Girlfriend supports my crossdressing

Hi. I’m Robin. I’ve been crossdressing off and on since my early teens and only recently have I come out about it to a few select friends. I’ve never fully understood my desire to be girly. Part of it, I think, is that women’s clothes always seem to be more vibrant and sexy than anything I’ve ever found in the men’s department. That and that I’ve never felt quite confident as a man.

One of those with whom I recently shared my secret with is my fiance. I was sure that it would be the end of things, yet felt she needed to know. Much to my surprise and delight, she likes this about me and has even begun helping me to perfect my look. While I still have a long way to go so as to be the woman I want to be, it is so much easier now that I’ve got such a warm and caring woman in my life to help me. I’m thinking that this site will also be of great help to me, so thank you for creating it.

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  1. Millicent Teasedale 2 years ago

    Isn’t it wonderful to have the support and encouragement of your significant other? My wife and I are still working through everything, but she has always been positive and supportive. I’m so glad your fiance understands and enjoys this part of you.


    • Kyla 2 years ago

      Millie, I thought the same thing. I love to hear stories where the loved ones know and are still caring and helpful. My wife and I too are still making progress, but thankfully there have been more ups than downs…hang in there! 🙂

  2. Tracey Rose 2 years ago

    it is amazing to hear this lovely story

    tracey x

  3. JackieOhNo 2 years ago

    My wife was my best friend,best wife etc I started in my sixty yr.
    She loved me and said after I started xdressing I became more loving and caringas a human being and as hubby. It didn’t make me less
    male but nicer !, she passed and is with her angels but I m sure glad we had a short time with me as Jackie
    I think you found a angel.
    Luv. Jackie

    • Samantha Troup 6 months ago

      Jackie sorry to hear about your wife always cherish what you had and keep looking forward to the future Hun I had lost my wife to cancer also but she didn’t understand my crossdressering

  4. Kandy 2 years ago

    That’s awesome! I wish it was that simple for all of us…….

  5. Codille Benton 2 years ago

    This is great to hear Robin, I toast to you and your Fiance’ future!!!!


  6. Mandy Funtime 2 years ago

    You are so lucky ! I agree with Kandy … I wish things where that simple for all of us ! Congrats

  7. Helen 2 years ago

    It is so great to hear of your support. I couldn’t do it without the love and support of my wife

  8. Jamie 2 years ago

    My wife of 35years of marriage came home one day to find me sitting in chair with a new wig on.It surprised her at first but then said she had thought I liked womens clothing and we talked about it and I told her how good it made me day she bought several pairs of pantyhose and panties for me.She sees how I order clothing online and says if I am happy she doesn’t mind as long as I am still her loveing husband.

  9. Lucinda Hawkns 2 years ago

    wow wish my wife would do the same to me, i am happy when dressed up as a female for as long as i can. she knows i am happier but don’t like to see me dressed up but lets me. i don’t understand that part. but i love dressing up as a female from head to toe. i buy my own clothing and make up and all that on line and in stores. i finally joined a cross dressing group and went out in public as a female and walked to meeting and chatted with other girls and had a great time. looking forward to this coming meeting

  10. Awe THis story is so sweet; sometimes all we need is one person we love and respect to say “I Believe in You”… My beautiful wife has told me repeatedly that no matter what, we’re in it together!
    The strength that this truly unconditional love brings is worth more than all the gold in California!!
    Thanks for sharing Miss Robin 🙂


  11. Rosaliy Lynne 2 years ago

    You lucked out well – I am so happy for you and wish you both all the best. Support is great but when it comes from your partner – it’s the best.

  12. Brittany 2 years ago

    That’s great. I wish i could do that

  13. Mona. 2 years ago

    I came out to my wife and explained all the lingerie stashed here and there and also the misfit items I bought for her (presumably) and never returned. She understood my desire which has given me a lot of freedom and happiness. She had only one condition… To keep it private and not go around in public en-femme. This was a step ahead and I thought one day she would even agree for me to dress in public which unfortunately did not happen.

