and how it changed my life Let me start by defining Fear: Fear is an emotion and as such can be controlled. It can exist at many levels with varying degrees of effect on our lives and how we behave. It could sit quietly in the background until the switch is flipped by a visual, a...
#2 – Films in the category of Trangender Before Hedwig can marry a G.I. to escape East Berlin and flee to the West, there is a small legal requirement before the wedding can be take place. He must undergo sexual reassignment surgery! Hedwig and the Angry Inch (2001) Direc...
I was shy about it at first. I was adopted; my birth mother mom gave me up for adoption, though I did reunite with her the day before Christmas when I was 15. It was a usual story; she gave birth to me and said she couldn’t take care of me. I understand this and wasn’...
The year of the Phoenix, 2018; it was the absolute worst year of my life, and yet, the most wondrous year of my life. The year rang in amongst a chaos of emotions throughout my life at that time. My egg cracked years before, and I was still trying to decipher the fallout while...
Oh, yes, I remember that day vividly; in fact it is my earliest memory from my childhood. I remember it darkly. Sadly for it was that day that I discovered a reality about me that would haunt me until now, 57 years later. Bright, sunny, end of October 1960. I was five then. I w...
For many of us, finding the balance in our lives has been a life long struggle. We have had our successes and our setbacks. Meili's story is no different, but she is beginning to find that balance and with it, peace of mind. Join her as she recounts her journey.
I have talked about how young I was when I first Cross Dressed at the early age of 10 before becoming a Drag Queen, also at a very early age. Between the two I am proud to admit and say out loud that they are my life and there’s nothing in this world that can change that fo...
So far my family have been really accepting and cool with my disclosure, and I had an amazing talk with my older sister that really made me think, what she told me about our mum and what she went through to have kids just might have influenced our fetal development.
It’s an old joke in the transgender community that goes like this: Q: “What’s the difference between a crossdresser and a transsexual?” A: “Two years” This provides some humorous levity while astutely implying a truth about transsexuals –...
Society likes clear boundaries. Black or white. Gay or straight. Male or female. The relentless desire of society to categorize and sort. Placing each of us into nice neat boxes. People struggle mightily with the concept of a third gender. The idea that someone is in between a ma...
Some of you are probably familiar with the COGIATI test, which stands for the mouthful of 'Combined Gender Identity and Transsexuality Inventory' (phew). This test is targeted to Male-to-Female, Pre-Operative people, and should be used as a basis for self-examination, and to cons...
I think it's wonderful that more and more researchers are devoting time to transgendered studies. When more people examine and question pre-conceived notions they advance the state of the art in our understanding. I think this can only be a win for the transgender community, as t...
Thank you all for your supportive and encouraging comments. My heart is overflowing with warmth now. I realize the wonderful thing about cross dressing is that it brings the most wonderful, caring people into my life. Lisa Ann, Alicia, Lynn, April and Polly you have brought a smi...
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It feels so right. Exercising my feminine grace, sharing my soul with a friend or stranger, working on being beautiful. Becoming a woman seems like the worthiest outcome of my efforts, and whenever I think about the necessary practice and perfection to get there it lights a smile...
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- Meeting my Current wife October 20, 2020
Meeting my current wife seven years ago gave me hope. I was divorced for a year at the time and was in the dumps—big time. Relationships didn’t last at all before I met her. It had been terrible, and I thought about giving up, throwing in the towel. Encouragement came wit...
- Living a Childhood Dream – A Ballet Story October 16, 2020
Like many of you, I’ve had the urge to dress up in all the fun and exciting clothing that cis women get to enjoy ever since I was a child. Lovely pink dresses, satin ribbons, and the cutesiest hairbands. These were all things I wished that I’d had the chance to experience as ...
- The Convenient Women: A Response to a Dismissive Transsexual October 13, 2020
I’m sharing here an essay I wrote in response to a note a I received recently from a pre-op transsexual that included, among other things, the following sentence fragment: “…but you are just a crossdresser; you can’t possibly understand what I am feeling about that.” Ob...
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