Coming Out

It’s right up there next to accepting yourself and passing as a woman. It’s difficult, emotionally draining and overall quite scary indeed. This week’s crossdressing success story is about coming out. It’s a reminder of how good it feels to come out, and how it’s never to late!

If you’d like to share your own real life coming out story, please take a moment to share your story and give other’s the courage to express their femininity to the world!

Coming Out – Sandy’s Crossdressing Success Story

Dear Vanessa and Sisters, My name is Sandy and I started dressing when I was 12 years old. One night I was baby sitting my younger brother and after he went to bed, for some reason I became interested in seeing what was in my mother’s dresser drawers. First thing I found were her soft panties. I took off my pajamas and put them on. Every few weeks I added something up to the silk stockings. Within a few months I had all her clothes on, her lipstick on (a bright red color), saw myself in the mirror all I could think about was how great it felt.

Over the next 35 years this experience was stuck in the back of my mind. I did enjoy reading about it when ever I could find something. Sometime around the age of 47, the feelings started taking root again, and over the next 10 years I started dressing in my home bedroom. Soon I started dressing and going out to the nail salon & spa’s and enjoyed the good times being pampered as well as looking forward to spending time making new friends each week. Sometimes I even went out to dinner and spent the night in a hotel.

I know I didn’t completely pass but it made me feel good anyway. The only thing my family knew is that my toes were always painted and in fact they still are. At 57 years old I retired & moved south. After spending 1 ½ years getting healthy after a near death car crash. I have now started buying new fem cloths and makeup.

I spend most of my time in something E Fem or dressed completely Fem. A few weeks ago during a trip up north to see family, I found a new web site called FemmeFever. The owner Karen, a real sweet lady, showed me how to do my makeup. We spent all day putting different looks on and took plenty of pictures. The experience has helped me be more relaxed and confident about my fem side. That evening Karen and a group of sisters from the area gave me a coming out party in a local restaurant. I had the greatest fem day ever and it felt so good that I will soon be going to Las Vegas for a fem Halloween party next month. Maybe my experience can help someone else overcome their fears. With love, Sandy

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If you want to look your feminine best you have to read this Crossdressing Guide. It’s chock full of excellent tips on how to look and act more feminine.

Vanessa Law

Founder at Crossdresser Heaven

I’m passionate about creating a safe space for everyone in the transgender community to find laughter and friendship on their journey. I completed my physical transition in 2011 and through it I lost everything, and gained everything. I am blessed that I was forced to gaze inward and embark on the journey to discover and live my authentic self. My deepest wish is that all who wander here may find peace, happiness and freedom.