    Now, I have two problems… 1. I have a whole load of items in the house belonging to me and at times these outnumber her items (Shoed/lingerie)… Which she complains about constantly now… Secondly, I have been out for short times en-femme and she is not aware of it. I want her to help me with that… Maybe if we ever get a chance to travel together (two of us without kids) then I may convince her to accompany me as my girlfriend while I am dressed up.

    Mine and our constant fear is what if our kids (ever growing) find it out and question it and secondly, what if someone of our friends would see me dressed up… We are really worried about the embarrassment that it will bring and the impact on our friend group.

    • Esther 2 years ago

      My story is almost like yours. I told My wife that I wanted to wear slips instead of undershorts, & she didn’t mind & even bought me a slip. But when I wanted to wear a skirt, she made me promise not to wear one in our hometown, which I didn’t mind as I didn’t want my friends to see me either. Now my problem is that we don’t get out of town as many times as I want to wear my skirts. My wife does wear skirts all the time, so I hope sometime to be able to convince her that I need to dress as comfortably in skirts as she does. Esther

  14. Chloe 2 years ago

    I would encourage everyone to tell there wife they dress. Your wife/girlfriend will figure it out anyway and honesty is what we all want. Be prepared for different responses, I’ve read articles of support to wives leaving . I would stop before I would lose my marriage.

    • Joanna Lambeau 4 weeks ago

      I did tell my wife I like to get dressed up just 4 months into our marriage and after a lot of crying (me) she became supportive at first but now 20 years later she is not so supportive. She knows all my clothes are female and that now I am seeing a therapist and an endocrinologist for my hormones as well as an electrolysis to rid my face of facial hair and doing my eyebrows in a feminine shape and size. I also told her I want to go all the way and that I like men. We have not had coitus in over 15 years and I started taking hormones a year after that.
      She just asks that I don’t bring men to our home, but she also told me that if I go any farther (I already have large breasts) she will leave me. I don’t have to go farther I NEED Togo all the way. My therapist says I should leave her but I will never leave her high and dry. In over 20 years she has NEVER argued or yelled at me. I need to get my vocal cords done after electrolysis and after that I want to get Facial Feminization Surgery and after that SRS. If she leaves me it will be her choice but I hope we will always be friends like we are now. It’s not a want but a need. I love her very much but different now. My ultimate goal is to one day be a bride and wife but I don’t hold much hope in that Ever happening but a girl can dream.


    Hi all I often buy women’s clothing in women’s stores and are used to it vendors They like what I wear female clothes and I want to say the most important thing is the support of the wife She understands and who does not talks about it But I want to go to town in a dress and all female only no wig and shoes Else I will make Your Vasilisa

  16. Suzanne 2 years ago

    I’m OLDER and I’ve been married twice (both deceased). The first wife was a religious fantatic and bi-polar, hated the idea of me wearing feminine clothes. I had to take any “golden opportunities” to dress in private.
    However, the second had been in show business, loved costumes, makeup, and more…she would dress with and for me in the bedroom and she is the one I will miss!

  17. Rachel 2 years ago

    Great life 🙂 photo looks fantastic and must be great to be honest and open. Especially when tjme alone can make you happy, it must be joyous to have company too 🙂 Rachel

  18. Joanne Williams 2 years ago

    My wife never got into the crossdressing so I tried to keep it low key, until last week. While she was at work I got dressed & went out shopping fully intending to be home before her. She got off early, as I turned the corner to my house, I see her car parked out front. I pulled in the driveway, got my purse & bags & prepared myself for the fallout. I no sooner came thru the door & there she was, she looked me up & down then said, really john, you plucked your eyebrows & shaved your legs again, where were you out looking for a man ? Its not bad enough that you dress up here but now your going shopping, why don’t you just start taking hormones & find yourself a man because that’s what you really want. I looked at her & said you know your right then went over & sat down crossing my legs like a woman.

    • Susan Roxx 2 years ago

      Yes, sometimes you have to be firm. I got so tired of my wife putting me down for cross dressing, accusing me of wanting men and hormones as well as the tension that was between us. So finally I told her “It is what it is!” She said I am self centered and I don’t care about other’s feelings, but I really do. I am just trying to feel comfortable with what I am and who I am. I know what I want and need. I am glad you stood up for yourself.

