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Cath N. replied to the topic Do you want to know, or not? in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 9 months ago
First of all, condolences for your loss. I hope you have many lovely memories of your time together to carry with you.
I am of the opinion that since you already know this about yourself, it would be wise to bring it up as soon as you think someone you are dating can be considered as a serious relationship. No point beating around the bush and…[Read more]
Cath N. replied to the topic A fellow GG asks an honest question in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 1 years ago
Hi Iman, everything you describe, we have all felt one way or another. As the other ladies said, you are welcome to join us on the private forum since you are only asking GGs.
And welcome 🙂Cath N. replied to the topic SO supportive but not in the forum Relationship Advice 2 years ago
I dont know how I missed this post. You could have written this about me, minus the part about asking you to come out to everyone. It didnt even cross my mind to ever ask my SO to come out to anyone. It’s not my business when/if he ever wants to come out. What is my business though is escalation. And even though I have no interest in ever seeing…[Read more]
Cath N. replied to the topic Reduced intimacy with wife in the forum Relationship Advice 2 years ago
Not a sex therapist here, but I believe you need the advice of one. It seems to me like you conditioned yourself to link sexual pleasure and crossdressing. Until you break that cycle on your own (not sure if that is possible) or with professional help, nothing will improve. Your wife might perceive this as rejection of her without realising that…[Read more]
Cath N. replied to the topic Hiccup, or first nail in coffin of marriage? in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 2 years ago
May I ask, did you have an open conversation about your crossdressing and what you need to do? Has she been consulted about what is within her comfort zone to see and about whether she has any requests to make? Or there was the assumption I see mentioned here a lot of a wife not reacting negatively and the husband somehow believing that she is…[Read more]
Cath N. replied to the topic Happy Housewife in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 2 years ago
Chores and responsibility do not have gender or a dresscode. If they did, does it mean that I don’t have to do any on the days that I wear trousers? Or that I should ask for some sort of reward for doing what must be done? Maybe cleaning the toilet should come with an all-expenses paid cruise around the Med. But it doesn’t, and it still needs to…[Read more]
Cath N. replied to the topic dating during this journey… if any cis women are here to also chime in… in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 2 years ago
I have said this before here: beauty is not a word that applies to women only. Chris Hemsworth, Henry Cavill, Hugh Jackman etc etc etc. I would dare anyone to claim that they are not the definition of male beauty. But I don’t see the demographic in this forum striving to emulate their beauty. I would surely want to be wanted by them! But since I…[Read more]
Cath N. replied to the topic dating during this journey… if any cis women are here to also chime in… in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 2 years ago
Hi Carmen, cis woman here. Not something I knew about my SO from the beginning so biased opinion coming up.
I am quite a liberal woman and even for me, the act of crossdressing wasn’t/isn’t a desirable trait for me. You described emotions and attitudes you have as “feminine”. My opinion is that there is no such thing. The freedom to feel and do…[Read more]
Cath N. replied to the topic Having it all… in the forum Relationship Advice 2 years ago
I don’t see any missing links and I feel compelled to say “lucky sod” in a very British way lol. You really do have it all! Just make sure you don’t blow it up.
Cath N. replied to the topic Do you notice other ladies Breasts? in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 2 years ago
With you about the butt, but you can’t have failed to appreciate the wide shoulders? In a league of their own 😉
Cath N. replied to the topic What would you say to my wife? in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 2 years ago
Every GG is on her own journey. So all any of us can tell her is our own truth. Mostly though, we support new members in finding their own truth. So the answer to your question is two words really. The truth.
Cath N. replied to the topic Do you notice other ladies Breasts? in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 2 years ago
The answer to that question is in another question: do you notice other men’s penises?
Cath N. replied to the topic What are some advantages of MTF cross-dressing? in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 2 years ago
Interesting to read this thread, I will object to beauty being a feminine trait though. Just look at Henry Cavill, Chris Hemsworth and many many others and see the definition of beauty. Couldn’t be more masculine and beautiful at the same time. Just a side note to this exchange…
Cath N. replied to the topic Dress in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 2 years ago
Hi Ambermaria, what is your question?
Cath N. replied to the topic To Skirt or Not To Skirt… in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 2 years ago
You made two assumptions in your post that need to be corrected: no one envies your skirt and also, you might need to do makeup to wear a skirt but women don’t need to. I have read this a few times, skirt envy. You need to consider the possibility that you are projecting your own feelings on women. You might feel envy when you see a woman wearing…[Read more]
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