When talking to a new friend here at CDH, it occurred to me that we are “growing up female.” While not in the traditional sense, it is instead within an alternate reality. CDH is a microcosm of the real world, and we are living this life there in a metaphorical sense. Had we ...
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Hi All! This is a rather long story, but I hope it helps others who are struggling with their dressing and the implications it can cause in our relationships. My name is Dawnie Saxton, and although I have only been a member of CDH since January 2019, I’ve been dressing sinc...
I think I was born a girl but live in a boy’s body. Up ’til now, I’ve thought I was born a boy with some extra female traits. Without ever questioning, I did the things a man is required to do. My whole childhood, I acted like a man by opening doors for girls and...
The Trials and Tribulations of Buying Clothes From Chinese Companies Online
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Abby Lauren The Trials and Tribulations of Buying Chinese Clothes Online If you’re like me, you very easily are influenced to try to buy women’s clothes online because the manufacturers are abundant, the clothes look absolutely gorgeous, they carry your size, and the ...
As my body turns 73 years old in October, I have been struggling this past year to keep up with the physical efforts of my dressing. Don’t get me wrong, I Love putting outfits together and going out with friends for shopping and dining. As I spend time in public, I’m ...
Ya Don’t Have To Look Like A Model To Love The Feminine Side Of You!
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Hi Girls! Mitzi here! I haven’t been on CDH much as of late. There are other sites I’m a member of which I haven’t spent much time on either. I haven’t been dressing much, as well. So many things are shifting and changing here at home. While I don’t want to ...
I think most of us have heard this before from women, “Men just wouldn’t be able to handle one day of a woman’s life.” I believe they’re right; at least when talking about crossdressers in general. Let’s imagine this scenario… You get a w...
As I sit here in my red dress, with stockings and heels, and pretending that I’m at my job as an office secretary, I cannot help but to feel that this is an important part of me. I knew from a very early age that I was different from what I appeared to be. I started to expl...
The Thoughts of Youth Today I’ve had a down day and felt inspired to write a little. I put on the movie “In the Bedroom”, Todd Field’s beautiful and painful portrait of a couple dealing with the loss of their son. In one scene, a friend of the protagonist (played by the w...
This thing (whatever crossdressing is to me) has been nothing but a burden. When combined with the added stress from all of the years I’ve been avoiding it, I’ve reached a point where I finally need to deal with it. I have read many articles on ways to stop the urge t...
Hello to all our Crossdresser Heaven members. Think of this post more as a guide if you adore the feminine style, but are afraid to actually embrace it. If you aren’t naturally drawn to feminine things, don’t force yourself. You don’t need to try and change yourself to ...
(Picture reposted with permission of author and owner) I am Olivia; I wasn’t born female, but nonetheless, I deeply desire to be feminine. Having not been born to it and not been allowed to experience the trial and errors that many girls get to go though, I find myself l...
There was something liberating about saying “yes” when Stacy, a transitioned woman friend from our Crossport support group asked if anyone wanted to go dancing with her. On a peak of confidence, and feeling the comfort of being with the group of gurls at dinner in a public re...
I’ve decided that it’s time for me to share my personal story. Even though I’ve only been crossdressing a few months now, it has been something that has been a part of me for as long as I can remember. It’s also very hard to write about. So, here it goes&#...
The title is pretty self explanatory, particularly to crossdressers. We have no idea why we do it, how we got to where we are, other than we like it. We like the feelings it brings us, the utterly “right” way we feel when dressed; The Joy. We also experience the downside; the...
Hello, this is my very first post; I just joined the other day. I truly don’t know where I’m going with my crossdressing. I recently turned 65 and am retired, happily too. I must add, healthy and fit as few people take me for my age. I have many interests that keep me...
So we’ve come out as a crossdresser; who helps us the most? The answer is obvious for those lucky enough to have a wife or girlfriend who participates with them. We must consider ourselves the lucky ones; not everyone gets the same support from the normal home life. Without...
My story is like so many other ladies. I started feeling the urge to dress at an early age. I found myself first touching and then trying on my mother and sister’s clothes. I usually felt shame, because as a child of the 60’s, this kind of behavior was taboo. I knew I...
When I hear a song that speaks to my heart, I tend to relate it to life experiences-both my own and others’. The other day I was listening to a group singing one of my favorite Simon and Garfunkel songs, Bridge Over Troubled Water. The song is an allegory about life; how we liv...
As a kid I was shy. I didn’t want to be, but I was. One day, I remember going to 1st grade wearing my mom’s stockings, holding them up with rubber bands—no pantyhose back then. In retrospect, it had been the wrong thing to do. My self-confidence was low. I blame it ...
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Happy Surprises! October 19, 2019
Happy surprises can come at the strangest and at unexpected times. I am a closeted CDer and 70 years old. Opportunities to dress have been limited over this long life of mine. I lost my first marriage when my ex- found my stash (bra, panties, and heels.) This led to a long and pa...
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My crossdressing story October 16, 2019
I’d better start off with my childhood, which was pretty good! There wasn’t anything out of the ordinary. I mean, practically every little boy has dressed up in some girl’s clothing. It’s really just normal curiosity. I tried on my mom’s one-piece swimsu...
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Seek First to Understand October 13, 2019
Several years ago, I was driving with a company that purchased pick-up trucks from southern Alberta and delivered them to a dealership in Montana. The long hours on the road allowed me lots of time to listen to audio books. I listened to many books, but one phrase in one book tha...