The date and day are irrelevant as is the location of the event. What season it was and what the weather was like on that sunny morning is also unimportant. The fact that I was on a day off only matters because of what I was doing. I had showered, shaved, and pulled out the powde...
As I began to write this article, I encountered several issues that made me pause to reflect: • What is “Passing” • Do we really want to pass? • Why do we need to pass? • Isn’t “Passing” a nod to binarism? • Isn’t binary a nod to gend...
Dark green vision-blocking curtains covered the window in the living room. Homemade frosting covered the window on the front door. I sat in absolute, motionless silence as the repeated, incessant knocking continued, not getting louder, but not stopping either. I could hear my hea...
I haven’t quite developed the confidence to just go out anywhere and do anything en femme, but I’m trying to edge towards that. Most times when I’ve been out, it’s been walking around my neighborhood after about 2 am and before 5 am. In other words, there&...
The first time I dressed as a girl was for a school play. It was a comic role where some guys were portraying a group of girls. I felt a mixture of excitement and shame because my friends were going to see me portrayed in female clothing. Soon after, whenever I would see my mothe...
We do have the desire to have everyone identify us as female. Makeup is a key factor in helping us achieve our confidence. The key to success is practice.
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My Birthday Outing April 18, 2019
Patricia needed to go shopping today. I had some errands to run, so they were done in drab. I am not ready to go out fully dressed. I decided to go as compromised Patricia. I had on my copper wig, ladybug dangly earrings, makeup (mascara, lipstick and powder), and wearing a sweat...
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Being a bridge to someone April 15, 2019
When I hear a song that speaks to my heart, I tend to relate it to life experiences-both my own and others’. The other day I was listening to a group singing one of my favorite Simon and Garfunkel songs, Bridge Over Troubled Water. The song is an allegory about life; how we liv...
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What if I’m addicted to the Pink Fog? April 14, 2019
During the 18 months with my therapist (a regular Jungian, not specifically-gender-focused), I processed through a number of general life topics and also a bunch related to gender dysphoria. Like so many friends I’ve talked with, I spent 30 years trying to quit female cloth...