  19. Michelle Eileen 2 years ago

    I met my wife at a gender convention 21 years ago She was a vendor selling mastectomy breast forms and we clicked. We had a conventional marriage and then a gender wedding at Southern Comfort in 1995. It was wonderful to be a blushing bride. I have never been happier with how life as am now.

  20. Faye Kearney 2 years ago

    All these wonderful stories have given me hope that one day my wife will accept me as Faye.

    My first wife accepted Faye but after 16 years of marriage she commited adultry and used my dressing in the divorce .

    Life can be so harsh but reading these stories of love and understanding must give us all hope.

  21. Jennifergordon 2 years ago

    So important to be yourself. The dressing will continue for sure. No fighting it anymore. Stay pretty and calm.

  22. Wanda Shirkey 2 years ago

    You are so lucky to have a loving and caring lady in your life that helps you be you.

  23. JackieOhNo 2 years ago

    After 30 yrs I finally had the balls to tell Ellen my fantasys about getting crossdressed.She had some ideas,I would try on her panties and say how nice they feel.when I finally let go of the “guilt” and let go our lives had a new pursuit.she passed a few years ago and I miss her so much.i don’t regret waiting so long,but am grateful for the fun we did have.

  24. Simone 2 years ago

    You’re very lucky. When I told my wife (of 33 years), she was shocked and hostile. I have to be very careful what I wear at home to avoid angering and (yes) hurting her. She has begun talk of separation and even divorce. It is a very “unfun” side to my being a woman.

  25. connie 2 years ago

    i love all that has to do whith cross dress

  26. Rachel 2 years ago

    Robin that’s a wonderful thing to happen to you. Does your partner have a sister ? Be great to have your feelings you must have now! Love Rachel

  27. Tissy 2 years ago

    I too have a magic partner that enjoys this part of our lives…she bought me some lovely knickers the other day and was excited to see me try them on…It is so much better when the spouse accepts this part of us…and doesn’t want to flee…..

  28. Jennifer Harvey 2 years ago

    I’m kinda in a boat as some of you. My wife is not accepting of my dressing. She states that she is afraid if I do it long enough that I will want to transition to a female. So I do it when she isn’t around just so she doesn’t have to see it. I just wish I knew people that I could hang out with that would accept me for who I am

  29. Gillian 1 year ago

    I told my wife about my cross dressing about 20 years ago. She did my make up and let me borrow her lingerie and clothes but got a bit freaked. She is ok with my dressing but not when she’s around which is a ok but not ideal.

    • Sarah Daniels 1 year ago

      Same, but she went out with me and we got my own stuff. Then after I went to a salon that did CD experiences (fully dressed and made up) she freaked. Ive never worn makeup with her and only dressed fully with her that one time and now its a dont ask dont tell sort of deal. Although she does seem to be taking sneaky peeks into my closet and makes occassional comments. Softly softly I think for me is working.

  30. Jessica 1 year ago

    What a wonderful story. It’s good that your discussing this openly with your partner now. It sounds like many, including myself have issues with this. If we love the people around us we have got to be open. You know what. I’m born male. I’m married and I want to transition. I want to be a woman. I’m not going to be able to it physically. I can’t have that kind of surgery but I want to be myself. My wife wants me to like her clothes but not to wear clothes like hers. I like to do a lot of more female things. She doesn’t like it. So it’s hard. And I realize it’s my fault for not being totally truthful when we started seeing each other. Now after almost 20 years she says she knew she just ignored it. But I never said it out loud. I just kept hoping she would notice I’m a woman. I mean she even tries to teach me how to be more like a man in bed. But ai never said anything. It’s so important to talk and be honest. And if you can’t then it’s impossible to have a loving relationship. Thanks for sharing your story.

