I’m writing this post with a degree of trepidation, knowing that what I’m sharing will not be popular with some of you, but I’m compelled to post this article, nonetheless, for a couple of reasons. Our site’s founder, Vanessa Law, sent me an email asking me to “Make my ...
Brina’s Corner
The one thing many introverts have in common is their need to observe. We are in constant surveillance mode, watching, analyzing, and preparing our “What ifs.” The strategy is more important than the outcome… although a successful ending is greatly accepted. I didn’t know...
“Who Did I Dress For?” I can’t remember a time in my life when I was not drawn to femininity. One of my first fascinations with women was seeing them dressed up and, in particular, when they would wear pretty red lipstick. My very first experience with actually putti...
It occurred to me as I viewed the contest photos for this year’s contest that we all tend to be drawn to… something. Whether it is what we view and decide is appealing to what we desire in our mannerisms and dressing. Some of us have had the same sports team our entire life w...
Here goes… one of my ramblings… where will it end up this time? We all (CDs) approach this ailment, blessing, curse, need, desire, endeavor, and wonderment with similar and entirely different reasons. At times, all of the above have been felt by most of us. Relationships, res...
No, not in the political sense, and not in which way to turn, although that would make for some interesting discussions… Ever met that person who only gives directions based on compass points? “Ya head North for 2 miles, take the west road, and when it flips back east, take t...
Back Then… I used to worry as much as I wondered. I still do to an extent but in vastly different ways. It used to be all about the reasons that God made me this way, gave me these irrational and shameful feelings. I’d worry about whether I was abnormal, a deviant, or things ...
I won’t spend money on a new set of golf clubs, and I’ll go two years in between buying a new bowling ball (These are my long-term sports hobbies). I’ll search countless sites for deals on fishing and camping equipment. I’m squeaky tight when it comes to spending money on...
First… Thank you to everyone who reached out regarding the editing positions. I have been in touch with several and we have two who will be joining and a couple of others who still may. So… before we can get into more specific details on the “How to be our Ideal Woman” we...
Hey all! I could use some help in the article section. As the Managing Editor since 2016, I’ve been going at this for some time. I enjoy being a part of your stories and helping you to shape and present them to all our readers. When I first took the role of editor, C...
Maybe the title should be, “Why Do You Do it?” We spend more time than most anyone would imagine on that question, as do those who try to understand us. What I want to do instead is start a conversation on the “How” to see where it goes… shall we… Oh, and in the comme...
I don’t know about you, but I wonder where I fit within the broad definition of crossdressing. There is more to it than what meets the casual eye, especially the eye of those who judge us. By now, those who have been around this site for any length of time have come to see, fir...
Living in Iowa (I assume the same could be said of other areas) there is an old saying, “Don’t like the weather, wait ten minutes.” I played my first round of golf this year on February 7th. For perspective, last year it was March 30th. It was 87 yesterday and won’t crack...
I’ve spent most of my recent, and older life, thinking back on all those signs that I missed, and the ones I purposely avoided, ignored, took shots at, and begrudgingly followed. I’ve shared with you in retrospect what I hoped would be some commonalities to help you avoid sim...
I try to imagine the world through others’ eyes. It makes interesting fodder for thought. We see things differently than other men, women, too. We are the crossdressers and transgender MTF that the world despises. And… yet… we are the spouses, parents, friends, colleagues, ...
I had the best of intentions… but… (fill in the blank with your own reasons.) I’ll go first! There were several things that I wanted to get done after my Mom passed. Many were started, some even finished, and then Dad had his ongoing year of decline. What once seemed import...
The first time a man puts on a dress he looks like - a man in a dress. In our minds we picture ourselves as dainty, feminine and gorgeous, but we're actually a man caught wearing girl's clothes. Looking good as a woman is a hard thing to do - just ask any lady who has spent an ho...
I don’t know about you, but Christmas time for a crossdresser is a strange time of the year… Let me explain. It is the season of hope, forgiveness, and gratitude, and most importantly, the season of miracles. Every Christmas movie is full of them. We (as crossdressers) often ...
Wendie passed away Tuesday evening, November 14th before she could approve and have her article published. I’ve posted it here as a tribute to her. 6:13 am: crawling out of bed a few minutes ago, I couldn’t help but think that it seems like getting out of bed k...
I used to go to my aunt’s house every Thanksgiving. Those days have passed as she, my mother, and their brother have all moved on to the fabulous banquets above. I went as a kid, an adult, with my children, and then as a grandfather. As my parents aged, we used to go to Village...
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