Four years ago, I joined my first online transgender/crossdressing community, Crossdresser Heaven. Like so many others, taking that first step of joining an online space was fraught with indecision, fear, and anxiety. I asked myself: will I find others that I can really talk with...
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When I had the use of an iPad, I really got into makeup and plastic surgery software. Youβd think I was absolutely the last person in the world to even contemplate plastic surgery, but the resulting face, even though it wasnβt really me anymore, was undeniably a grade more fe...
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If you are like me, a lifetime crossdresser and transgender male to female, you have asked yourself this question MANY times. Who am I really? Am I happier as a guy or as a girl? If the answer to the question is βa girlβ, βwhen did this start?βΒ For me that happened in m...
Hello, darlings. this is your nosy manager back for another issue of Managersβ Musings, and Iβm going to tell you about yet another attempt to draw our members off-site, where the staff canβt take action to protect our members. a member (almost always a new member in the la...
Soon after I had suffered a second case of the dreaded whiplash, I began having the obligatory difficult conversations with my newly revealed crossdressing husband, βMichayla.β I was reading a book about crossdressing and I discussed a part of it with Michayla that I didnβt...
When you look into the mirror what do you see.Β In drab, for many of us, we see the person the world expects us to be, while under that image is something very different and filled with the most amazing feelings and love for ourselves. Which leads me to a conclusion I discovered...
Life hands everyone lemons from time to time. You have to choose how you want to deal with each lemon by deciding whether to keep it or turn it into something better. Not all lemons are created equal, nor are they doled out equally to everyone. Iβve had a lot of lemons in my li...
We slowly become aware that it will come to the surface eventually. We know this now, right? Sometimes, we were aware in our earliest memories. Sometimes, in our adolescence or in early adulthood – those private thoughts and feelings that we push aside because we cannot pro...
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Many of us, or perhaps even most of us, here on CDH have been crossdressers for most of our lives. And many of us have probably struggled throughout our lives with feelings of shame, guilt, anger, confusion, denial, and more. That’s because we are “CROSSDRESSERS!̶...
Most women don’t forget their first bra. The first bra is a unique and special experience: in addition to reinforcing the bond between mother and daughter, it marks a transition to adolescence. More than that, it is one of the first steps for a girl to become a woman: the b...
This article is part of one that I originally wrote for the River City Gems Group in Sacramento during International Transgender Day of Visibility in 2020. Today in Wisconsin as I proof this article it is 20 degrees with some drifting snow but soon it will be hot again and maybe ...
Crossdressing or transsexuality can manifest itself in childhood or adolescence. Many boys who become trans girls already identify with the opposite sex before puberty. Of course, this identification deepens with the onset of puberty. In fact, most boys who experience an episode ...
Apologies for the click bait title, but letβs be real: this topic remains a preoccupation for most non-cisgendered folk whenever leaving the house is a consideration. The prevailing wisdom these days generally stresses the importance of βyou doing youβ and not giving a ratβ...
First and foremost, I want to let all you of wonderful CDH ladies know that you inspire me in so many ways!Β I read every article on this site.Β Some of the articles are fun and humorous, others I find challenging and thought provoking.Β As the title of this article indicates,...
As most of you know, going out in public is one of the joys of dressing. At first, I was very nervous and cautious, and my excursions were short, at best, and usually confined to just driving around town,Β Finally, I began going to various support groups and clubs where the comm...
Many have heard the story of the frog who turns into a prince… what if he turned into a princess? Could a man who didn’t fit the established standards of beauty or who didn’t identify himself as handsome become handsome as a crossdresser? A job well done with cl...
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Shopping for clothes in person, womenβs of course If you are like me, and most other CDs I know, you love to shop for womenβs clothes. Even if you donβt buy anything, simply looking at the myriad of fashions, colours, styles, itβs an exercise in eye candy whether just wan...
Hi girls, my name is Lena and I’m new here at Crossdresser Heaven. I would be interested to hear about anyone’s feedback or personal experience with going out for the first time while dressed as a girl. Little background: I’ve cross dressed all my life but alway...
Bringing the superficial feminine ideal to life through crossdressing As with all things, there is a beginning. In terms of my crossdressing, the seeds were sowed during puberty. From about 1982 to 2006, curious but relevant behavior would emerge. Moments of semi-crossdressing wo...
My name is Alexandra Michelle Forbes. Of course, thatβs not my real name; itβs the one I picked for my alter ego who I chose to manifest as now and then. In 2006, I picked βAndreaβ as a name in order to set up a Flickr account. βMichelle Forbesβ was a name I had recen...
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