Hi Girls! It’s Scarlett again and I’ll be writing this from the perspective of a situation that many crossdressers more than likely have in common.

Now Girls, you may already know I spent years and years deep in the closet with my crossdressing. It wasn’t until a year and half ago, right before we moved into our new home with lots of storage space, I was finally able to talk my sexy redhead into having “The Talk” with me. I’ll later write an article on how to bring up “The Talk” and what to say to bring about a modicum of acceptance of your crossdressing from your wife or SO.

Now to the specifics of the article. Most of us have only released our thrill of cross dressing to our wives or significant others. We have no plans of ever sharing this little secret to anyone else on our side of our family, on our wife’s side, or SO’s side of the family. We’ve known them for years, and they have known us for years, and it’s the last thing other family members would guess about us; that fact that we all love to dress up in pretty clothes and become pretty girls. Let’s face it, if we dared to offer up that bit of information to those folks, the next time a family reunion was in order, we might not get invited. At the very least, it would be an extremely awkward get-together compared to others in previous years!

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So, Girls, I’m recommending not to share our thrill with other family members as a result of the above notes. Besides, when you release your little secret to one family member, the next thing ya know, everyone on both sides of your family might think you’re some sort of freak or weirdo!

Now if you’ve already released your little secret to some family members and they are accepting and considerate towards your crossdressing – lucky you! You’re in a distinct minority of crossdressers. There are still many of you out there who are still deep in the closet and not even your spouse or significant others know about your thrill of wearing pretty femme clothing. Been there and done that as noted above, and I wouldn’t want to go through that phase ever again!

Here’s what I did to share my CDing with others, and I recommend you all might want to give it a whirl as well!

My first sharing of my CD secret came with the customer service ladies at JC Penny’s in Pensacola where I used to have all my heels, boots, and booties shipped in order to keep things out of the sight of my sexy redhead prior to her acceptance of my crossdressing. So, my first public sharing of my thrill outside of our home and outside of an online CD site was when I took my crossdressing secret to those girls at the Penney’s customer service department.

I had about 50 of my best pictures of Scarlett loaded on my IPad and took the IPad to the customer service girls, asking them if they wanted to see photos of Scarlett. They couldn’t wait to see them! I opened the IPad to three women in that department ranging in ages from about 25 to 65 and showed them 30 of my top photos. My God, the reaction was off the chain incredible! Next thing ya know, they had passed the word on to some other employees in departments on the second floor and in less than ten minutes, I had a crowd of at least 10 ladies absolutely loving every photo of Scarlett and wanted me to stop in with more every time I came to the store – which I continue to do to this day!

Here are the next places I went over the next two weeks with my IPad, and later with color 8×10 photos in a folder and got the same exact reaction with each set of girls clamoring for more as I left each place!

1  1)    Sports Clips where I have my hair cut. The manager and all the hair stylists have seen loads of Scarlett photos, and they won’t even let me get my hair cut now unless I bring some Scarlett show and tell pictures!

2   2)    Sephora where I buy some of my foundation liquid and powder. The girls who work at these places are on the liberal side, open minded, and quite accepting of the LGTBQ folks, and now you can add CD to that list of letters as well!

3   3)    Ulta – See Sephora notes above. And I should have added kind, considerate, caring, inquisitive, and full of answers to a wide variety of makeup questions you may have!

4   4)    Plato’s Closet which is our largest consignment shop in Pensacola. With such a huge selection of girl’s clothing, footwear, and jewelry available at next to nothing prices. You would assume they would have admitted crossdressers in there all the time, but the first time I told them I was a cross dresser the girls were in shock until I busted loose with a pile of Scarlett photos. Then every girl in the place wanted to see my pictures. Some of them didn’t believe it was me, so I had to point out a small brown dark birth mark in the middle of my right shin. Then they were all believers that those photos were of me as a girl named Scarlett! Now those girls won’t let me shop unless I bring some Scarlett show and tell photos!

Other places to share your thrill of crossdressing with other employees are as follows: Stores in a mall or not in a mall you regularly frequent, thrift stores where you may shop on a regular basis, brick and mortar stores where you may buy lady’s shoes, wigs, purses, clothing, and other accessories.

