I am a newbie here and I am amazed at how quickly I have come to love being a part of this incredible site, and, how much I have come to love and admire every girl I have met and talked to here. I have two muses, Abby and Daryl, that I have instantly connected to and to them I say thank you for bringing me out of my shell and giving me more to smile about than I can remember in recent times. Daryl is so out going and bubbly that I have a hard time keeping up. She is both naughty and sweet; her love of music is something we share and through that alone we will hopefully stay friends for a very long time. My Abby, what a ray of sunshine. For some reason I cannot fathom, she has instantly been a girl I want to be both around and with, because she makes me feel needed and wanted, as a friend and confidant. I hope she feels the same about me. I want to sit on the couch with her and gossip and chat and cry, share life stories, talk about anything and everything, I think I need her, she is life affirming for me. Both of these girls are special and I know that I will want to be around them forever.
I have yet to meet anyone here that is anything but sweet, beautiful, fun and funny in their own unique way. It is my wish that I come to know them all a little better; their stories are varied and broad in scope, somehow I hope I hear them all because I know I will learn not only about this world of crossdressing that we are in but the world as a whole. As blonde as I am I still love to learn…about almost anything…and thru this site I learn about myself. Someone recently asked me what I would want if given three unconditional wishes. I asked for an understanding SO, enough money to be comfortable for life, and three more wishes. I believe I am going to change my third wish. I now want my third wish to give me the power of an empath, to feel and see not only the joy and happiness here, but the pain and sorrow and shame as well, I would love to be able to just touch some of these wonderful girls and take all of that away from them, to be able to show them how special and beautiful they are, to give them the peace they so richly deserve.
Be as good as you want to be ……. and walk in heels. Oh, one other thing, if you don’t like what you see in the mirror…throw away the mirror, it’s broken anyhow.
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Jenny,
What a beautiful article! You have the same feelings have about the site since I joined almost three years ago. The love,support, and friendship we get on this site help us make it through the hours that most of us have to keep this vital part of us hidden from the world. i always enjoy seeing you in chat because I know if you are there them it will be a delightful evening. Thanks for reminding each of us what a treasure we have in CDH!
Cyn
Hello Skippy, thank you so much for the reply and very kind words, mostly undeserved. CDH has fast become a site I hope I never lose sight of, it is fun, informative, supportive, entertaining, and last but not least…loving. The girls are a beautiful bunch and I am sincerely honored to be a member here, I have a lot of fun, and believe that I have helped with some minor issues with a couple of the girls, having fun is a huge thing for me, and thinking that I might have lent a hand to someone makes me feel incredibly… Read more »
Jenny, the girls of CDH helped me find my true path and it has been an amazing journey ever since. All the love and support have been amazing.
Hello Cloe’, thanks for the response to my little note, I think CDH is an absolutely amazing site filled with amazing girls with astounding support for one another, I love it here and cannot say enough about how welcome I have felt and thankful I feel. I have said before and will say again, we are all on a journey which I believe will never end, each of us on a different path with a common thread that binds us, the journey itself, and CDH is a rest stop along the way where we are nurtured and sustained. Thanks again… Read more »
Jenny,
Well written article ! I only joined a few weeks ago and already feel so much better about myself. To read and chat with others that have experienced many of the same issues, is enlightening. I am excited to also be a part of this and hope to grow and make many good friends.
One again thank you.
Karen
Hello Karen, welcome to CDH, isn’t this a great place to be a part of, I am certain you will make many friends here just as I have, I don’t see how anyone could not make friends here, the girls are awesome. Thank you for the reply, have fun here, and always walk in heels, Jenny.
Hi Jenny…welcome to CDH… Your article was well written and your message should be read by the ladies here. I personally embrace your quote: “if you don’t like what you see in the mirror, throw the mirror out" I admit that is me.
But I embrace how I feel inside that counts … My outward appearance as a woman will evolve over time….. Thank you for your article and I look forward to your next writing….
Hello Leonara, thank you for the reply and kind words, I believe that every girl here at CDH is beautiful, has a heart of gold, and all need and want the acceptance we find here, this is a place to relax and be who you perceive yourself to be. Thanks again for the kind note, have fun and always walk in heels, Jenny.
Welcome to CDH Jenny. Beautiful words.
Hello Marie, thank you for the reply and kind words, have a great day and always walk in heels, Jenny.
Hi Jenny, I’ve just bought 2 pair of ballet flats shoes. Start at ground level and work up. Have a great day.
Marie
Oh Jenny, You write from the heart and truer words were never spoken.
Abounding love for you Jenny.
-Terri Anne
Hello Terri Anne, thank you for the reply and for the love you throw my way, I hope you can catch because it’s coming back your way. Have a great day and always walk in heels, Jenny.
Thank you Jenny, as I have the day off today, and the house to myself, your letter could not have come at a better time…thankyou, I truly needed that…
Hello Jenny, wow, it’s kind of weird to be writing to Jenny, almost like talking to myself. I hope you had fun on your Jenny day, isn’t it such a blast to cut loose and be who you really are, such fun could almost be illegal, and I don’t think seven days in a week are enough, there should be eight, one just for us girls. Thank you for your reply and the very kind words, be good and always walk in heels, Jenny.
You are such an inspiration! What a wonderful post to read today, and I I share your same feeling about CDH and this lovely community of ladies. I am so happy that you joined and I look forward to future posts from you.
Much blessings!
Helena
Hello Helena, thank you for the reply and kind words, maybe too kind. Isn’t CDH a blessing, what a fantastic place to hang out, everyone here has been so sweet and welcoming, almost like coming home, I am glad I stumbled in the door. I hope you have a great day and always walk in heels, Jenny.
Hi Jenny thank you for your story it was lovely you sound such a sweet lady i hope you give as many more stories love hugs & kisses
Xxxx
Hello Tammy, thank you for replying and all the very kind words, I’m not sure I deserve them. Be good and have a great day, and always walk in heels, Jenny.
Jenny…..I am so pleased that you have found a “home away from home" This is a unique site in this day and age and we all owe the founders so much. They have given us a place to be who we want to be and a mental shelter from the forces of everyday living, My only regret is that I did not discover this site until late in life. Rejoice and be happy within the companionship of all our girls.
Lady Veronica Graunwolf
Hello Lady Veronica, thank you for the awesome reply, CDH is a place for all of us to relax and enjoy the ability to be who we are, be ourselves, and of course be comfortable. have a great day and always walk in heels, Jenny.