My Birth Of Mika And Her Current Life

HI Mika, and thank you for your interesting story. IF I had had access to girl' clothes, and any female contacts when growing up, my story might have been similar to yours...I sometimes wonder about that.
I am definitely more comfortable dressed in girls' clothing. and yes, I could be happy being a girl full time, at least socially. I'm happy to report that I have kept the one great love of my life for over 56 years, and she is supportive; but my dressing was suppressed for almost all of my adult life, so the topic never entered our lives until about 3 years ago. Otherwise, my answer could have been much different.

Hugs,
Bettylou

thanks for an amazing story. glad your parents were ok and supportive from the beginning in accepting you for who you are. I know for some of us, if we had been free of societal programming and pressure, I may of gone down different a path too. In the 80's and 90's we lacked easy access to info and alt life experiences that are so much easier to connect to now.

Mika- thanks for sharing your story and congrats on having both a supportive birth family and now a supportive SO.
Cyn

Mila how lucky to have parents like yours my beginning about 6 or 7 my parents and brothers had gone to see new house we were buying I wasn’t one o the boys that day I wanted to stay with my next door friend same age and she had a sister year older which I seen her on her red crinoline ballet and I convinced him to get for me and we were going to pretend dancing when he brought it it was a perfect fit when he help me with the zipper and the feeling my waist so tight I never goes away at present time I still have the urge I had plenty of time cause every time my family would go to our future house it would take them about two hours well they came in less than 45 minutes or less my dad got mad and punished me for awhile in those days it was natural to spank you but with a belt so that was my first and last I did it well not after everything was forgotten my dad was like that if he would punish you or now what’s “time up” ten minutes well for us was two minutes while he loved to read we would came and ask him humbly and looking him on the eye and without leaving his book he will say “Geeeet ooout of my sight that I had pardoned you” then he will back reading fallowing years I become one of the boys it every time had a chance to try a dress just for minutes and hopping nobody would be coming (which came close) one of them my béisbol team we need it another ball went to the house to get it but nobody was in the home use the back door saw an opportunity to try some of my Mom’s dresses and she would use it with one of her crinolines by then time had passed my friends came to look for me I heard them knocking I hide on the front room which I was using in case my parents would get home one of my friends almost caught me looking in the corner next to the window after few minutes they left but at this time I think he saw part of my dress and my lovely crinoline I was like 12 years my journey beginning happy dressings time. Auroras

A parent of two,a son and daughter whom have been supportive as well.They see me like any normal father and call me Mika most of the time

Enjoyed reading your story

Thank you Mika for that wonderful story. Its awesome to hear you can truly be yourself fulltime.

What a lovely story Mika, and how wonderful to have such a supportive family. My story is a little different in that for many years I have always considered myself to be your typical male guy, doing the usual male things and dressing in the normal masculine way. I have also been happily married for 37 years and that situation is set to continue I hope for many more. However, I recall that at the age of 19 or so I did have a desire to try on my mom's white bra which was hanging up in the kitchen to dry after being washed. What made me want to do that? I think somehow there was a feminine me trying to free and express itself gently but wasn't sure how to do so. Over the years I have explored more and more a growing femininity but always discretely so as not to upset my lovely wife. But in the last two years or so I have felt an ever stronger desire to wear women's clothing and when I am able to do so it feels so very fulfilling and satisfying and natural, such that I truly wish I could do so all the time, at least at home if not in public. Looking ahead I can see that side of me developing still further.

Thank you for your life story. I'm glad you get to live the life you enjoy and have so much support from your family. They sound wonderful.

Hi Mika, thanks for sharing your story. I used to be married, but my ex-wife was not supportive of my need to crossdress, so we got a divorce. I’m glad you found someone who supports you for who you are. I want to find that someday.

Hi Mika, thank you for sharing your brave and moving story. You seem to have an understanding family which has enabled you to be who you are.

Yes I would feel comfortable being a woman full time as my inner woman has been calling me for several years and it's best (though not always easy) to be honest with oneself.

Take Care

you look so much the female every gurl want to be and wishes they can,I wish I was able to dress as u do and enjoy life but being married and a sissy does not allow me to do much of anything except find guys and cheat on her with them but have never slept overnite with any of them

Hi Mika, what a wonderful story. I've crossdressing as long as I can remember. I was married for 17 years. At first I tried to stay away from dressing but i couldn't. Eventually my wife found skirts and blouses an all hell broke loose. I promised to "never again do it", you all can guess how that went. Eventually we got divorced. To make matters worse my son of 20 saw a photo of me in a ball gown, guess how that ended. We actually still see each other on a regular basis if I never do it again. So now I live alone and dress as a woman as soon as I come home from work. My bottom line is that my greatest wish is that I can meet a woman that accepts me for what I am, otherwise any relationship will end with a disaster. Take good care of your woman, she's worth weight in gold. (I actually suspects that my sister knows, but I don't know for sure).