Edinburgh
LadyRegistered On: November 27, 2019Topics: 1Replies: 64Has thanked: 555 timesBeen thanked: 275 timesI put other on the pole as my preference is an open-bottom corselette. This is due to easily going to the little girl’s room and it always feels like I am receiving a hug.
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- February 1, 2023 at 4:07 pm #714596
Jennifer Connolly
DuchessRegistered On: November 27, 2022Topics: 14Replies: 173Has thanked: 526 timesBeen thanked: 1118 timesThanks, Holly, you always have great polls.
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- February 2, 2023 at 8:01 am #714784
Holly Morris
LadyRegistered On: April 15, 2022Topics: 117Replies: 311Has thanked: 3871 timesBeen thanked: 3874 timesThank you, Jennifer!
- February 1, 2023 at 4:06 pm #714594
Jennifer Connolly
DuchessRegistered On: November 27, 2022Topics: 14Replies: 173Has thanked: 526 timesBeen thanked: 1118 timesI voted corset. I really haven’t found anything that takes my very male, no waist body to an hour glass figure like I want. My only complaint with them is that they are hard to hide under tight fitting clothing. But the good news is that lighting and good photography can help to hide it underneath everything. But I still need a panty girdle to hide everything that the corset pushed down there.
I just wish that I could go without all this, like Lauren, but I for sure can’t, and hope to look like a real women. But luckily, I have been blessed with a face that can be made to look like a woman. No padding or foundation garments there, just makeup. I’ll take what I’ve been given. Before I completely dressed, I didn’t think I had the face or the body to pull this off, but luckily all of my girlfriends have encouraged me to keep on going.
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- February 2, 2023 at 7:59 am #714782
Lorraine Lowry
DuchessRegistered On: January 2, 2023Topics: 0Replies: 150Has thanked: 261 timesBeen thanked: 530 timesAgree, I love my corset but it is just to bulky under clothes. So I just wear with panties. Under my clothing I use a very tight waist cincher. So tight I can’t hook it so I hook it and pull on .
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- February 1, 2023 at 12:32 pm #714544
Michelle McQueen
LadyRegistered On: June 14, 2021Topics: 31Replies: 1895Has thanked: 14588 timesBeen thanked: 9572 timesI voted for girdles which I love but having no butt and too much stomach I use a waist cincher to hold everything together. I have shorts with foam butt pads that help but I would really like some silicone Dresstech hip and thigh pads.
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- January 31, 2023 at 12:23 pm #714242
Meghan Brandice
LadyRegistered On: April 15, 2022Topics: 17Replies: 294Has thanked: 461 timesBeen thanked: 1317 timesStyle 9357 | Body Briefer Extra Firm Shaping – Black RAGO all the way. Even though I have open bottom girdle, panty girdle with garters, corset and many waist cinchers I find that the All-In-One Rago body shaper (with 6 garters) answers all my needs; holding up stockings, form fitting bra, firm tummy trimmer, and open bottom do panties go over the top for bathroom needs. I have Three; 2 White, 1 black. Other similar body shapers are called Bustiers, corselets, and Basques. Go to their website
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- February 1, 2023 at 4:59 pm #714608
Laurel
LadyRegistered On: August 15, 2020Topics: 2Replies: 59Has thanked: 556 timesBeen thanked: 234 timesBravo Meghan, love everything from Rago. Sadly, Secrets in Lace is carrying fewer Rago choices these days but you can still find them online through other sources too. Great poll.
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- February 1, 2023 at 6:33 am #714456
Holly Morris
LadyRegistered On: April 15, 2022Topics: 117Replies: 311Has thanked: 3871 timesBeen thanked: 3874 timesMeghan, like you, I love all the Rago girdles and shapers!
