Crossdressing with womens trousers

A number of years ago, I got over the idea that I could only express my feminine nature by wearing only skirts and dresses and added women’s trousers to my wardrobe. It only took a few styles to convince me that there was a world of difference between men’s and women’s trousers. The texture of the cloth and the cut are decidedly different. One of the things about wearing pants is that many styles are masculine cut and can be worn when my presentation is masculine. I started wearing women’s jeans exclusively and then found a pair of slacks that would look nice with my blazer or a sweater.

By adding pants to my wardrobe, and certain styles of blouses, I can go anywhere and be around anyone, even those to whom I’m not out, dressed in totally women’s clothes. Thus, I fulfill my need to express my feminine nature and yet still interact with my friends as a man. What’s more, my wife, who’s very cautious about me expressing my feminine nature, is quite OK with this.

Now here’s the interesting part. A couple of years ago I broke my leg and had to wear shorts everywhere. I only had women’s shorts to draw on. Actually, only two pair and only one of them had the masculine cut criteria but the other really pushed the envelope. The first pair that I wore to church had a faux fly and had the look of men’s. However, my wife had worn them to the church picnic the previous summer. My wife and I decided that if someone noticed that I could point out I had the broken leg and use the “temporary” need of shorts as an excuse to “borrow” her shorts. But no one even blinked. Well, you can’t wear the same clothes all the time, so I pressed the other pair into service. They had not the evidence of a fly and had hidden in seam pockets but most damning of all was the fabric. It was a kind of knit that would never be seen in men’s clothing. Relying on the “excuse” I boldly wore them to mid-week service at church. Again, no one blinked.

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After that my appetite for more feminine pants was wetted. I did away with all my men’s slacks and began to wear only my women’s pants everywhere. I tried out wearing my pants that had no hip pockets at all and purchased some that had the fly going to the distaff side and got no reaction. To cut to the chase, I determined to push the envelope to what I felt was the max. I purchased two pair of side zip slacks. NO FLY. One pair is khaki, the same color as the slacks that I’ve been wearing most often to church on Sundays, and the other is black. I had been wearing the black pair with the feminine fly to midweek service most often. The khaki pair has the zipper inside the left pocket with a button on the left hip and the new black pair has the zipper hidden in the left seem and only has decorative small patch pockets on the front. Since we are a bit casual at our church, I don’t have to wear a tie to fit in, so I’ve worn either a sports shirt or a masculine cut blouse, both un-tucked to make the lack of fly less noticeable.

Well, I’ve got to tell you, wearing a pair of pants that make no provision to stand up in the restroom, is very satisfying. There’s just something about that aspect of femininity that makes me feel whole. I think that’s part of the attraction to skirts and dresses. Yet wearing women’s trousers, I get the same satisfaction.

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Patricia Marie Allen

I'm 72 years old and have been cross-dressing since I was 9. I'm married to an understanding woman. We've been married for 49 years, 50 come August. We have two grown children and two grandchildren. My daughters know about me, but my son-in-law and grandchildren don't. At home, I'm express my feminine side almost exclusively. I'm free to come and go in that mode as I wish. I have a good wardrobe of women's clothes and nearly no men's clothes. When it is necessary for me to appear as a male, I simply wear the masculine slacks and a "big shirt" from Woman Within that are part of my women's wardrobe. On those occasions, I wear some penny loafers I got from Zappos.

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  1. Erica BodsHot 2 days ago

    I love this article so much, Thank You for sharing…This Opens Up a whole new world for me too…I Love Wearing womans slacks…ages ago I bought a pair at a thrift shop unknowingly that they were womans…I Love the way theyu fit…made me feel sexy and functional…Just never really thought about them until reading this article and writting this comment…Thank You for paving the path

  2. Velma DDinkley 1 week ago

    Just a few weeks ago, I fell in love with ‘Girl Jeans’.
    My first pair was from a consignment store and cost about $2.50. I bought them on a whim, as I thought they would fit. — The secret in the fit was the lycra component woven into the fabric. — When I got the jeans (size 16, low rise, boot cut) home and tried them on, they fit PERFECTLY– even more so when I wore then with a padded fanny. (I am 6′-0” and weigh 210 lbs. waist size 38”)
    I actually had the audacity to wear my new jeans whilst ‘en-femme’ to a womans clothing store in a small conservative eastern N.C. town. As I entered the store, a customer gushed to me ”those are some great lookin’ jeans”. I offered a feminine ‘why, thank you! (what a rush!) and then asked the proprietor where the ladies plus sizes were located.
    The plus sizes were not well stocked, but the jeans were on sale, and I had been treated so well, I bought another pair of jeans!
    I am definitely hooked on ‘Girl Jeans’. No more ‘guy jeans’ for me…..
    Velma DDinkley in the hinterlands N.C.

  3. jessicaj jeffries 2 weeks ago

    whenever i go out shopping, i just want to enjoy the day and fit in with the other women. so i always wear pants and always find that some may see me as gender neutral or even as a guy but the women who are there to shop like me, seem to know that we bought our clothes in the same stores.

    a girl can always tell when another girl is wearing something that you saw in one of the usual mall shops that women our age shop in.t and we are all usually aware of what is being shown that season and also dress in a way that we all know to be stylish whenever we shop.

    I find that we are all basically dressed the same – a dark pair of slacks, a cute top and sweater, low heeled booties and light makeup. my favorite pants are a pair of seventh ave pants from NY&Co and these bootcut cords from Nordstrom. in the winter i think most of us also wear tights underneath, very feminine lingerie and a scent like tresor or poeme. i am dressed in the same outfit and feel completely feminine and also can shop in peace just like the other girls. i even find that the salesgirls treat me just like the other women who know the store and the styles they are showing. The salesgirls know that we are clearly just there browsing or know exactly what we are looking for. so they say to them AND ME, in a very casual way, that we should let them know if we need any help. And all of us react the same, at least at first, with a little smile, a thank you and a nod as you begin going thru different styles and sizes.

    Anyway, it is kind of ironic (but not) that i can express my feminine self in a very feminine world of women’s specialty shops, lingerie and dress departments and even shopping for makeup and costume jewelry wearing PANTS. it is true tho and loads of fun


  4. Katie Kat 2 weeks ago

    I almost always wear woman’s jeans when I go out, but still have been wearing drab black jeans for work. I have been talking with my wife about finding woman’s jeans that I can “get away with” at work. We plan to go shopping soon. Your article makes me even more determined. Thank you.

  5. Sara Marie Franklin 3 months ago

    Wow I do not know if i could be that bold I envy your courage. I will agree though i own 4 pair of jeans and one pair of caprices and I love the feel the fabric. Just takes getting use to buttoning them up on the other side. : )

  6. Diana Benard 8 months ago

    I agree completely. The fabric of woman’s trousers is much more comfortable and the cut much more stylish. I almost always wear woman’s trousers now and have never had anyone comment. I only wish that they made the pockets a little deeper, at least until the man purse is more accepted.

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