When I first joined CDH (Crossdresser Heaven) I looked at the site and the community as another tool. I repair restaurant equipment for a living, and my wrenches, my screwdrivers, meters etc… are the tools of my trade. As a fire fighter, my truck and hoses the water etc… are the tools of that part of my life. What I have realized is that CDH, I intended to use as a crutch, hence calling it a tool, has become much more. What I’ve discovered since joining the community is that CDH is a home. I’ve been blessed in making really good friends here in the community. Developing great relationships, found an emotional outlet.
The Support offered by our family here is simply amazing, true concern, for our well being. Because of the wonderful people I’ve met here, I have looked deeper into myself, opened up about my past. Willingly discuss with others all the problems that a lass like me would have! I have made some very good friends, had many a great talk, shared a few too many tears!
The advice I have been given by you wonderful ladies is priceless. We are truly blessed to have such a strong community, with so many supportive ladies!
CDH, is truly a slice of heaven, & I’m proud to call it a home!
Ed: Thank you Cookie for your kind words – to everyone on Crossdresser Heaven, comment and let us know what Crossdresser Heaven means to you, we’d love to hear how it’s changed your life.
Thank you Cookie! You are a wonderful gal and proud to call you my friend!
Thank you very much Jess, I too am proud to call ye a friend.
Cookie,
You were one of the first Ambassadors I chatted with when I joined. I’ve come a long way on CDH and you have been instrumental in getting me there!
Thanks again,
Steph
Stephanie,
I’m very happy I was able to help….do what an Ambassador is supposed to do….I had someone, that made me feel just as welcome when I became a member, and tried to emmulate her approach…
You’re quite an asset to the community!!
Cookie – We truly are blessed by having a place to go to, and to hear the successes (and failures) of others just like us! I’m new to CDH, one of the key differences I’ve liked about CDH is being able to read genuine posts, and see such supportive comments, all of which makes CDH feel like a community.
P.S. Nice profile pic., I like your tagline, “Live, Love, and Laugh".
Stole my tagline from my idol, WolfeGang Puck.
Thanks for the very kind words!
I luv this site it has shown me that there are many other women finding out about who we are.I am happy to meet other girls to share stories with on our great life of who we are and proud of it .I am always looking for more friends.
Jamie,
We are truly blessed to have this little “Peace of Heaven!". I find it very nice nit to have to peruse through pages of smut in order to get some sound advice!
Cookie
You are really special cookie! I have found that this journey is long and difficult at times. You are a true inspiration to me for sure. I am of Irish heritage myself. My father called us “black Irish". I need to know more about my heritage for sure. I continue to try and understand myself and why I do what I do. Thank you girl!
Jennifer,
Thanks for your advice….I’m glad we’ve become freinds here.
🙂
The term black irish denotes someone of Spanish decent….back when Ireland was invaded by spaniards…. the red haired blue eyed Irish are from The Norse times, when the Vikings inhabited our Isle….
I just want to be me!
Cookie, that’s a wonderful article , I feel exactly the same, being here at CDH has really given me the confidence I needed, I’m very proud of Sally. Thank you Cookie
Sally,
One thing I’ve always done is speak from the heart!!!
I love each & everyone of you in my extended family….
You’re all great, or to swipe a line, fabtastic!!!
Cookie 🙂
It’s all good with me! Luv all the girls for sure. Stay soft and pretty!
Jess,
You have been a blessing to me since they day we met and a blessing to the community as you like you said are willing to discuss problems of a lass like you wouldn’t have before being here.
You beat me to the title of this article because over the last 2 weeks I have really been thinking the same thoughts… What does CDH mean to me, in short friends, family and support. Thanks for being part of that family!
CB
@Codille Benton Baer -just fyi-I had a forum post with similar title three months ago ! 🙂 https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/forums/topic/what-i-feel-this-site-is-all-about/
But I too love Jessica’s article for I too consider this my home!and all of you ladies as my family! (Codille is the crazy aunt!- while Jessica is a cool older cousin!)
Thanks Jessica for being my friend and I hope to visit with you soon!
Luv,
Cyn
@skippy1965 Cynthia, cool older cousin???? Listen sis, that is mathmatically impossible, I’m a year younger dear…. may a çool younger cuz!!!!
Love ya hun….
CB & Cyn… this article actualy started in forums….
And you ladies have been so sweet, and are what makes this a home.
Cookie 🙂
Cookie,
I think so many of us feel the same way. You just put it into words
better than I can. So glad you are here and a friend as well.
Hugs..
Samantha,
A heartfelt thanks hun!!!
Hugs!
Crazy Cookie!