  31. Lucille Spencer 1 year ago

    Many people urge others to come out and be “truthful” with their SO’s. As you can see above it’s a mixed bag. I believe one should give serious thought to that move. If you live with and love the person you are with you should be able to make a reasonable judgement as to how they will react. If they react badly the cat will be out of the bag and your future will be troubled or you will be divorced. You have to decide which is more important to you, your SO’s or your girl life before you spill it. Do NOT have a convenient “accident” by “being caught”. That’s no way to do it.

    In my case at that time almost nobody I knew or heard of had a good result by telling. I gave it much thought and decided that my wife would probably not divorce me and we’d somehow muddle through. What I did realize was that it would definately NOT help our marriage so I made the decision to live in stealth. I have been able to do this successfully. I admit living a double life is not the easiest or best but I feel that I have had the best of both worlds and it works for me. If I were coming of age now instead of many years ago I definately would do as was done here and tell. I didn’t really have that option back then. I didn’t even know it was an option.

  32. Michelle5 Malloy 1 year ago

    My ex asked me to try on her dress at first I was reluctant to do it but she persisted I finally did it for her and then let her no I was a crossdresser after the last few years she got tired of me dressing as a women and left me as she said to be with a real man but I wouldn’t change anything for the experience I had as I love being a crossdresser

  33. debbie 1 year ago

    I think many women like and are curious about cds. I have no problem socializing and partying with straight women but believe they just dont want to be married to one. Maybe its like for you guys on the desire to be with a professional stripper which you would love to date but in long run not marry. Well my thoughts as a gay cd trying to sort it out

  34. Michelle5 Malloy 1 year ago

    WI love Bering girly
    I love being girly

  35. dizzylizzy 1 year ago

    very important to let your intendant know way ahead of time let them make the choice of weather they can accept you as a crossdresser or not saves the wicked fights and separation that may occur later in your relationship by that time there may be children involved. you may be surprised just how accepting most people are as they relize we all have our things we love to do that may seem odd to others.

  36. Valeria Villa 1 year ago

    Well my wife caught me wearing her panties a couple of times and was hurt and mad. I told her I wouldn’t do it anymore but I did. Our marriage went bad and she cheated on me but blames me for divorce cause of me dressing been a,bad divorce and I don’t know how many people she told about me.and even carries pic of lingerie I have to blackmail me. I’m to a point in my life I don’t care anymore. I just don’t dress in front of kids.

    • Jackie blue 1 year ago

      Hello I’m jackie blue. My wife knows my.secret. she bought me an her lot of lingerie. We would have hot sex for hours . She liked it. But she did the unthinkable when she was pissed off at me for jumping her 18yr old sons ass about late videos on my card. She got mad and flipped out .I know her when she’s mad at me cuz the lazy 18yr old. She told all her family and probably told everyone who would listen to her. But nothen I can do about it now and I’m also at that age ,well I don’t care . If they know owell. But I only dress in lingerie in private so if they don’t like it, I’ll put my male clothes on and let em know , I’m no wamon and an best not piss me off. . But lost all respect for my wife. She crossed to many lines with her anger . and I won’t be treated like she does me. So I’m filing for devorse but I’ll still have my fun in lingerie. Screw em they probably do it or worse there own self. Guess you can’t trust others with secrets. Have fun All male

  37. Angie Pierce 1 year ago

    Hey there ladies I’m angie I am a cd I came out to my girlfriend about 10yrs ago at first I was scared to death to say anything about it. She looked at me and said that she loves me no matter what I like to wear. She came home from work and had a nice dress for me to put on panties and brahs she does my makeup and she also paints my nails. She even found places for me to order clothes and accessories from. I love being a female I feel so good. To be honest she knows I like men also so she got me a man and sat and watched him have his way with have a great girlfriend. Now she is looking for a good plastic surgeon so I can get implants. She is my world

  38. Courtney b 1 year ago

    Aww chick thats great news good luck and enjoy xx

  39. Deborah Rose Panton 1 year ago

    I finally came out 4 ears ago. I also lost a lot friends and was disowned by my family. I feel normal now and finally living full time as female. It feels so right because I have been dealing with this for my whole life. Time to do what is right for me. Don’t let them get you down, it’s important to be who you are. My only support is my girlfriend, she helps me get dressed when I go out, even to see my therapist.

