Where do I Find Crossdressing Support?

A crossdressing support group

The Internet has allowed crossdressers from across the world to take the first step out the closet without leaving the house. There are so many resources and communities available online that even the most timid transgender need not live a life alone in fear. If you’re new to the transgender community I highly recommend you look around the site, you can find an overview of transgender resources here.

Yet humans are naturally social creatures. Even with all the information available online and friends just a facebook away we long for the comfort and companionship of others. Others who understand us, others who love us, and others who will give us support through our crossdressing journey.

Crossdressing Support…Please?

I’m often asked in email for details on local clubs that support crossdressers. The Tri-Ess chapter list is usually a great place to start, but Tri-Ess is just one organization. There are many other organizations that do a great job supporting crossdressers, transsexuals and anyone involved in the transgender community.

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While I know of a few places in Seattle, I must admit that I’m at a loss for pretty much the rest of the world. Even if I had intimate knowledge of every crossdressing support group in the USA, I’ve heard a rumor that there are actually a lot of people who don’t live here – funny that 🙂

I don’t want any crossdresser to suffer alone because they didn’t have a group to reach out to. I’d like to create a comprehensive resource that includes information about transgender support groups from all around the world. But I can’t do this without your your help!

Share Local Crossdresser Support Groups

Please send me details about any crossdresser support groups you know about  by email to vanessalaw@crossdresserheaven.com

Within a few weeks I’ll devote a section of Crossdresser Heaven specifically to helping you find local crossdresser support groups in your area. Please only send me groups that offer support in person, whether it’s meetings, outings or other support activities. And include:

  • Name of the group
  • City, State and Country where they meet
  • Website address (if available)
  • Email
  • Contact name and number
  • Any other notes that would be helpful (e.g. if the group is dedicated to supporting wives of crossdressers)

Thank you for helping a sister reach out and find acceptance. I look forward to hearing from you.

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  1. Alexandria 2 years ago

    Hi I’m looking for other crossdressers around Effingham Illinois but I’m also looking for support groups near me I’m thinking about starting hormones but my family is not supportive Of My Decision Any Help Would Be Nice thanks

  2. mike 4 years ago

    hi i live close to brunswick myself and are looking for others

  3. bamacross 6 years ago

    i am a cd near brunswick ga and would like to get to know some other ones and maybe chat about things and maybe help dress each other possibly.

  4. vanessa 7 years ago

    i am still looking for other crossdressers in the brunswick ga area if you are one and your interested in meeting up post it here ill check back sson



  5. vanessa 7 years ago

    Hello i just saw ur post forgot i asked the ?lol r u in brunswick ga ?and a clean sshaven cder i am myselfplease respnd im only looing for chat about all things girly not sex

  6. vanessa cross 7 years ago

    Looking for crossdresser support group in brunswick georgia.

  7. Laura 7 years ago

    I am over eighty hard to get around is there any one who can train me to be more or better more female .

  8. Camile 8 years ago

    I want to tell my wife but don’t know how .She has dicovered some lingerie which I had and questioned me about it I think she suspects but I can’t be sure.Camile

  9. danielle 9 years ago

    hi,im Danielle…a crossdresser/transvestite from Richards bay in South africa.is there any S.A. girls here,or do anyone know where i can find tg friends here..

  10. shakishty 9 years ago

    I have also strong temptation to wear female clothes particulary lingarie.My wife knows about it.did n’t sya any thing.I do not think that she accepts this. I do cd secretly and gets a feeling of my faminity.Thats all.Its a hoby for me. I can be a friend if any body wishes and shre their experiences

  11. joelene 9 years ago

    i am crossdress in LIncoln Ne
    i had friends that was crossdres and
    to change transgender
    i am cd tv but not tg so my old friends
    close the friendship because i was not a tg
    i got left out in the strom with out help

    i am lonely cd trying to find friends
    that wont forget me

    i been forgotting with out no help


  12. Amy 10 years ago

    thanks so much for getting this started! i’m a soon-to-be 35 yo who is still struggling mightily with this. i come from a large family and i don’t ever want them to know. the same goes for most of my friends, though i think i could live with anyone who didn’t want to be my friend because of it, so i guess it’s mainly the family issue. i often feel trapped and endure much self loathing over it, so your effort to organize this is *really* appreciated!
    with love,

  13. Joanna McPherson 10 years ago

    I am on the hunt for a group in the Albuquerque NM area. I am new to the trasgender life and have issues at home; my wife(although she is a wonderful lady) cant seem to get her mind around me wanting to cross dress. She is not totally against it since she will come shoping with me and help me choose outfits; however she doesnt want to see me dressed.

    I am more comfortable when dressed than I am as a male; despite having tried to talk to her and reassure her that she is not going to loose me, and that my love for her is just as strong as it ever was she still says that she feels like laughing when she sees someone crossdressed. I have resited the temptation to ask if this applied to gender females in men’s clothing (I suspect not). The first time she said that was the day she gave me a gift of my first blouse, you talk about confused.

    Since I can’t do this openly I have to be content to get my ‘skirt time’ when I can and then just dream of a time when I can dress the way I want and not face the hostility of my spouse.

    Does anyone know how to overcome this hostility and allow me, in my own home, to be who I desire to be and still have my partner with me?


    • Debbie J. 9 years ago

      Hi hun!!!

      Just read ur bleep…I’m in Albq. also…
      We need to talk…

      write me soon.

  14. Lynn Jones 10 years ago

    There’s a link in the Roses wiki to various but mostly UK based groups. I hope that helps!


  15. jamieghee 10 years ago

    Excellent idea Vanessa, and I guess better a little late than not at all. It should enhance your site, and hopefully you will collect a lot of good information. I found the event I went to (BatB) on a couple of sites, but there doesn’t seem to be a lot of other information about smaller or more localized meetings. It seems to filter through support groups, word of mouth or email, but doesn’t get out beyond that. I’ll share anything else I come across.
    Keep up the good work, as always, JamieGhee

    • Vanessa Law 10 years ago

      Thanks JamieGhee,

      As a challenge to all the folks living in the US and Europe – the first reply I received was for a crossdressing club in Brazil – send me info on any local crossdressing clubs you know about 🙂

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