I told my fiance I crossdress and this happened…

Girlfriend supports my crossdressing

Hi. I’m Robin. I’ve been crossdressing off and on since my early teens and only recently have I come out about it to a few select friends. I’ve never fully understood my desire to be girly. Part of it, I think, is that women’s clothes always seem to be more vibrant and sexy than anything I’ve ever found in the men’s department. That and that I’ve never felt quite confident as a man.

One of those with whom I recently shared my secret with is my fiance. I was sure that it would be the end of things, yet felt she needed to know. Much to my surprise and delight, she likes this about me and has even begun helping me to perfect my look. While I still have a long way to go so as to be the woman I want to be, it is so much easier now that I’ve got such a warm and caring woman in my life to help me. I’m thinking that this site will also be of great help to me, so thank you for creating it.

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  1. sarasue olson 10 hours ago

    I learned honesty is the best policy Robin. Many years ago when I was dating I met several women that I was very attracted to but before we got too serious I felt that I must see how she felt about guys that crossdressed. I didn’t want to live A lie and more so I didn’t want to hurt her by hiding my dressing and living in fear that she would not tolerate my dressing and have her hating me. Now than I just didn’t come out and tell her I was A crossdresser, I was very tactful with my approach. I started by telling her how nice she looked in what she was wearing, then said I think that guys are cheated by not having pretty soft things to wear, in A joking way. I got some very negative feedback from three ladys that I really liked. Then I met A girl that I kinda thought was cute she had A great personality and as we dated I really got serious about her and used my line about how she looked. to my surprise she agreed with me and told me about her younger brother that liked to wear her old clothes, and how he hated boys underwear. then she said that guys underwear was really nasty.Then asked if I wore briefs or boxers? I got really brave and said nether only panties. She had A surprised smile on her face and said I hope your not kidding, to which I answered not at all. Well to make A long story short we married after graduation and just celebrated our fiftieth anniversary.

  2. CindyNorstrom 2 weeks ago

    That is great to hear. If more guys would be open about their dressing to their girl or wife, then more people they may find they will be understanding enough to help you out. What better time to come out than Halloween, it is easier cause the female will help you in the stores. They just think you are dressing for one day, but little do they know right?

  3. Lara Cross 2 weeks ago

    Good lesson for us, Robin. I am still a little hesitant, but your story helps. -Lara

  4. Nayomi 3 weeks ago

    How wonderful just simply knowing that you do not need to endure the uncomfortable and ever haunting feeling of hiding who you really are. Let me assure you that your life will be so much more fulfilling and joyous. That is the best gift you could have ever given each other! Brava! Congratulations and I wish you (three) a long and happy marriage.

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