Hugs,
Holly
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- January 31, 2023 at 7:48 am #714180
Kimmie
LadyRegistered On: September 27, 2016Topics: 4Replies: 296Has thanked: 202 timesBeen thanked: 1320 timesGirdle. Likely because my mom’s girdles were among the first female clothes I tried on. They have remained among my favorites because I truly enjoy the feeling of being held in tightly. Also, back in the day, styles often included lace trim around the legs, satin panels and small flowers at the waist. I know that type is still available, but most top selling brands like Skims, Spanx, Flexees are just so plain . . . .
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- January 31, 2023 at 7:52 am #714183
Holly Morris
LadyRegistered On: April 15, 2022Topics: 117Replies: 311Has thanked: 3871 timesBeen thanked: 3874 timesKimmie, I totally agree with you! Spanx and the like, while they work, just aren’t as feminine and pretty as the older styles, which is why I’d always rather wear those than anything else! 🙂
Hugs,
Holly
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- January 31, 2023 at 3:42 am #714149
Lucinda Hawkns
LadyRegistered On: September 1, 2015Topics: 6Replies: 1454Has thanked: 93 timesBeen thanked: 2125 timesi like to wear pads with my panties, also love to wear a bra and nylons. but from there i just have to finish off with a dress or skirt and blouse and make up and earrings, perfume, necklace heels.
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- January 31, 2023 at 12:24 pm #714243
Meghan Brandice
LadyRegistered On: April 15, 2022Topics: 17Replies: 294Has thanked: 461 timesBeen thanked: 1317 timesDon’t forget to wear a nice frilly lace trimmed Slip to complete the feminine under garments
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- February 2, 2023 at 7:57 am #714780
Holly Morris
LadyRegistered On: April 15, 2022Topics: 117Replies: 311Has thanked: 3871 timesBeen thanked: 3874 timesMeghan, absolutely! I always wear a slip, whether a full one under my dresses or a half slip under my skirts.
Hugs,
Holly
- January 31, 2023 at 12:25 am #714141
Emily Alt
AmbassadorRegistered On: August 24, 2019Topics: 26Replies: 1391Has thanked: 1586 timesBeen thanked: 7266 timesI voted girdle. I don’t wear one often….only when special occasions call for one. I used to love wearing an all-in-one (body briefer) when I was in the closet. But they’re not well suited for my out lifestyle.
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- January 30, 2023 at 8:20 pm #714124
Marg Produe
LadyRegistered On: March 16, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 400Has thanked: 1853 timesBeen thanked: 1603 timesHi Holly, About the only time that I wear any shapewear is around holidays when I eat too much and work too little. Then I wear control top pantyhose or a small panty girdle until I’ve lost the weight (which usually settles on my gut). I remind myself not to overindulge again and take two weeks to get my old body back. Unfortunately, I find myself repeating the process at almost every holiday season. lol Marg
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- January 30, 2023 at 7:12 pm #714109
Alison Anderson
DuchessRegistered On: October 15, 2018Topics: 15Replies: 1017Has thanked: 796 timesBeen thanked: 4303 timesI can’t say I have a favorite, as I do different things at different times.
Sometimes I wear control top tights to hold me in. In warmer months it might be control top pantyhose. Other times I’ll wear a panty girdle over a thong. On occasion I’ll wear a gender bending g-string.
For shaping the hips, I’m often in a wide skirt so I don’t worry about padding. Occasionally I’ll wear a petticoat, or in the summer a soft tutu petticoat to add just a bit of volume. Occasionally I’ll wear a padded girdle. But most of the time I don’t bother.
Comedienne Carol Burnett had a number of skits where she would play a dumb sexy secretary. She would always walk bent over with her rear sticking out. When asked why she did this, she would reply that she was flat back there. If it’s good enough for her to be flat, it’s good enough for me too.
Occasionally I’ll wear a corset to pull in my waist. But most of the time I don’t worry about that either. It’s too much effort to put on, especially if I’m not going to be out for too long, or I don’t want to have trouble breathing. I also find when wearing a corset it is more difficult to keep my legs together. I can’t sit back in a chair, I have to sit closer to the edge.
In short, I’ll wear something to keep me from tenting the skirt, but most of the time that’s about it. And what I wear depends on the season and occasion.
