Sometimes the best way we can support each other is to share our own stories and resources that have helped us on our journey.
Oh, yes, I remember that day vividly; in fact it is my earliest memory from my childhood. I remember it darkly. Sadly for it was that day that I discovered a reality about me that would haunt me until now, 57 years later. Bright, sunny, end of October 1960. I was five then. I w...
Growing up, Meili faced a lot of uncertainty and struggled to understand who she was. Entering a new chapter of her life, Meili has embarked on a journey of discovery and self-realization.
For many of us, finding the balance in our lives has been a life long struggle. We have had our successes and our setbacks. Meili's story is no different, but she is beginning to find that balance and with it, peace of mind. Join her as she recounts her journey.
I have talked about how young I was when I first Cross Dressed at the early age of 10 before becoming a Drag Queen, also at a very early age. Between the two I am proud to admit and say out loud that they are my life and there’s nothing in this world that can change that fo...
As our journey through life continues the world around us is changing. Today it is becoming easier to accept who we are and to be that person.
It is possible to live your dream. Yes it takes a good deal of fortitude and commitment and you make mistakes along the way, but even the celebs do that
...stop being Vicki? Would it be easier? I can stop wanting to breathe but it doesn't mean my lungs or body will allow it.
So far my family have been really accepting and cool with my disclosure, and I had an amazing talk with my older sister that really made me think, what she told me about our mum and what she went through to have kids just might have influenced our fetal development.
Anna Secret Poet takes her crossdressing to the next level with a cabaret performance - come see!
It’s an old joke in the transgender community that goes like this: Q: “What’s the difference between a crossdresser and a transsexual?” A: “Two years” This provides some humorous levity while astutely implying a truth about transsexuals –...
The Third Gender
, , Coming Out, 10
Society likes clear boundaries. Black or white. Gay or straight. Male or female. The relentless desire of society to categorize and sort. Placing each of us into nice neat boxes. People struggle mightily with the concept of a third gender. The idea that someone is in between a ma...
Has fear, shame or guilt ever stopped you from wearing woman's clothes? You're not alone, but being beautiful and feminine is within your grasp!
It has final happened! America's Top Model has admitted that one of their top girls may be a transgender model.
Some of you are probably familiar with the COGIATI test, which stands for the mouthful of 'Combined Gender Identity and Transsexuality Inventory' (phew). This test is targeted to Male-to-Female, Pre-Operative people, and should be used as a basis for self-examination, and to cons...
I think it's wonderful that more and more researchers are devoting time to transgendered studies. When more people examine and question pre-conceived notions they advance the state of the art in our understanding. I think this can only be a win for the transgender community, as t...
Thank you all for your supportive and encouraging comments. My heart is overflowing with warmth now. I realize the wonderful thing about cross dressing is that it brings the most wonderful, caring people into my life. Lisa Ann, Alicia, Lynn, April and Polly you have brought a smi...
Living between the man I am and the girl I want to be
, , Feminine Voice and Movement, Transgender News and Info, 151
It feels so right. Exercising my feminine grace, sharing my soul with a friend or stranger, working on being beautiful. Becoming a woman seems like the worthiest outcome of my efforts, and whenever I think about the necessary practice and perfection to get there it lights a smile...
I've made a few tweaks to the website, to clean it up a bit, and make it easier to find articles based on categories. Hopefully this will make it easier for you to find what you're looking for. If there is anything you would like to see discussed in an upcoming article, please...
The radio waves and Internet have been abuzz recently with the court case of a transgendered inmate, Michelle Kosilek (formerly Robert) who is suing to be allowed a sex change in prison. Michelle, a convicted murderer is suing because she has been refused sex-change surgery, and ...
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