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Angela Wagner
Even as a boy, I thought girl’s clothing was more interesting than boy’s clothing. I dabbled with crossdressing in my early 20’s trying on my sisters’ clothes — but didn’t take it very far because very little fit me. Eventually my attention turned to my career — getting my degree and teaching at a university. So my crossdressing laid dormant for decades. But the itch never totally went away. When I retired, I realized that the time was right to try my hand at crossdressing again. Except this time I got serious. The internet provided me with women’s apparel that actually fit me — and delivered it to my front door. YouTube taught me how to apply makeup and other tricks to feminize my appearance. And I had the time and freedom to experiment. The result is that I was able to create Angela, a woman whose beauty and femininity exceeded my wildest expectations. I’m sorry if that sounds vain, but I’ll never forget the first time I saw her in the mirror, fully realized, staring back at me. What a rush! If only my 20-something self could see me now! I joined Crossdresser Heaven about three months after I got back into crossdressing, and it changed my life. The support and love I feel from this community has given me the confidence and courage to take my crossdressing to the next level. I have now begun to go out in public as Angela — something that I honestly thought I would never do when I began my crossdressing journey. So what’s next? Going shopping with my CDH friends, a professional makeover, and a convention or two. Stay tuned.
I’m so happy for you!! And like most here, I’m also proud for this achievement!! It is not a small thing! And has changed your life already! True, many are unable to do it or just not interested in doing it and I wholeheartedly respect that.
But you really, really wanted to go for it and you did it! Almost magical! 😉
Cheers to you @Angela Wagner!! Citizen of the world!!
I want to thank you personally, Gabriela, for all the support and advice you’ve given me. Did you notice that I got different shoes, per your suggestion? All of the support and love I’ve received from you and the rest of the photo club gave me the boost of confidence I needed to make this happen. And now that I’ve done it once, the next time will be easier.
Ladies, that is my bestie!!! She is so brave and beautiful. I’m bursting with pride for this huge step in her journey.
Your outfit is perfect!! I love the floral skirt, and the layers with the sweater and the stockings. An adorable museum visitor. And your nails!! They look wonderful.
This gives me so much encouragement, and I’m so glad you had such a positive experience. You are awesome!
Time to change your handle, because Angela is REAL now. ❤️
I just went to edit my profile to include that Angela has now appeared in public. Everyone, you should know that Gemma and I were texting throughout my time in the museum. She was my companion in spirit and the perfect moral support. It greatly added to my excitement and enjoyment of this experience. I’m blessed to have such a good friend as you, Gemma.
(Gushes with pride!) You are the best!!
Congratulations Angela. I am so happy for you. You have every right to be proud. You fit in perfectly.
Thank you, Steph. I am proud. It really wasn’t that long ago that I thought going out en femme in public would never happen for me. It’s hard for me to believe that I got back into crossdressing less than 4 months ago, and have been able to achieve so much in that time. Your support along with others helped make this happen so quickly.
Congratulations Angela I am so happy for to take that step and have a wonderful time with your support sister Gemma via text what an amazing awesome accomplishment. You make me smile knowing the joy and validation you felt being out in public. I am proud of you Angela. What a great site this is to help build support and confidence to take the steps you have and now your confidence will grow even more, truly beautiful!
Hugs April
April, I want you to know that the story that you tell in your bio is one of the things that inspired me. You are one of my role models, and your kind words are especially dear to me.
Angela – You did it babe. Im so proud of you and to have enjoyed yourself too, most of us were so scared we didnt get a chance to enjoy it. What a wonderful experience. I am so happy for you and that now you understand a lot of the fear is in our own mind and that is what is stopping us from becoming who we are. 99% of the people in the outside world only care about themselves and take no notice of anyone around them. So now the world has opened up for up in a new… Read more »
Thank you, Ellie. Everything you said in your comment hits home with me. I knew in my MIND that that there was nothing really to be afraid of. People don’t care, including the few who may suspect you. They don’t care either. In my HEART, however, I was still afraid. But then I entered the museum. The lady in the booth started talking to me, asking me if I had been there before. I couldn’t be rude, so I answered. In my male voice. And she didn’t bat an eye, and told me to have a good time. I went… Read more »
Reading your photo description brought a smile to me as I recalled my first venture outside…Isn’t it exhilarating! You mentioned confidence. That is what will build the more you get out. The more confident, the more comfortable which leads to more enjoyment…if you can imagine that? So happy for you, Angela!
Take care and stay safe
June
Thank you, June. I knew from the outset that confidence is key. If you have it, flaunt it. If you don’t, fake it. To be honest, June, the confidence you express in your photos and captions is one of the things that inspired me. I knew that if I was in a room and somebody walked in, the last thing I wanted to do is lower my head and walk away. If you do that you’ve lost the game. Instead, I made it a point to look everybody in the eye and smile. And exuding an air of confidence is… Read more »
So glad you got out and had a great experience. To me, going out is the ultimate crossdresser experience. There is nothing like it.
Oh, you are so right, Patty. Nothing in my life compares to the joy and fun I got from appearing in public as a woman. As I said in my post, it’s a truly unique experience.
Angela! So so so proud of you!! Your courage is inspiring! Hugs, Debbie Lynn
Thank you, Debbie. It literally took me weeks to psych myself up and drum up the courage to take this first step outside. But it was so worth it!
Congratulations Angela. What an exciting milestone! I see you took Gabriela’s suggestions and you look lovely. The whole outfit works well but I really like that flowered skirt. Well done and I have a feeling this is just the first of many exciting adventures for Angela.
Thank you, Michelle. To me, that flowered skirt was essential for my first appearance in public. I started with that skirt and then worked out the rest of the outfit around it. And yes, I’m already starting to plan my next venture into the public arena.
Congratulations! I am so happy that you have taken your first big step out into the world and pleased that it went so well. My guess is that this is the first of many new and wonderful adventures to come!
Thanks, Kim. I truly was surprised at how much pure fun it was. I expected to walk around the museum in high anxiety the whole time. Driving to the museum I kept telling myself “You can always turn back if you want”. But once I was in the museum, and in the moment, the butterflies in my stomach disappeared and it was very clear to me how awesome it all was. So yes, this is the first of hopefully many public adventures that await Angela.