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Vanessa’s Transgender Experience
Vanessa Law shares her experience as a 30 year old transgender girl. Come join in her joys of crossdressing, relationship advice and ponderings on how being transgendered has forever altered her life.
Today I'm going to share something with you that I've hesitated to share for many years. On the brink of my first transgender surgery I pause for a moment and consider my journey to this point.
Your journey to discover your true self began long ago - have you reached your dreams?
Dear readers, Over the weekend I was thinking about you, and about the journey that I’ve taken. In many ways I’ve been tremendously blessed. My self discovery, the support I’ve had along the way and my transition have all worked out about as well as I could have...
It's been three years since I went full time, and two years since my surgery. I could not have wished for a more blessed entry into the fullness of womanhood. Join me on my joys and struggles
After many transgender surgeries, Vanessa is walking the long road back to physical and emotional recovery. Breaking through the final barriers of shame is next on her list!
To my lovely readers, I can hardly believe it is already March. I feel as though it was just the other day when I went in for my first transgender surgery. I remember the trepidation the night before, fearing the procedure and wondering whether I would be pleased with the results...
I Found the Cure for Crossdressing

Cure would not be a generous enough word to describe my experience, because transitioning has done more than just remove uncomfortable compulsions. Transitioning has been like a rebirth - colors seem brighter, tastes are sweeter and life is more joyful than I could have ever drea...
As a transgender woman it's not often that we get to experience true and deep love and acceptance. Hear my story of being not just accepted, but loved for the transgender woman I am
Two weeks ago Vanessa had surgery, here's a quick update on her progress after facial feminization surgery
The canvas that paints your smile and shares your soul

Dear readers, In a few days I’ll embark on the next phase of my journey to let my true self shine for all to see. There have been many milestones along the way. Some have been relatively easy such as starting hormones. Others have been a momentous emotional occasion, like l...
I stand on the precipice of transgender surgery, uncertain about the future. Will there be anything to give me hope?
Like slowly building pressure in the water pipes of an old unmaintained building I can feel it. It’s not a new feeling, but the intensity and depth is unique. I used to be able to handle things, I faced the world like a lone warrior on the battlefield. A sword in one handle...
The restroom can be a awfully frightening place for a transgendered woman venturing out for the first time. But it doesn't have to be that way. Here's a look on the lighter side of the transgender bathroom issue and one woman's experience coming to terms with her new gender.
Coming out as a transgender woman is fraught with fear and trepidation. There is the hope for joy and fulfillment, but that is clouded by the dread we feel as we imagine how those closest to us will react. Take heart - coming out can be a moving and beautiful experience as I shar...
How to Come Out As Transgendered At Work

<a href="https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/how-to-come-out-as-transgendered-at-work/"Coming out as a transgender woman at work can be a frightful and daunting experience. I recently went full time, and share some advice for coming out as transgender at work.
Transgender: Frequently Asked Questions About Gender Transition

Gender can be confusing, especially to friends and loved ones who are also dealing with the shock of finding out you are transgendered. Taking the time to answer a few of the most commonly asked questions about gender will make all the difference.
Coming Out as a Transgender Woman to Close Friends and Family

For the transgender woman, coming out is a uniquely personal experience that depends intimately on the person sharing, their life circumstances and the people who are close to them. Today I’ll share with you the details of my coming out in the hope that it will provide some ins...
A cut and color can do wonders for more than your looks - it can nourish your soul. Meet a superstar of my transition.
Expectations are the vampires of life. Draining the joy from spectacular moments, bringing sorrow to those merely good times and striking paralyzing fear into those about to venture forth into the unknown. Expectations are insidious and relentless. As transgendered women our live...
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