  40. Brittany Asher 1 year ago

    Well after reading all of these post I feel more at ease. My story is about the same as most, not the situation I was hoping for. we are divorced and she knows and sees me dressed up and does not say much. She lives in my house and we get along but as friends. I have spent most of my life fighting the wanting to be female. I do not fight it any more I just Have to deal with the time and place thing. I still have to work to pay the bills and survival is priority.
    But I am in female clothing of some kind all the time. When I have to wear the male stuff it is only as long as I have to and I have my panties and what ever else I can wear on.
    I have the wigs, glue on breast, and a nice wardrobe. I wish I was 50 years younger as I would transgender. 50 years I have enjoyed wearing women’s clothing. Especially the satiny and silky things. It took awhile to find the right Bra but after that I want my own so bad.
    I would really like to know what it is like to be with a male.
    I would rather be an ugly girl than be where I am.

  41. Brittany Asher 1 year ago

    I forgot to say I am Brittany Asher. I messed up signing up and haven’t figured out how to fix it yet.

    • RUBYDE 12 months ago

      its verry nice.that wives help us and except us mine did not so i went out and visited lady Dominatrixs. many over the years it is if ur old lady dont dig it.go out and find the right one…no need to say anything.i prefer it this way things get pritty wild with a dom…thanks good luck to all

      • Candy Safranek 10 months ago

        My wife caught me dressed up and at first, went crazy and told me to get out of the house and never have anything else to do with her.
        I just stayed in the basement expecting divorce papers shortly. After a week or so, I found a letter on the sofa one day and in it she told me that she really didn’t want to lose me but if I stayed, it would be on her terms.
        Basically, she told me that she was going to be my mistress and that I would have to do whatever she told me to do and if I could live like this, we would stay together.
        Her letter went on to tell me that I would dress up whenever we were home and that I must obey everything she told me to do and if I agreed, to follow her instructions on keeping myself smooth shaven and dress in the things she had laid out for me.
        I agreed to her conditions and became her submissive little panty slut.

  42. Tammy Girl 1 year ago

    Very nice you are lucky

  43. Jessica 1 year ago

    Such a wonderful fiancé u have! All the best for the developing bright future darling 🙂
    Jess xx

  44. Sunseearry 1 year ago

    You are the luckiest and very much loved. She is exceptional !

  45. Marci 1 year ago

    You are so fortunate as am I. My lady buys me bras and panties and loves to go shopping with me for dresses and shoes. We both benefit as dressing up makes me feel sexy and we have the best hottest sex when I’m Marci – she’a my best friend!

  46. Kim Cummings 1 year ago

    It’s always so exciting and wonderful to feel like a beautiful woman who is not ashamed to be myself. The alluring desire to be feminine looking and experience the sensuous feeling that comes with the new me is a very erotic and exciting way to express my feelings.

  47. Kim Cummings 1 year ago

    Sometimes I get feeling so naughty and I will put on my pantyhose and high heels and some make up, lip gloss and drive around at night with dark windows and get kinky. I get excited about this prospect of my own feminine looking self.

    • roni 1 year ago

      I know what you mean I told my wife long ago and we worked out the problem similar to what you have done

  48. Kareneliz 1 year ago

    I dress fully now in makeup and love the woman I see in the mirror. My wife helps me with makeup tips and accepts me as Karen that is part of me. But its been a long journey with challenges . My advice to those who havent been honest is to come forward and tell. It is better than trying to deny it or hide it which is too stressful and not fair to the one needing to express their femmine self.

  49. Wanda Shirkey 1 year ago

    I really envy you. My wife knows but she just tolerates it. Doesn’t have any issues seeing me in panties but that is about it. She knows I dress (don’t really have much men’s clothes) but doesn’t go out and buy me anything. My dream is for us to go out shopping together and buying lingerie and other women’s clothes.

