Contribute to Crossdresser Heaven Today

Dear readers,

It has been almost two months since I last shared with you. Even though I have been far from my keyboard, you have not been far from my thoughts. I have been so blessed in my transgender journey that I feel a tugging need to give back to the community.

As a writer my words, my thoughts and experiences are the way in which I can most deeply honor you. Through my journey I have had many who helped me. There were those who touched me directly in person, but I took no small measure of courage from the articles I read on the Internet and from the stories I got lost in, crafted by talented writers such as Jennifer Boylan.

Stepping Out Secrets

During these last few months I have discovered a beautiful and powerful part of my life. I believe I’ve been living life the way I was meant to be. As the scars of surgery fade and the waves of recovery ebb I feel healed and whole.

Yet as I don my life fully, I find that I have less time to reflect and share. I go to sleep at night after a full day with so much still undone.

I started Crossdresser Heaven to discover who I was, and to share my journey so that others may find love, encouragement and compassion. Now that I have less time to write for Crossdresser Heaven, I know that I am no longer fulfilling the mission I started with.

I need some help!

A call for contributors

Any online community thrives with regularly updated content that shares a diverse perspective with the world. I want to ensure that Crossdresser Heaven can continue to serve cross dressers, transgender women, those questioning their gender identity and the partners and families of those in the community. So I am asking for your help!

I’m looking for 3 or 4 writers who would be willing to write an article a month for Crossdresser Heaven. If you want to touch thousands with your journey or encourage those just starting their own, please email me at vanessalaw1@gmail.com. If you want to inspire someone to take their first courageous step, or weep with a wife who just discovered her husband is a cross dresser, please email me.

I look forward to hearing from you, and to keep the community on Crossdresser Heaven strong for years to come.

With hugs and blessings,
Vanessa

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42 Comments
  1. Charlene 5 years ago

    It is comforting sharing you all of you and fun reading your posts. I’m not gay but wouldn’t mind going to dinner with one of you. Someday perhaps. I am fully shaved and have been for eight years. Love it. Hey, I am not bad looking! But then that is only my opinion!

    • Darlene 5 years ago

      I’m not gay either, and I understand most CDs are not. I shave down too, cant stand body hair.

  2. Darlene 5 years ago

    I sent you an e mail but don’t know if it went. I have a lot of experience writing, so I might be interested in talking more.

    Darlene

  3. mayan 5 years ago

    LIving as a woman i.ve never be happier!.I wear womens clothes all the time,AT 50 I got tired of living the life a male,Iwas unhappy lived day to day.didn,t enjoy life.so Ilet my other self out.Its been hard,I lost my jobs,had to move in with my parents I am looking for jobs as mayan.don,t knowwhat,s next but won,t go back to old life.. .wish I did this years ago . mayan

  4. Tanya 5 years ago

    I love it when I, Mark, become Tanya for a few precious hours. I suppose I crossdress about once or twice a month. A few very close friends know what I get up to but I simply couldn’t tell my family as I would not be able to cope with the shame.. I was about 7 years old when I discovered I got a thrill from wearing my nan’s clip on earrings and fur coats, by the age of 11 I was masturbating while wearing my mothers tights, high heels and lipstick. I married twice but kept my habit a secret both times. Now I’m single and have an extensive wardrobe, tons of makeup, lots of sexy lingerie and several pairs of heels, Tanya is starting to become a more frequent visitor! I must confess that I’ve become addicted to buying makeup and shoes/clothing etc from online shopping websites such as Ebay…. What am I? I know I’m bisexual and kinky, does that make me a pervert? Would someone tell me the difference between CD/TV/Tranny/Shemale/Ladyboy/T girl PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE!! Thanks
    Tanya xx

  5. Esther 5 years ago

    I have always loved long hair< & have waist length hair for 20 yrs. I thought that would satisfy me & it did until my wife didn't want sex anymore. I researched ways to lower my desire & I heard female hormones would help. I was surprised to find that the more I took them, the more I wanted to be a woman!. Now I really want my breasts to grow to C or D size, & I love wearing bras, which I can since they don't show. My wife dosent know yet, but she wants my to be able to cry & gain some weight, so I think those desires will help her to accept me when my breasts develop more. Esther

  6. Mariah Love 5 years ago

    I want to meet a girl that will go with me and help me pick out some lingerie, a nice dress, heels, and make up. And dress me up. I love wearing girl stuff. But i urgently need panties and a few bras, because i usually wear lingerie underneath my guy clothes. If a girl and or women can at least help me buy panties/thongs from victoria secret i will wear them without boxers over them. I need more undies because i had to throw mine away to avoid getting caught. Hopefully some day guys can freely crossdress and wear panties instead of boxers.

    • stephanie....98s 4 years ago

      I know how you feel, as I am closeted and only buy my stuff online, but really would love to have a female take me shopping and have me fitted for a bra, by the sale staff along with many other items and force me to wear them home

      • Marie Sweets 1 year ago

        Hi, have you tried ringing/emailing a Lingerie store to ask them if they measure/fit males. I did and it was a positive experience. It also gave me the confidence to go to department stores in male mode and buy lingerie, nighties and hosiery.

  7. Laura 4 years ago

    For a long time now I’ve been longing to go out in full dress & make-up, perhaps to a nightclub or shopping. I live in Wales and I’m always looking for somewhere to do this, but alas always lose the confidence to do so. Would love some advice
    Laura.x

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      Vanessa Law 4 years ago

      Hey Laura, have you looked for some support groups in Wales? I know there are quite a few in the UK, and would imagine in the larger cities in Wales you’ll find a few. I’d recommend starting with a support group, perhaps one that meets in a safe, private place and growing from there.

  8. James Stykemain 4 years ago

    I will be meeting with a counselor hopefully tomorrow to help me come out. My wife knows not that I wear women’s panties, my first step was to throw away my men’s underwear and replace them with women’s panties and 2 pair of leggings. I am not sure how to tell her more of how I feel even though we have been married over 35 years.

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