En Femme, In Stealth

There are many ways I choose to dress in stealth mode, one of my favorites is the use of hair accessories mainly because my hair is quite long (shoulder length). They serve a practical purpose as well as letting me express my femme side.

I also have a femme voice.

Kind Regards

Emily

In addition to underdressing (bra/panties/stockings), I sometimes wear innocuous jewelry. If I'm wearing a shirt with a reasonably high collar (a sweater, for example), a necklace is an option, and most people won't notice or comment on a ring, even if it looks feminine.

Can I say none of the above? 🙂 I don't feel there's a line between him mode / her mode. I feel kind of in the middle.

Hehe 🙂 You certainly can Lynn. Do you present more feminine most of the time? Or is there a definite 'not Lynn' mode for you?

Anna, nice idea about the jewelry. I wear earrings pretty much all the time, though I stick to studs or small hoops when not presenting as Vanessa.

Emily - blending practicality with dressing - I like it!

I underdress! I mean I wear everything . I cant wear anything around the house, but I underdress at work. I usually wear stockings, a slip (half or full, depending on situation and mood) and a camisol. sometimes a bra when its cold enough to wear a coat. Feels wonderul. Also feel kind of 'naughty' cause I know the guys I work with dont have any idea that I wear a slip/camisol and panties under my work clothes. Yes! I am careful.

I apparently have feminine gestures (that family members have commented on, not in a negative way, apparently since they found out about me). Esp when I am sitting.

I also have quite a feminine voice - 50% of the time I get called Mrs on the phone. Everybody outside the close family thinks I'm embarassed by it...

Stace

I underdress pretty much every day. I marshal at a local golf course on weekends. The weather was so chilly this past weekend I was able to wear a bra, waist nipper, cami, pettipants, longleg brief and panties. I also had on thigh-high stockings. I was covered up with a hoody sweatshirt all day long. Felt wonderful to be girly while at work. I even knocked some balls around by the practice range and it felt great to be hitting balls while wearing my bra. I nearly always underdress while playing golf but usually stick to just panties and pettipants. It is hard to explain bra straps when your playing partner slaps you on the back after a good drive or when they show on your back when bent over a putt. Anyway, I was bundled up enough at work I probably could have worn my breast forms too! I also keep my brows trimmed neatly and buff and shine my nails.

Kathy

hi vanessa, i wear pantys and either thigh hi's or pantyhose, to work, sometimes , i wear a bra, when i'm wearing a sweatshirt or something loose, makes me feel so feminine. i like the idea of wearing a camisole, or half slip though, that might be in the future. i hope i see more ideas here, thanks ladys, melony..

Hi.
I use different way to be in stealth. I let my nails grow longer than a man uses but not to much, also with manicure just enough to look a little more feminine (of course without painting them). And I have removed the hair of mi fingers too. I wear panties and stockings or I sit crossing my legs like a woman.

Cecilia

I answered that I underdress, but I also use feminine movements and gestures, and style my hair if not trulyfeminine, at leat in an androgynous style. Wintertime is easier, because I wear enough over-clothing to completely hide any traces of a bra or cami. I have a pair of Bass boots that have a round toe, and 2" heel that can pass for an unusually high men's heel, like motorcycle boots. I find when walking in them, I have to take shorter steps, to keep my weight centered over the heel, or it hurts my ankles. But that folds right in with feminine movements, so it is OK. I try not to swing my hips too much, though; I don't want to be seen as a "flamer". Even in warmer weather, unless I am wearing shorts, I usually wear 50 denier black hose, with a 6-strap garter belt. (Two and four strap belts may LOOK sexy, but they really do not hold the hose up evenly enough to feel comfortable.) I also, here again unless I am dressed such that my toes would show, keep my toenails painted. I have always grown my finger nails longer than most men, and have always kept them clean and well-manicured and buffed, but that is not feminine; it is just good hygiene.

I have not even owned a pair of mens underwear in about 20 years, so I always have panties on. I also have permanent make-up (Eyeliner and full lip color in Magenta) that really stands out. I also usually wear earrings and jewelry that is mostly feminine. I also have my own long hair. Most of my clothes are puchased in the womens department, even many things that I wear when I have to be in male mode. I always wear womens jeans, and I have a lot of shirts that are womens, but the look can be pulled off as female, borderline/unisex, and sometimes will even work as male clothing. Since I am also a rocker, many of the female clothes I have can also be pulled off as the rocker look. I also have quite a few unisex type of clothes, especially concert shirts and other T-shirts. I am usually in jeans and T-shirt in male mode but also in female casual mode with a little more make-up and a bra with breast forms.
Of course I have a whole huge wardrobe of all female clothing that is undeniably female that I do like to wear as much as possible. Skirts, dresses, shirts, etc.
I guess the even when I am dressed the most male I will ever look is when I have to wear a suit. I hate suits and ties, but I wear them when I absolute have to or in situations that seem appropriate (according to everyone elses standards) Such as when I am working certain jobs. I own my own business doing professional video production and mobile DJ, so I do a lot of weddings and other formal/semi formal affairs where I am expected to wear a suit or even a tux. To look good for the business, and to get repeat business, I make the sacrifice. But I still have panties on underneath and usually panty hose, I will add a little light make-up and jewely that is feminine, yet appropriate to the occasion.
I also practice a more feminine voice and manerisms as much as possible, which kind of went out the window during the 9 years I worked at a bar and had to play disciplnarian and bouncer a lot.
Having to be stern with a large group of trouble making drunks on a nightly basis for so long kind of puts you a few steps back in coming accross as feminine, but now that I am not doing that anymore, I can get back to being me.
Of course some of the weddings and other things I do are very casual and some are really great and don't mind if I wear a dress or whatever I want. Those are kind of rare, but they do happen. I am hoping to eventually have enough business coming in that when I transform to full time female I will be able to afford the loss of business I know will happen and still be able to sustain from the business I get from people who support my female side.
As more states are slowly allowing same sex marriages, I am waitingfor that to happen in my state because I know that once it is legal here, then my business will not only be booming, but I will have a flood of business from people who will not only allow, but encourage and support me working their wedding as the girl I really am.

I dress fem daily not only wearing pantyhose or thigh high stockings and garter belt daily - I also almost daily wear fem jeans- polo top (short and long sleeve)- womens new balance foot wear. I also get full body waxing Tri monthly (now hair is thinner, finer or just not growing), I get feminine waxing and facial treatments, use Aveeno and or Nutragina feminine skin product. I get manicures weekly and pedicures 2x a month

Do you present more feminine most of the time? Or is there a definite ‘not Lynn’ mode for you?

If I'm honest, I don't feel a division between M or F.... Odd as it may sound, I'm just me. Maybe I'm a bit more gruff in bloke mode, but that may just be my job. I'm not like that at home. The real shift is between serious and non-serious

I all most always have on sexy pair fem panties. I always wear a piece of fem jewerly be it a chain or pendant or ring. It works for me . By the way ladies Fri Feb 5 2010 is national wear red day ( heart ) lov Sandy