  50. Sasha 1 year ago

    I am so fortunate to have a wife who has accepted & embraced the ‘other woman’ in our lives .We have been together 31 yrs now . I told her within our first year together . Rather than freaking out , she completely encouraged & inspired Sasha to be all that she can be .
    Over the years she has bought make up , clothes , wigs , shoes , accessories etc .
    Sasha exists in the physical world because I have met my soulmate who accepts all that I am .
    Love to all

  51. Sarah Daniels 1 year ago

    Isnt it funny how initially our SO’s often support and are interested enough to participate in our dressing, but after a short while they freak out and say they dont like it anymore.

    I wonder if they either see us as somehow diminished or is it their own persona that they are worried about (“I love my husband, he wears a dress and looks like a woman so does that make me a lesbian?” sort of thing). Does the idea that they love a part time woman scare them? Or is it just the coming to terms with their multi faceted partner that scares them?

    • Desiree Ford 9 months ago

      That’s what worried about. Will she run from acknowledging what she liked about me now that I have given it name? Desiree. I’m still waiting.

    • susieque 11 months ago

      Hi Sarah! I have had a similar experience. I told my wife of my crossdressing shortly after we started dating. She was very supportive and even bought me a skirt and blouse as a wedding gift, We had a girls day out on our honeymoon, but being young and fearful, I limited our outing to driving around and private places. We have been married for 30+ years, but she has been unsupportive for the last 20 or so years. so I am more in the closet than before we met because now my dressing is limited to sheer support hose and shaved legs with an occasional mani/pedi. She doesn’t have a problem with my wearing pantyhose or thigh-his because I have a doctors perscription to help take the stress on what is left of my heart (in 2007 I had the widow maker heart attack and survived. take care and good luck!! Susie

    • Sarah Daniels 1 year ago

      I wonder with time do they start to accept it or does the idea push them away from acceptance?

  52. Paul Coyle 1 year ago

    My wife loves when im Kylie our housemaid. She has just purchased a beautiful see through frenchmaids dress for me to do my chores in . My beautiful wife buys all my underwear ,make up ,shoes, wigs dresses ect.ect. I love my life since i came out to my wife. I am much more relaxed in body and mind when kylie is here.

  53. Stefanie 1 year ago

    Just told my wife she has been supportive
    We ll see in the long tun what happens

  54. Christine 12 months ago

    Thank you ladies for sharing your experiences. I am bi/gender fluid and have been on and off dressing for a number of years (10+). I have always struggled with why I want to dress and struggle more finding acceptance when I dress. Finally I recently started finding on line communities like this one. Ready through each of your experiences (positive and negative) and relating to so much of it I have stopped trying to deny how much I love to be fem.

    One of the take always from these forums is that the longer people waited to accept themselves and share this side of themselves the more regret they had, wishing they would have “come out” about dressing sooner.

    I have taken that to heart, told my fiancé and she is having a really hard time with it. I am feeling stuck between a rock and a hard place because I don’t want to live my life in a closet trying to be feminine in short periods of the couple hours I may find to be alone or for the few days a year she may travel with out me.

    Anyways, I have a councilor who has really helped to nudge me to be honest with myself and my desires. And nudge me to plug into communities like this one, so thank you for making this place exist.

    I am so happy to hear that others have met Female SO who have accepted their dressing and in some cases even helped with makeup, hair, and clothes. I hope to find someone like that myself some day…

    Thanks again ladies for being here and sharing your stories.


    • Sarah Daniels 12 months ago

      Chrissy be patient with her. It may be that its a lot to take on and quite and adjustment. Take it slow and steady. If she comes round it may take years, or it may only take months. She may appreciate a shopping buddy or maybe she wont. Either way take the moments you can for you and invest the others in her. If it works out you win and if not you have no regrets for having not tried.


      • Christine 12 months ago

        Thanks for the words of encouragement/support Sarah.

  55. Nikki 12 months ago

    This was a nice and wonderful article. I am glad your future wife is so understanding. Sadly, in my experiences and travels that is not always the case. Many women i have encountered don’t like there men CDing. This makes them uncomfortable and in some ways betrayed. I understand the betrayal feelings. Many women marry men to be with men not a man in women’s cloths, many women would say. I don’t hold it against any gender woman that feels this way. I understand there doubt and confusion. For me, my wife doesn’t know. I dont think she would accept it well. It could be because we are in a stressful time right now in our marriage. I hope one day i can come out to her.

