Well girls, there weren’t any articles needing to be edited, and it’s at times like this when my managing editor asks me to “just go ahead and write an article yourself.” Hi Brina! I love you and this one is for the over 30,000 girls who are currently listed as members of the best crossdressing site in the world – Crossdresser Heaven.

So many girls, when sending private messages to me in response to my photos, often use the words “inspire” or “inspiration” in their notes to me. They often tell me I was the one who inspired them to join as one of our new CDH members. Others have mentioned to me that I’ve been an inspiration for them to perfect their own cross-dressing skills to their highest levels. Those notes, from hundreds of girls over the past three years, have inspired me to take my own cross-dressing skills to my own highest level possible!

You girls have inspired me to try many new styles of beautiful feminine clothing. This was my first year to wear ladies dress slacks, skinny bum-lifter jeans, ladies casual slacks, sexy high waisted short shorts, new styles of heels, skirts, tops, and even a variety of hair colors in different lengths, although the chin length bob cut will always be my favorite style of hair. I’ve even previewed new dresses in a variety of different types of lengths and clothing materials. With our members inspiring notes to me, my thrill of crossdressing has gotten even more exciting! I love these new variety of styles of clothing, footwear, and hairstyles I’ve been able to give a whirl this year thanks to the inspiration of our girls!

I also enjoy my purpose as both a writer and an editor on this wonderful site. When the new girls ask me for tips and advice, the first thing I do is point them to the word “Articles,” shown above and to the right of every page while on CDH, and then ask that they go to the “Hodgepodge” section and read up on more than 80% of all the initial tips and information I’ve shared with new and the not so new members over the past three years. Personally, many of my articles in the Hodgepodge area are written with the intent to help with everything from purchasing wigs, shapewear, to having “The Talk” with their wives or SOs, or to help them build an initial, basic wardrobe. There are makeup tips, photo shoot tips, as well as fashion and beauty tips.

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Before I wrote the articles noted above, I found myself spending 4 to 6 hours per day answering questions from new and even some of veteran cross-dressers on those subjects and many more. As a result, to allow me the time to take care of my honey do chores, which consist of work both inside and outside our dream home such as yard word, washing and waxing our three vehicles, and taking care of our very active two Corgi doggies, I found a purpose to write several articles addressing the most common questions being asked of me. Oh, and I’d be remiss in not mentioning the wonderful date nights with my Sexy Redhead also known as my wife, best friend, and soul mate for life. She and I love to go out on date night to dinner, shopping, or a movie, and then home for some extracurricular activities 😉 after I light our Yankee candles in our bedroom. With all those time-consuming responsibilities, it was much easier to help our site build a wealth of tips in the article section. They are suited for all of us, no matter where we are in out pursuit of becoming our best crossdresser version possible.

As an editor in the Article section of Crossdresser Heaven, my job is to help girls write interesting articles having to do with their own experiences as a cross-dresser. My job as an editor has been extremely rewarding, working both with experienced writers and rookie writers. It’s also a challenging job, which does wonders to keep my brain lubricated since my retirement.

When the managing editor of Crossdresser Heaven, Brina MacTavish, came to me asking if I would like to become an editor in the article section based on what she had seen in regards to comments about my posted photographs and notes posted to other girls’ photos, I actually turned her down three times. I told Brina my wife and I had just recently moved into our large dream home and we were still in the process of opening boxes and moving our furniture into this huge new home of ours. I told her I simply wouldn’t have the time to do the editing job justice. After some back and forth, I eventually decided to give it a try…in a limited way at first, as I just didn’t have much time.

After learning the ropes and spending far too much time on each article, I became much faster at that editing job. As a result of my work and dedication to the job, Brina awarded me with the Senior Editor Award for reaching over 100 articles edited and a year of service. An honor she posted on my home page, which I’m extremely proud to have received. The work is both challenging and fun! You wouldn’t believe the number of steps involved in editing just one single article! Right, Brina? (LOL)

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Another purpose I strongly believe in is providing encouragement and support to as many girls as I possibly can. Many ask for constructive feedback on their photos, and they know I’m going to give them an honest opinion. No sugar coating, just the best suggestions for feminine improvement in my honest opinion. The girls all respect the fact that they know I’m going to be as positive as possible, while being as honest as I possibly can be.