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- January 30, 2023 at 5:02 pm #714096
Susan Talbot
DuchessRegistered On: June 28, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 327Has thanked: 5128 timesBeen thanked: 1369 timesI tried a bunch of stuff and I really love the Honeylove brand. The waist cincher is awesome and easy to put on.
I also have the Superpower brief and the Superpower short. The short has an easy open gusset if you need the bathroom. They really hold everything and there has never been any roll down or roll up.
The also have good shaping panties. They help keep you in and tucked too.
Susan.
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- January 30, 2023 at 4:26 pm #714088
Lauren Mugnaia
DuchessRegistered On: November 1, 2021Topics: 28Replies: 698Has thanked: 12651 timesBeen thanked: 4065 timesI don’t want to make you girls angry with me, but I don’t require much in the way of shapewear. I actually have good looking hips, thighs and what the girls at work say is a nice round butt. Put that together with my bra and breast forms and I actually have an hourglass figure. But I do love my ‘Shapermint’ scoop neck camisoles! They have enough control to keep my little bit of spare tire in check.
Hugs,
Ms. Lauren M
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- January 30, 2023 at 9:19 pm #714129
Carmen Cruz
LadyRegistered On: September 12, 2021Topics: 37Replies: 383Has thanked: 559 timesBeen thanked: 2346 timesWell, I don’t have much shape to shapewear anyway… so there ya curvy girl! I’m un-curvy! Well, that and I don’t wear enough clothes to be able to hide shapewear anyway Hehehehe!
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- January 30, 2023 at 4:08 pm #714086
Jill Lacey
LadyRegistered On: December 25, 2022Topics: 3Replies: 200Has thanked: 202 timesBeen thanked: 609 timesButt/ hip pads. Some look good some not so much. Some make me look like a full back in the NFL The best ones I’ve found so far were in Bealls and Burlington stores. They just add enough without looking like I’m wearing two pillows stuffed under my dress. Realistic ones are hard to find. Some look great in pictures but look terrible in reality.
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- January 30, 2023 at 2:57 pm #714072
Kris Burton
LadyRegistered On: August 6, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 129Has thanked: 572 timesBeen thanked: 796 timesMy hip pads are essential. With my snake hips, I do not feel fully dressed without them!
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- January 30, 2023 at 1:42 pm #714046
Fiona Black
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: November 23, 2019Topics: 1Replies: 537Has thanked: 391 timesBeen thanked: 2342 timesHolly,
I absolutely love open bottom girdles with garter straps!
Fiona
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- January 30, 2023 at 11:05 am #714010
Gwyneth
LadyRegistered On: January 21, 2021Topics: 6Replies: 442Has thanked: 3008 timesBeen thanked: 1614 timesI see the need for an “All of the Above” to vote for!
Gwyn
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- January 30, 2023 at 9:43 am #713997
Angela Booth
LadyRegistered On: August 1, 2020Topics: 9Replies: 1532Has thanked: 5441 timesBeen thanked: 7079 timesMy home made hip and bum pads which give me a lovely derriere for dresses and skirts to hang properly…..
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- January 30, 2023 at 9:07 am #713977
Wendy Swift
LadyRegistered On: May 11, 2020Topics: 12Replies: 943Has thanked: 1021 timesBeen thanked: 4327 timesShapewear is an absolute must in my wardrobe. It holds my hip/butt padding in place, and kinda slims (term used loosely) my gut.
I used to wear mid/long leg shapewear, but I found it kept rolling down, and it isn’t that womanly to keep hiking up your shapewear.
So now I only use wear your own bra torsette/single mid/long long shapers. My 2 fave brands are maidenform and naomi and nicole.
Maidenform ones are smooth, and has no seams which is great. Because it cinches everything in, I also get wicked vpl. As well, these shapers have a bathroom cut out so you don’t have to take everything off to go to the bathroom.
I also like the part of wearing my own bra. So I wear pocketed bras for my breastforms so that works out very well.
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