  56. Delores Dee 11 months ago

    she’s a keeper. I was married to a wonderful woman who I shared my secret with for 38 years. She too was understand and supportive. Because I open up to her it made us grow even closer together. She was my soulmate.

  57. Cissy D 11 months ago

    You are a very lucky girl to find such a woman. My wife is tolerant of my dressing but not supportive. I am semi retired and spend about two days a week at home being a housewife. Although my wife would prefer I didn’t dress she likes the fact that I like to go shopping, exercise to keep my weight off and much appreciates that the housework is done. Sometimes she shows her appreciation by buying me little things like lip stick or nail polish. You definitely have a keeper there.

  58. Marissa 11 months ago

    Glad you came out to your fiance. My girlfriend turns out to be dominant while I am the submissive. I told here that I like to wear womans clothing after 30 days and she has always been supportive. Very few bisexual women can have their man and be a woman too, its a treat. She is helping me through my transition as she see the androgynous side to my figure. Hope everything works out. Cheers!

  59. Andrea11 10 months ago

    Hi, i have a similar story. I was with my girlfriend for 1.5 years when i told her i would like to try out pantyhose just to see what it feels like. She was surprised about my wish but was ok with it. Note that i tried pantyhose the first time when i was 13 and this was not actually my first time. And after another 2 years with the same gf i wear pantyhose and tights all the time and i am not ashamed of it. But the thing is, when nobody is arround i like to wear pantyhose and short skirt (women panties and bras do not attract me) and the feeling is so liberating. Only thing is, i don’t know how would my gf react if i told her i like to be dressed more like woman. She is tolearnt and somehow supportive but only for pantyhose, not skirts or dresses. She even borrows some stuff from me lol. I have a wish for somebody else to see me dressed like a woman but she wouldn’t like it. And because of that i feel trapped. Not sure about what to do.

  60. kay L'amber 10 months ago

    i have been very careful to let my girlfriends/wives know who and what i am from the start. My first marriage did not stand up well to that and my current partner is tolerant but not really accepting. most of that is from my bisexual side as that comes out strong when i dress and although we played together many times early on after some bad expieriences where the guys i was dating wanted her to the point of obsession she set boundaries which we do not cross. i get to do my thing but do not tell her or let her see any of the guys at all. So i am in a closet of sorts but able to keep clothes around and occasionally dress at home. not the best solution but it keeps the peace and shows i still love and support her feelings.

  61. Miichelle4 mallory 9 months ago

    My ex loved to dress me up as a girl until she discovered that I loved it then she despised me

    • Samantha Troup 7 months ago

      Oh hun I know what that is like I’m saying from experience but like I said it isn’t going to happen ever again love samatha

  62. Miichelle4 mallory 9 months ago

    My ex left me when she discovered that I loved dressing up as a girl I’ve been doing it for 40 years love being a sissy girl

  63. Desiree Ford 9 months ago

    Lucky you. When I tried on a pink chemise that she had in her summer clothes tote the other day(just playing around didn’t really think about it ), her reaction blew me away! She looked excited! But, later when we went bed and I had it on she said “No!! Absolutely not”
    We were supposed to get mani-pedis today, but, that’s been cancelled. Can’t put the Genie back the bottle. I wonder where we go from here.

  64. Desiree Ford 8 months ago

    She’s talking to US! She is talking to Man AND Desiree! OMG! I SO hope this is real! She really spoke to Dee AND MAN in the same conversation! I am “standing here beside myself”. This is unreal! I will be online with any certainty.

