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Tricia Dream replied to the topic "Does anyone find the desire to dress wears off occasionally?" – 2 months ago
It sure does for me. I don’t get to fully dress up much if at all and really am only able to underdress. My biggest thing is when I am underdressed or actually able to wear women’s clothing, I feel… Read more»
Tricia Dream replied to the topic Finding Crossdresser Heaven. in the forum Crossdresser Heaven Polls 5 months ago
I have absolutely no idea how I exactly came across CDH. Knowing how I work when I search the web, I search for general things and then focus on certain words I come across that I wasn’t aware of and start searching with those words. Best guess would be when I first discovered the term “cross dresser”, then I discovered this site. I visited every…[Read more]
Tricia Dream replied to the topic When in your current or latest relationship did you tell your significant other? in the forum Crossdresser Heaven Polls 5 months ago
Been married for about 12 years. Marked shortly after marriage, but it was actually before we got married when I told my wife. It went ok. She at first asked me to stop for a couple days while she processed that. After that, she seemed ok with it and would actually buy clothes for me. She then stopped for fear of “encouraging “ me. Now we’re at a…[Read more]
Tricia Dream replied to the topic I Should Have Known Better…. in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 6 months ago
I’m in a similar situation. The ear piercing thing came up once, in a situation I will not discuss here. My wife “accused” me of taking it further and further when she saw my painted nails. I tried to use a lighter, neutral color that wouldn’t be too noticeable on my fingers and it didn’t work. I’ve tried clear polish, but that doesn’t see…[Read more]
Tricia Dream replied to the topic Bralette vs breastforms & bra. in the forum Fashion Beauty & Makeup 6 months ago
I don’t own any forms, so I don’t know that feeling. I do however, own more bralettes than bras. I sometimes prefer bralettes since they’re not too constrictive. I have asthma so anything too tight around my chest can be a slight issue which has led to more and longer breaks recently. However, sometimes I say to heck with it and wear a bra so I…[Read more]
Tricia Dream replied to the topic Your crossdressing and your religious beliefs in the forum Crossdresser Heaven Polls 6 months ago
I am not religious in any way, however my wife and her parents are. It’s not a complete issue, but when I first told my wife I crossdressing she did ask her dad( a minister) how the Bible viewed that
Tricia Dream replied to the topic Pill or button in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 6 months ago
Give me the pill. I’m tired of the back and forth in my life everyday. To underdress or not to underdress? That is the question I myself am tired of working with. Take the issue completely out of my hands
Tricia Dream replied to the topic Are CD's a Cinderella Minority in the LGBT World? in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 6 months ago
Maybe I’m a little confused, but if the author is a trans woman that means she was born male right? Wouldn’t that mean she CD’d at one point or just went straight from men’s right to women’s clothes? Isn’t it nice when people you think would be supportive and understanding make comments like that
Tricia Dream replied to the topic A Cure For the Curse of Purging? in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 6 months ago
It’s not really a cure, but I just expect to go back to dressing at some point. I just went about a month or so with no underdressing. A couple of times I thought about doing something with all my things(nothing permanent, just boxing up) instead, I left everything alone thinking I would go back since like most of us here it is our true self, c…[Read more]
Tricia Dream replied to the topic Is your wife or SO intimate with you while you are en femme? in the forum Relationship Advice 7 months ago
I guess it depends on her mood. Sometimes my wife would let me pick something out to wear or pick something out herself. Other times, she would start getting in the mood, feel the tights under my jeans and completely stop and roll away from me. Our intimacy time is so few and far between now that it’s a moot point
Tricia Dream replied to the topic What is Your Favorite Legwear? in the forum Crossdresser Heaven Polls 7 months ago
Tights are my preferred leg wear. I have a couple pairs of wool lined that work really well for me during winter for my job
Tricia Dream replied to the topic Crossdressing today in the era of "woke-ism" in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 7 months ago
I would like to think that society today is evolving and becoming more understanding, but sometimes I just feel like some just don’t get it. This is more of an LGBTQ than just a CD thing, but when media just throws in a random gay thing just to have one or when a manga(Japanese comic for those who may not know) I’ve been reading has men “in…[Read more]
Tricia Dream replied to the topic Went To A Drag Show this week- What a Drag, not my thing anymore in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 7 months ago
I’ve always thought of drag as a separate, sometimes overly exaggerated branch of crossdressing. Went to a drag show during a pride event a few years back. It was alright, I guess. It was like drag race: outlandish, overly sexualized outfits.
On one hand, to each their own and they can do that if they want. On the other hand, there are some of u…[Read more]
Tricia Dream replied to the topic No Frédérique this weekend… was I moving too fast? in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 8 months ago
Yeah, don’t purge. I still regret my one purge a few years back. This feeling happens to the best of us. Sometimes we just say “not today”. I myself have been drab all weekend too. Now, will I go back to panties and sports bras for week this week? Not sure yet. Just go day to day and eventually the wanting to dress will surface again.
On anoth…[Read more]
Tricia Dream replied to the topic Do you dress less in the winter? in the forum Crossdresser Heaven Polls 8 months ago
I am actually able to underdress with more. I am outside with my job. Here in Ohio, that means I get to add wool lined tights and leggings to my wardrobe under my uniform pants
Tricia Dream replied to the topic Do you wish your breasts were larger? in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 8 months ago
Absolutely I wish my breasts were bigger. I am a natural lowercase a cup right now. A cup might be generous. I would prefer a C cup(don’t want anything too big) but a D cup might be better suited for my body. I just want to fill bras out better than I do right now and have some cleavage
Tricia Dream replied to the topic Would you continue to dress if it were 100% acceptable? in the forum Crossdresser Heaven Polls 8 months ago
Since I feel like I’m in the wrong body I would still dress if it were acceptable. I might actually get really good too if I could do it more often.
I often think the other way sometimes. If I was born female, would I still do or wear the more feminine things or would I fall into the habit of not as much or often as some women now?Tricia Dream replied to the topic Attraction but jealousy? in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 8 months ago
Being married, I’m not really attracted to the girl so much as the outfit. I’ll see a cute outfit and wish that I could wear it and then think “nope. No part of my body type/shape would make that look half as good on me as her”. That also bums me out a little, but I’m working on that part.
I also look for color combos on others to see what work…[Read more]
Tricia Dream replied to the topic Let's Talk: Body Positivity in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 8 months ago
My legs look great in tights/hosiery
I have great hair
I have been told these things by others. I haven’t been able to dress as much or often as others here, so I can’t really say what are my best features. I hope to change all of that someday.
I work out everyday with my job(which helps with my legs). My diet is definitely my biggest hur…[Read more]Tricia Dream replied to the topic Hair. Wigs or Natural? in the forum Fashion Beauty & Makeup 8 months ago
I know next to nothing about wigs, but I would color the wig instead of your natural hair especially if you think a perm or coloring your own hair might be too big a step.
My hair is now just past my shoulders. I’ve tried to tie it up in more feminine styles but the front isn’t as long as the back so it doesn’t stay tied. Thankfully, my stylis…[Read more]
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