What do you do to help your crossdressing?

What do you do to help your crossdressing?

Your typical male crossdresser will occasionally wear woman’s clothes. Perhaps a single article of clothing, such as pantyhose or a bra. Or perhaps he’ll go all out and get dressed up, even wearing makeup and a wig. Some of us go to the next level in our quest to…

Pass as a genetic woman

I felt I had to write that in large font. In my mind I hear those words echoing like the booming voice of a fake god on a cheesy television show. As if passing is a judgement we must face, a test we must pass or face the crossdressing shame of ridicule.

Okay, enough melodrama for one post. I was thinking about some woman who go further, perhaps permanently or semi-permanently altering their appearance. To put forth a more convincing feminine appearance, or perhaps to feel the luscious covering of feminine silkiness throughout the day.

Unleash Your Inner Woman

Personally, I have pierced my ears, and have had laser hair removal on my face and most of my body. I used to wear my hair long, before my wife lovingly convinced me that she preferred to see me as a man every once in a while πŸ™‚ Same story with my nails, though to tell you the truth once they got much longer than a quarter inch it became tough to do everything things as easily. I get my eyebrows waxed on a fairly regular basis in a high arching feminine style, and make sure to moisturize regularly.

That’s a few of the things I do to go β€˜above and beyond’. I don’t take hormones, which would probably help my femininity even more. I try to incorporate feminine movement and voice tips, such as those in this crossdressing how to, though I’m not as diligent as I could be.

What permanent or semi-permanent changes have you made to your body, voice or mannerisms to appear more feminine?

Which change were you most apprehensive about?

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Lynn Jones

I’ve moisturised for as long as I’ve been shaving. I think I tried after-shave the once, but as Golumn once said: “Aaah, it burns! It burns!” So never again I have very short hair now although in my teenage years it was very long (it was the 80s). I’ve never had my ears done and while I think it would be a change to wear different styles of earrings, I’m in bloke mode more than not, so I don’t bother. I don’t like my nails to be too long because, as you say, they get in the way of doing… Read more Β»

Carolyn
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Carolyn

I’m transsexual and live in Switzerland. In Switzerland, they require that you are divorced before they will perform SRS.

For that reason, and some others, I am going to Thailand for my SRS.

ciao ciao

Carolyn

Vanessa Law
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Vanessa Law

Hehe, indeed smile
When I got my ears pierced a few years back I thought everyone would a. notice and b.freak out. Neither actually happened, and while it was a moment of courage to go into the local Claire’s and get them pierced it opened up the “world of earrings” to me smile

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Vanessa

P.S. I did figure out how to type with longer nails (~ 1/4 inch) by keeping my fingers nearly horizontal to the keyboard, it made a pleasant clack, clack sound as I typed.

Claire
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Claire

Hi,

I usually try to help loved ones and friends. For example, shopping can be a major issue and it’s hard to find small boutiques that feel comfortable helping “us.” So, i’ve found a few sites that are welcoming and if you call their offices they are very sweet, compassionate and understanding to the taller cross dresser.
kathrynkerrigan.com for shoes
katclothing for clothes

wendy
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wendy

I’m freaked out by my cross dressing bf. I’m ready to leave him
but I love him too much! help me.

Racquel Lynn
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Racquel Lynn

If you truely love him, then you shouldn’t leave him over this. At least give it a try. It may take some or alot of getting used to, but if you love him, and you take the time to get to know his feminine side, chances are that you will wind up loving him even more. Rejection is common for crossdressers and others in the many facets of the transgendered community, but what is also very commonly found is that most people, even if they are turned off by it at first or have a hard time accepting it (Friends,… Read more Β»

prashad
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prashad

addresses same woman those help of crossdresser their ph.no.

PTCDRachel
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PTCDRachel

Hi Wendy, I remember “coming out” to my wife – it was very hard on both parties and, to be honest, still is. I love her, she loves me, the bit that’s hard for her is that the me she loves incorporates the “female” part of me, without that I wouldn’t be the me she loves (hope you got that bit!!). Once the cat is out of the bag, it can never go back in and I do sometimes “assume” she’s more ok with it than she is – I realise when the caustic comments come out followed by “I’m… Read more Β»

Vanessa Law
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Vanessa Law

smile Sometimes within all the darkness light shines through.

Kelly
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Kelly

I am growing my hair long as I have straight hair and will look really good when its longer.I will have it combed back during the day and let it down at night when I dress up.I have ALWAYS wanted real long hair and now I am gonna let it grow as i love the feeling of hair running down the sides of my face.By this time next year it will be near the length I want it and may get blonde highlights as I am a brunette.Since I have been using conditioner more often it has been growing like… Read more Β»

Alicia
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Alicia

That’s great!

Today I was watching Law & Order: SVU, and this one had another hate crime that really had me worried about myself and others, but this is good, smile

-Alicia

Elizabeth
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Elizabeth

As I have often said, I do not even try to “pass”., I am simply a man who likes the feel of women’s clothing. OTOH, I grow my hair long, but that is because, once every two years or so, I have it cut, and send it to locks o love, to be made into wigs for children undergoing chemotherapy. I feel it is an inexpensive and painless way to give back to society, as I feel we all should whenever we can. So right now, my hair is at that disgusting lenth where it is too short to tie… Read more Β»

Racquel Lynn
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Racquel Lynn

I had my ears pierced when I was 18. It was the 80’s and I was into the rock scene, so I started out under the cover that they earrings and eyeliner (and yes, even some of the clothing) was all part of the rock and roll thing, but the underliing truth is that I knew I wanted to be a girl and adopted a very feminine, yet still rock and roll appearance. (that was the wonderful thing about the 80’s was that I could somewhat crossdress right in front of people without any of them knowing I was crossdressed.… Read more Β»

MekTeestehich-online
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MekTeestehich-online

molt intiresno, gracies

Daphbryn
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Daphbryn

For me it is all in the mind since the body I was born with doesn’t match who I am inside (445 COGIATI) so I dress when I can and dream about maybe coming back as the bi woman I am in the next life ( if reincarnation is a fact). Until then I do all I can to live as the woman I really am with the means available to me. I even find my self with crushes on lesbian women and have major vagina and breast envy.Β  Best wishes to all of my sisters on this wonderful website.… Read more Β»

angie
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angie

I just feel at ease wearing something feminine

PY Marshall
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It just makes me feel so clean and relaxed.

jamme mac
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Wearing women’s clothes to me has a multiple affect on me, 1; it just feels good, 2; Yes, there is a sexual factor, enough said! and 3; I am a big male 6″ 250#’s, in society I am supposed to be strong and tough. Wearing woman’s clothes gives me a safe option to shed, that ‘Superman’ image and be the softer being I have in me. I have dated after my divorce (my cross dressing was not the cause, even though my wife knew) and had found only 1 woman who was ‘Ok’ with it but not really (Over the… Read more Β»

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