Married, 70 something, MtF heterosexual Crossdresser. I am happy in my skin! I am a male who finds exhilaration experiencing the feminine mystique through this phenomenon called Cross Dressing. My goal is to be inconspicuous ... to blend in. When recognized; I want it to be as a classy, proper lady. My wife is now mostly understanding and accepting of June. She doesn’t particularly care to see me en femme. However, she is now offering to critique June's appearance through photos, and has self-appointed herself to June's CDH photo post selection committee. Strange isn’t it…she doesn’t want to see me en femme, but will review my photos!? I hope to meet others for friendship. It does not matter if you are in your closet, or like me, have found the door knob and stepped out. If you are happy in your skin, I'd be interested in meeting online, socially, in public, groups, en femme or in drab. There is a caveat, however. I may not respond to an online/site member friendship request, or invitation to meet personally, if you have not completed your CDH profile form, including your profile Bio, and posted a public photo…including your face, at a minimum. I respect and value friendships. Because I have been the target of inappropriate, lewd and unsolicited advances; for both our benefits, I will not accept friendship requests that do not meet these requirements. I want to share, and also seek, experiences with other like-minded souls. To that end, I promise I will not extend a friendship invitation for the sake of adding another number to my list. While I am not a prude, neither will I respond to requests or comments including lecherous overtones. I am a retired degreed engineer, and manager from the aerospace and defense sectors. I enjoy fly fishing, tying my own flies, playing guitar, model railroading, hiking, camping, bicycling, working with wood, helping others, my Jeep, ... almost as much as I enjoy experiences as June.
I live part time in OK, and part time in CO. The rest of the time my wife and I are rambling around in our 5th wheel RV enjoying life in these great United States; hiking all the National Parks, and meeting truly wonderful people! Unless you have been out there, the pictures you see are not even close to the beauty and splendor of this country. I have met others of us along my travels. Some en femme…some not. These experiences have been truly wonderful!
I was first exposed to this phenomenon in my late 30’s. I was challenged by someone I knew professionally to join them as a female appearing person in an experiment. I was, at first, repulsed! Then, later allowed myself to be talked into giving it a go. Even though I was “made up” by an experienced artist, and the clothes were selected for me to fit the occasion, I saw myself in the mirror looking like a dude in a dress, and backed out of the challenge. But I was infected by that first peek in the mirror… that distorted vision of someone trying to look like someone they were not...and the sensations of it all. I wanted back into those clothes and makeup. I wanted to improve my presentation and to gaze longer than a peek at the reflection in the mirror. I wanted to prove to myself that I could step out in public. And yes, I wanted to feel those sensations, again! Along the way, June has evolved from dressing indelicately, to way too conservative, to a look that presents June as you see today…a classy, proper lady. Even when dressed casually. As you view my photos, I hope you will agree that is how you see June. That doesn’t mean I am “prim”, and don’t have fun. I can do/be both. If you don’t agree, please let me know. If you do agree, please let me know. I like constructive, and positive feedback. June is on a Continuous Improvement journey. As I explore the feminine mystique through the thrills of this phenomenon called Cross Dressing; I ask for your help as you view my photos, by inviting you to offer suggestions/comments on what you see might be improved. Until we meet, I wish you warm regards,
Well I like it June! and I also really like that pink dress on you, matches nicely with your stockings and nude colored heels
Thank you so much, Janice!
Your comment on my hair helps soothe my resentment toward my hairdresser. But I won’t be taking your comment to her. I’ll be taking it to my new hairdresser. The one I went to do damage control…
Thanks for your compliments. I really appreciate that!
June
Very nice.
Thank you, Christina!
I really appreciate your compliment!
Take care and stay safe
June
Yeah, but you look Great.
Oh, I forgot you don’t wear wigs. That’s your hair you actually lost. Don’t worry I hear hair grows back on good little girls. Be Best
Right, I don’t wear a wig. However, I’m thinking I might go look for one. It’s taken years to get my hair to a length I was satisfied with. Yeah it was to the point of being a lot to manage, but I liked it. One snip and poof…destroyed! I left that hairdresser, one I’ve been going to for years, before she could do any more damage. When I got home my wife made an appointment with her hairdresser to do damage control. She had to take another inch or so off to get it even, and then layered it… Read more »
Thanks, Jackie!
You look great!
Thank you, Paula!
I really appreciate your compliment…
Take care and stay safe
June
Gorgeous hair, June, I love it. Beautiful dress, you look stunning x
Wow…Thank you for those wonderful compliments, Eve!
It helps soothe my resentment toward my hairdresser…
Take care and stay safe
June
Oh June!
You look lovely dear. I love the pink dress. You seem so confident with your hair. Is that a wig or your own?
I have a couple wigs I would like to wear to the salon but how do you secure them for that?
Hugs,
Hope
Hello Hope! Yes, the hair is mine, all mine…no wig here. It’s taken years to grow to a length I was satisfied with. It took only one snip of a scissor. Only a second, to destroy it. sitting in the chair you cant see what is happening behind you. It was when she made the side cut that I stopped her. From then on it was damage control. And I paid her for that! I’ve seen women carry their wigs in to the salon for styling. They tell the hairdresser what they want, or the hairdresser will suggest a style.… Read more »
What a shame June for with me that would take a year to grow back. But if it is any consolation it looks becoming on you. Love. janice.
Hi Janice!
It took so long for it to grow; I fear the rest may fall out before it grows back…at my age I’m fortunate to have a full head of hair.
Thank you for your soothing compliment.
Hugs,
June
First of all, I think you look terrific with shorter hair, and in looking at your pics from earlier this year it looks like you’ve really slimmed and toned your figure… you go girl! You are totally passable and lucky to be retired. I’m also in the aerospace industry, by the way ( still working ) Hugs, Sheila
Thank you, Sheila!
Those are very kind comments…the kind that make me want to do this more and more and more and with more hair!
Take care and stay safe
June