A Transgender Wife and a Transgender Husband in Love

I enjoyed reading your story . My saying is if our husbands can accept us for who we are then we need to accept our husbands for who they are . I love my husband dearly and im walking this journey with him where ever it may take us and who knows i may have a journey of my own to take someday and I know he will be right there by my side . My husbands name is Michelle
Cynthia K

This is AWESOME! Great story.

Absolutely fantastic.Funny but my wife wears the hair style of a guy more than a gal and I'm the opposite. She still is negative about the cross dressing but I was doing it when we got married years ago.

Thank you so much for sharing your story...I am a supportive girlfriend of someone who bared their soul, as well. I met his "news" with acceptance and love the way you did because I, too, was raised to love people for who they are. We have become closer and closer as time has progressed and for that I am more than grateful. I thank you for sharing your story because it is so nice to know that there are others who have embarked on this journey together as we have. A unique and amazing journey.

that is great i came out to my wife, and she is not understanding about it.

I suppose that my story is similar to all those that i've read over many years. I guess what is really needed is for a movement to start to try and make our so difficult lives acceptable in public. Why should people react the way they do? Is it because we look 'odd' or is it because it is the last great taboo to fall.

Just imagine your wife dressing like a man. Gee isnt that wonderful Get real. Its a sensative situation. Volitile, potentially explosive. Take it slow, and be prepared for the worst!

my boyfriend recently shared to me that he likes to crossdress i think it is cool it is different but to me i think what ever he wants to do i am here for him no matter what i love him for him. i think that your story is goodfor people to read thank you.

That is such a wonderful story <3

Great story but this is a pretty far exception to the rule. My worry is what if you have a wife that doesn't want or seems to not want your relationship to get closer? I know divorce should have taken place but that's a cop out. It's the easy way. Everyone wants the easy way. I don't know what the real answer is myself, but this couple in this story must be pretty exceptional people. I certainly wish them all the luck in their quests, especially coming out to friends and family. No need to wish them love and happiness since most certainly it seems they have it all in those departments. What a great couple they must be.

I am honestly wondering that the acceptance garnered by successful revelation of a desire to crossdress isn't an additional reflection of the wife's desire for some form of crossdressing also.
My wonderful wife took to my crossdressing like a duck to water. However, we attribute some of her open-mindness to her Tomboy-like behavior. I wonder.....

My wife encourages me to crossdress at home all the time. Even though she is a very feminine looking woman, I consider her to be a female to male crossdresser herself since she only wears men's clothing, jeans, plaid shirts, work boots, etc. When we make love she always wears loose fitting sleeveless tee shirts and men's briefs with a large realistic dildo inside her underpants making it appear that she has a large stiff erect penis. Of course she plays the male and I play the female role in our love making. I guess you can say that we are both crossdressers.

My wife knows of my crossdressing, but does not participate or encourage me in any way. She knew I was a crossdresser before we married, and I was in the hope it would in someway be a part of our marriage. However; that just hasn't occured, as she seems to want nothing to do with the subject. I would like so much for her to be encouraging and supportive in my crossdressing, in return I'd be agreeable to almost any freedom she'd choose to pursue. This would include her having a personal and intimate relationship with another man if she so desired. I would fully understand and accept her need and desire to experience sex with a " real man ", and it might even be a turn-on for me. However; I just don't think my wife has it in her to be that adventurous or experimental. I guess I can just keep dreaming and fantasizing! All comments or especially suggestions welcome. Sincerely; Michelle

My wife and I have been married for 26 years and I only came out to her about 3 years ago, it got off to a shaky start but then she encouraged me to dress while she was about, she even bought me a few items, she really did make an effort to embrace it, unfortunately she can't do it and it has now almost become a don't ask don't tell, I say almost as she still questions me as to whether I've dressed or not, I'd prefer if she just ignored it completely now, it doesn't interfere with our lives as a couple