  65. Lisa Sweetie 8 months ago

    Wow that’s fantastic I am married and I was lucky enough to share an evening with my wife in nylons but ever since she has not been too keen but I hope that one day she will be OK with me being Lisa x

  66. Sarah Ann Shae 8 months ago

    Good for you sister! My wife knows and has lots of fun helping me….hope you two find lots of joy together!
    XOXO….Sarah Ann

  67. Samantha Troup 7 months ago

    I so wish I had found that right woman to help me my first wife we were married 34 years she divorce me when I dressed for a costume party as a French maid now I was secretly dressing for many years but she used it as an excuse my 2nd wife I told about me dressing after we got married I was going to dress she stopped me said she thought I was kidding with her I will not go out with anyone who isn’t good with me crossdressering before we have a 2nd date

  68. Robert Rogers 7 months ago

    Am I Transsexual, Cross Dresser, or other. I am 73 year old male, closet dresser in Denver, Co. and would like to talk and or meet someone to help me to decide or if I am to old. Thank you.

    • Renee Johnson 6 months ago

      If it feels right go for ti Your never too old.

    • Robert……You are too old now to go thru what is necessary to be transgender. You tube shows the operation in real time and it is fairly complicated. I would say…….cross dressing is best. now.

      Regards……….Lady Victoria Graunwolf.

  69. Annieurok Wright 7 months ago

    While i am getting older, I am not as concerned as to others finding out. I live in the Springs down main-line 25. I have to ask, with 60 being 30 now, how does feel to real as you maybe

  70. Jennifer 7 months ago

    i think its great that you have a loving and caring woman that will help you i told my wife and she said it was gross and wanted me to stop . i still dress but i have to hide it from her

  71. Yvonne Springs Lewis 6 months ago

    You are a very lucky lady I wish there was someone out there like that for me who would help me hone my inner woman

  72. Tom tossen Vossen 6 months ago

    A female friend of mine said i should just be me amd do my normal non-cotton brief wearing in her presence.
    It made me feel free-er all around….so i did a little..and requested she show me the panties i want to see her in…


  73. Tamera Lynn 5 months ago

    Congratulations on your decision, Robin . . . . . and a special congrat’s to your fiancee, for being so loving, understanding, and supportive. You’ve got the makings of a great life together. Love to you both, Tamera

  74. celina taso 5 months ago

    Congratulations.i also like it very much.even your fiance is supportive.our thoughts must always be optimistic and positive so everything will be fine and smooth.
    It is a great privilege for should carry u

  75. Veronica Raines 4 months ago

    Hey girl. Which one are you?

  76. cassandra 4 months ago

    hi I started out as cd and am now close the transition to woman hood would like to correspond with any TG,s for friendship ,I live in Australia Cassandra

  77. philippa 2 months ago

    This reminds of a fancy dress party that my wife and l whent to. she wanted me to be the female part and taking great fun in getting my outfit from head to toe ,the evening before she asked me to try it on and the look of shook as I came back in the room.I think
    she thought I’d look like the ugly sister but someone total passable with no makeup and wig .
    Both of us had great evening at the party as we walked home on a crisp cold evening the thrill for me of cold air around my skirt and stockings and heels on the pavement, I had not felt that for such a long time.
    The next morning as I was making breakfast my wife came in and with newspaper in hand started talking about yesterday evening party ,and how all her girlfriends were saying it was not me dressed up she felt jealous and proud at the same time then she asked if I would wear female clothes again not just for a party ,I shared second before replying and said yes.A weird smile came across her face and said she wants to meet that person again so once a month l change into this person and her and i have a great time doing so .

    • Charr Shannon 2 months ago

      What a blessing to be able to share the most intimate desires and needs with your best friend!

  78. Laura 3 weeks ago

    My wife is very supportive and buys me knickers on occasions, but has never helped me with dressing which I would love her to do. She always complements me on how I look and the sex is great.

  79. Aeva 2 weeks ago

    my girlfriend know i like to dress as a woman.
    she wants me to go to a casino dressed up, but i am more of a closet dresser. we drove to her friends house one time which is 40 miles from home. I was so embarrased driving down the road hoping that no one saw me with a dress on. (no wig or makeup on).
    when we got to her friends house i put the makeup and wig on and hurried to the house hoping no one recognized me as a man.
    her friend didnt even flinch about it, but I quickly changed back to my regular clothes.
    Somedsy i would like to get a professional make over and go out in public if i could be passable and get the courage to go out in public but it would have to be in another town far from my own.

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