And of course, the #1 place to share your thrill of crossdressing is right here with the wonderful girls in the greatest crossdressing site in the world – our very own Crossdresser Heaven – which is our way to get ourselves out of the closet or house on a regular basis and share our thrill of crossdressing with all of the CDH girls who share the very same thrill of wearing cute, pretty, sexy, and classy lady’s clothing! I get excited as soon as I put on a pair of heels! I just love being a girl as most of you know!

Girls, thanks for taking the time for reading another one of my informative articles. If you have other places you love to share your thrill of crossdressing, please send them in your responses to this article so that all of our readers of this article will have an exhaustive and complete list on how and where to share their own thrill of crossdressing with as many other accepting folks out there as possible!


Sincerely, Scarlett

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I love the thrill of cross dressing and based on the CDH girls' comments in response to my posted photos, I must be pretty good at exploring the feminine side of myself. I find it sexy, sensual, exciting, challenging, and ever changing. I'm so very blessed now to have as much money as I want to spend on Scarlett and can now, for the very first time in fifteen years, actually purchase dresses, tops, and skirts while shopping with my wife! I never thought that would ever come to fruition! I can now store all of Scarlett's things in our huge dream home when just a short period of time ago, it would all have to be kept in a temperature controlled storage unit. I love Crossdressing Heaven and know it's the classiest and most tasteful cross dressing site on line. All the girls are full of support and encouragement and if folks come to the site with alternate motives that aren't in line with our founders rules and regulations, they are quickly deleted from our site. Vanessa Law, our founder, keeps this site classy at all times. She has much help from her Ambassadors, Chat Room Monitors, Photo Monitors, Article Editors, and many more personnel to keep this site classy, encouraging, and supportive.

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Vanessa Jones

Oh thank you Scarlett for the wonderful article! You have some wonderful ideas. I guess I am one of the lucky ones as my wife and stepdaughter know and have been out with me dressed as Vanessa. Some women co-workers know as well since I came out to them last year. I must say, they are very accepting. Some girls at the spa/wellness center know as I have had my makeup professionally done there the past two Halloweens. They have encouraged me to have my makeup done anytime of the year. But enough of me, I have to say that… Read more »

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Hi Scarlett, I believe you are right in about telling others in your family and long time friends. If you do take the step things are going to change. I have not told anyone in my family except my wife who is tolerant. However, to show your point, we were at a family reunion last year and one of my sister-in-laws were selling pink bras to support breast cancer. She looked at me and laughing said do you want one, what your size. There was some laughs then I came back with – I am not sure, do you want… Read more »

Linda Weest

thanks for this article and sharing. I wait eagerly for the next how to bring up talk with SO.

Stephanie Kennedy

Hi scarlette it is not fair that you have those gourges legs . i am accustomed to to be envious of cis woman but those legs. Wow now i have to deal with the woman in my. own community You look lovely and I will get there one day youare a inspiratio luv Stephanie


Someday I want to be as confidant as you, although I don’t usually or haven’t yet presented myself directly to others outside my comfort zone the idea is very exciting and I will be trying to more often.
I’ll let everyone know how it turns out : )

Kisses, Chrissy

Tammie Swenson

WOW! Scarlett do you live 24/7 fully ENFEMME with your SO? U look fabulous! My SOGGF when she first discover me wearing an outfit of hers was Royally PISSED off. Being that it was 3 weeks b4 Halloween (as I was sharing her house with her) she required me to dress FULLY ENFEMM in Public thru Halloween, thinking it would be fitting punishment, but I think by Halloween she realized that I was really enjoyed being Tammie. During the 3weeks she usually woke me up about 5am and would pick out what outfit of hers I was to wear that… Read more »

Elaine Hamilton

Oh my goodness I loved your story and you look stunning in that outfit …I am so jealous ..hehehe. Would love to go shopping with you, you sound like so much fun …yay !!!❤️

Lindie Moore

Thank for the article. Amazing . I wish someday I will be able to as you say “Have the talk”. And thaks for all the advice you share
Lot of love Lindie

Abby Lauren

I waited through 10 years of marriage and a trip to Yosemite to finally have the talk with my wife. We were situated in a motel just outside Yosemite so my wife, in a sense, was a captive audience. I spent quite a while discussing everything about my CD’ing with her and assured her of what you spoke of in your article (eg. I’m not gay, etc.). Her response, after several months, was that she had gone into a state of total denial and hadn’t remembered anything at all!!! Ultimately, I insisted she hear me out totally and we came… Read more »

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