One Fabulous Day

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by robertaf
December 11, 2021 in

I ended up with the day to myself yesterday. My wife had a few errands to run then was to have a late lunch with a friend. The temp was going near 80. That left me wanting to do something outside. The morning started with some fog and misting but soon gave way to a sunny sky. Looking for something to do I decided to go check on my boat. A regular thing that needs doing. Then I thought I would swing by an outdoor mall, to see if I could pick up a few Christmas gifts. I pulled on a pair of black skinny leg jean had a white and grey pinstripe top along with a pair of black 3 inch sandals, I felt fabulous. Boat was fine,as usual but saw the owner of the marina doing some work nearby. He always loves to come chat when he sees me. Today, I was not dressed as he would have expected. I drove down to the end of the dead end drive and waited so see where he went. At first, I thought he was going to walk all the way down to the end of the drive, where I was paused. I thought I'm stuck now as there was no other way out. Luckily, he turned to something else and I stook the chance to just drove past him without looking. I new he noticed my car and thought that it was me but the long hair from the back must have thru him off. Oh well, has to happen one day. I'm growing beyond the point of caring. It's so odd to get so excited over doing something so daring. Laughing now, I was now on my way to the mall. I had so much fun driving. I had the moon roof open and just got so relaxed as Roberta. I was no longer my male self, I was Roberta and I was going shopping. Now Ii have been out a few times before but this was a new adventure for me. I had no makeup on, only a little lip color. I pulled up in front of the Dillards got out with my purse and walked slowly & easy across the parking lot, to the store entrance. I walked right into the shoe and purse department, what luck is that ! I just ambled around looking touching and even going back for second looks on some items. I was not looking for either a purse or shoes but I was just being a girl and enjoyed the looking. Now at 69 I'm nothing to brag on but I don't think i really care. I was just being me but the men waiting on their wives made it interesting. Now i thought I looked about right. Not to bummy and not too dressed. I thought I looked like someone my age should. However, I could feel eyes on me, checking me out. I've been out a bit but this was my first time mixing it up with a lot of people. Got a few ma'ams can I help you ? Excuse me ma'am can I show you something ? I was having a ball ! I wandered around the perfumes and jewelry cases then ended up in the dress section. Now I don't need any more clothes either but I just felt compelled to look and touch some items. Before I knew it i had pulled and examined a number of items before walking around with 3 dresses in my hand. Then somewhere beside me i heard ma'am would you like to try anything on ? I said why yes, I would. Come right over here, darling, that one will look so good on you. Well i bought two of them. I didn't need either one but I was so into the experience I just had too. You know i had to buy the one she recommended. She bagged my items in a nice dress bag and I left walking out to the building to the other stores. Took my time and walked down the avenue going in a few other stores. Most weren't my type of items but I went in them anyways as I was just caught up in the event. I was being a girl and loving it. I so enjoyed getting "can i help you find something ma'am" every time I walked in. I could have walked into a dozen more stores. I finally got back to my car but decided I hadn't yet had enough. Noticed an Olive Garden Restaurant on the fringe of the center. Decided to go have a glass of wine. Well, that's exactly what I did. Now remember I had no makeup and I'm almost 70. I didn't care, I thought even ugly girls need wine and shopping. I did go use the ladies' room to wash my hands and apply a little more lip color. I got the ma'am again several more times while sitting in the bar enjoying my glass. I had to smile ever time I saw my lipstick on the glass. I drove home after that. drove slowly so I could make it last as long as possible, I got home just before dark, leaving time for another glass on the porch before ordering pizza. Oh, what a wonderful day it was. Ime going to try to attach a photo of the two dresses that I bought.

Roberta Broussard

When younger it was mostly just such a turn on to dab with the taboo. During lockdown last year was the first time that I fully dressed. These days i just sit and enjoy the feeling. It just feels so comfortable when I can put something on.

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Gabriela Romani

2 years ago

What an awesome day @Roberta Broussard . I wish everybody got to experience the same feelings you describe. Being out and fitting totally past the silly “am I passable?” To just enjoy the interactions and the acceptance.
Did anybody “know”? Who cares! You were just enjoying your time out, that’s all!
Back in the day I cared too much about being passable. What a waste of time! Having days similar to yours is so much more rewarding!!
Very happy for you!

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Reply to Gabriela Romani

Thank you Gabriela, i just love all of your pics. I have always admired your taste and style, so glad to now be friends. Looks like we might be neighbors. I’m just outside of Baton Rouge.

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JackieBoy

How great of a day that was indeed. So happy for you to be able luxuriate in the Pink Fog

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In the back of my mind, I kept thinking of you and how brazen you are with going out and shopping. Thanks for being an encouragement. Love your sense of style and taste.

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Carolyn Kay

You had a day you will always remember, you were out and fully accepted as you. Thank you for sharing your experience, you look great in your pic.

Reply to Carolyn Kay

Thanks girlfriend, its hard to explain but i just felt natural and normal to be Roberta.

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June

Hi Roberta!
Thank you for sharing your outing experiences. Your story brings up fond memories…and smiles!
Your thought at the Olive Garden brought up a familiar feeling. One that has led me to my current state of mind about myself; and that is that While I do care what others think, I’m just trying to be my own kind of beautiful. I think you are too.
How wonderful your experience…Thanks for the memories!