The Gay Best Friend…

[Samantha Roarke]

One of my best friends I hang out with in the French Quarter on weekends is an older gay male. I’m a straight male, not a homophobe at all. We shop, have coffee talk, walk around all the fun shops and do lunch, sometimes we’ll go to the Country Club pool and just people watch. I confide in my friend, and share personal thoughts on my marriage, whats going on in my life and just life in general; but that is what besties are for, right? My wife, from what I think feels maybe threaten of my friend or jealous of the time I spend with him because she is always working. She may even think there is a sexual element there which there isn’t. I don’t know how to put her at ease about all this. Now I almost feel guilty now for spending time with my BFF. What are your thoughts on this….

[Olivia Livin]

We all want that kind of person in our lives. I have unfortunately distanced myself from my best friend because I don’t trust his wife with the the knowledgeof my truly expanded universe.

The best you can do is provide reassurances to your wife and hope she believes and understands you.

[Author]

Posts