The title may appear to make no sense at all when you first read it, but let me explain how we can find ourselves doing exactly just that in our present life Describing going through transition as emotional and traumatic, could sound a little like an understatement to many enteri...
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I have been crossdressing to some extent for most of my cognitive life. When I was a child, I found various items of clothing compelling for reasons I did not understand. I remember when my mother had bought me a sought-after pair of penny loafers for Easter, the day when we ...
Hello ladies, my name is Linda. First of all, I would like to show my appreciation to each and every one of you on CDH for all of your time and experiences you have graciously shared here with us. I read quite a bit on all the subjects on CDH, and I wish I could say I particip...
If you are here and reading this article, I can safely assume like myself, you are enamored with dressing in clothes and accessories traditionally associated with women. We are all at various stages on this journey. Some of us have recently discovered our feminine traits and are ...
Body hair, yuck. I have never liked my body hair. As a natural red head my body hair is fair but there’s a lot of it. I will never forget how amazing it was the first time I shaved off all my body hair. Wow! So smooth, so soft! Then to put on hose and heels and a soft dress; ho...
The beginning of Erin only started eight years ago, later in my life. I was 33 years old at the time. It all started with my ex-wife’s clothing, trying them on. This happened while she was at work. At first, my feelings were no, I shouldn’t, and it changed to yes. I remember ...
I don’t know about you ladies, but this Coronavirus has put quite a damper on my April time. For me, she has always been a release, but she has also been a way to express myself out in public. That option has been taken away from me for months by this virus, and I miss it. ...
Baby, We’ve Come A Long Way by Amy Myers Back in about 1965 when I was just starting to experiment with the thrill of dressing up in women’s clothes, the world was a different place. We were isolated by our love of this pastime. Something inside us we can’t ex...
Are you Proud, Ashamed, or somewhere in between of being a Crossdresser? Some might find it an easy answer, but for most of us, I don’t think so. Like many aspects of this life, the truth is more muddled. It is for me, and it has evolved over time. Oh yes; for most of my life, ...
I attempted to communicate the feminine side of me to my first wife. I am sure my attempts were feeble and no doubt unlearned. How could I help her understand about me what I didn’t understand about myself, had no objective evidence to prove it, and was such an antithesis t...
In response to Vanessa Law’s forum query, “Where Are You Heading in 2020,” I answered as follows. 1) I will spend more time here at CDH. The time I regularly spend here has helped me be more at peace with my femme essence. So, growth in my inner woman would profit by “h...
Tell Your Girlfriend, But Don’t Tell Your Wife

I have no doubt that this will be a controversial article (and opinion) on Crossdresser Heaven. (I do so look forward to reading the comments.) The common wisdom in our community is that a crossdresser who is in a marriage or serious relationship with a genetic woman is best o...
My wish for the future, a Prayer for Hope, Peace and Acceptance These are a few of the thoughts I’ve had over a long time. They contain a little bit of my whimsy, but the wish within and the desire for all of you is true, particularly now for people of all race and colour. You ...
This is my way of saying thanks and I wanted to make a small tribute to the wonderful friendships I’ve found both here and in the wider CD and TG community. A few of you might know me a little bit from my posts and articles here over the last year and half or so, but I’ll giv...
This article is inspired by a reply I wrote in a thread. I stopped having two personas years ago and now I’m just me. So when I say “we” I’m talking about how I was before. Most of us grew up with the notion that some ways of thinking and acting are solidl...
I spent my life from around 14 until 48 hiding my feminine side, worried that people would find out, and even running for cover if my doorbell went, until I ended up clinically depressed and needed to seek the help of a councilor before doing something I regretted. After the firs...
One of my favorite words in the English language – Freedom! This one word truly sums up my deepest core values all in two syllables. One of my favorite questions was asked by Mr Shakespeare, a name you may be familiar with. The question is famous, To Be? Or not to be? Whe...
Lexi’s Grows Up Never To Purge Again! (Halloween-The Final Chapter!)

I had never been more convinced that I was finally giving up crossdressing for good. I was sure this was the only way forward. Even though my wife never asked me to stop, when I saw how upset it had made her, I was determined to never do that to her again. I told myself this was ...
I’ve been a cross dresser for really as long as I can remember. I’d have between 10-20 items at a time and have purged often, always careful not to get “caught”. I’ve been in a few long-term relationships (2+ years) and an 11-year marriage as well, never letting a singl...
My SO, who is more than a little disapproving of my crossdressing was going to be away for a couple of days. This gave me the opportunity to have the flat to myself, and I could spend the whole time dressed. I had the thought, “Why restrict dressing to in the flat?” N...
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It’s begins with self-love – a connection between heart and mind This is about my personal experiences, which have brought me to where I am today, happier with myself, my life, everything and everyone in it. Slightly more than four years ago my life begin to shift. In...
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