I love letting our girls know that cross-dressing is extremely thrilling as well as relaxing and rewarding. I convey to them that cross-dressing is very normal and there are millions of men across America and other countries who participate in some level of cross-dressing. I tell the girls that cross-dressing is much more common than they ever thought and most of us started at a very young age! Many of us had to stay in the proverbial cross-dressing closet with our secret for years if not decades!

There are many more reasons as a valued member as to why I’m here at CDH. However, I’m at my word limit so I’ll bring this to a close.


Girls, thank you so very much for taking the time to read another one of my articles and I look forward to your responses. Without further ado, here are my “Scarlett Trademark Questions” I always place right below every article I write or edit. Please feel free to answer one or more of my questions posed to you below!

  •         Are you currently still deep in the cross-dressing closet and what plans have you made, if any, of getting out of that closet?
  •         If your wife or SO knows about your thrill of cross-dressing, what are some of the limits she or he puts on your desire to cross-dress?
  •         Would you like to share your very first time you tried on feminine clothing? What did you put on to wear and then what did you do after you put the feminine clothing on?

Sincerely, Scarlett……..Love you girls!






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I love the thrill of cross dressing and based on the CDH girls' comments in response to my posted photos, I must be pretty good at exploring the feminine side of myself. I find it sexy, sensual, exciting, challenging, and ever changing. I'm so very blessed now to have as much money as I want to spend on Scarlett and can now, for the very first time in fifteen years, actually purchase dresses, tops, and skirts while shopping with my wife! I never thought that would ever come to fruition! I can now store all of Scarlett's things in our huge dream home when just a short period of time ago, it would all have to be kept in a temperature controlled storage unit. I love Crossdresser Heaven and know it's the classiest and most tasteful cross dressing site on line. All the girls are full of support and encouragement and if folks come to the site with alternative motives which aren't in line with our founder’s rules and regulations, they are quickly deleted from our site. Vanessa Law, our founder, keeps this site classy at all times. She has much help from her Ambassadors, Chat Room Monitors, Photo Monitors, Article Editors, and many more personnel to keep this site classy, encouraging, and supportive.
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Melissa Ellison
3 years ago

When i go out dressed in male mode it really upsets me, as I am inwardly a very honest person and I have my personal principles, and I feel like I am breaking all my own rules of who I am and what i was supposed to be. Dressed as Melissa, I am the complete opposite, i am so cheerful with a lovelly devil may care attitude, and full of daring behavour, though riske, never completely over the top, as I still have my principles and have a point i do not cross.. Lifes to be lived and to be… Read more »

Baily Marie Lovejoy
Active Member
3 months ago

Great story sweetheart. Love it 💕 What limits my SO puts on my cross dressing? In a word, “Makeup”. She’s dead against me wearing makeup this includes nail polish 💅 . My nails, at the time I write this, are long. Nearly a quarter inch long. She hates it 😁. She really does. She’s asked me several times to cut them but I won’t, yet. I want to shape and polish them. Of course this will be done in my shed slash wood shop. 😉😁 Thank you so much for helping me with both stories I’ve written here. Your input… Read more »

Johannah 66
Active Member
3 months ago

Scarlett; I have mentioned it elsewhere but I must say again that I have found the articles you have written to be most informative and educational!
I have learned so much from you through those articles so, long may your keyboard function!

Alice Black
Active Member
2 months ago

@Scarlett398 Enjoyed your latest article. You express yourself very well.  I can relate to a few of the things you were discussing. We too just moved in our case to an apartment with less storage space we are still unpacking and we have to do some downsizing especially my wife. I too have a honey do list and it is very long as my wife is disabled and cannot do anything.  And last, I  (like you) have been broadening my clothing and accessory choices. Although retired, I am still working full time job(everything is so expensive) so have resources to… Read more »

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