As I sit here in my red dress, with stockings and heels, and pretending that I’m at my job as an office secretary, I cannot help but to feel that this is an important part of me. I knew from a very early age that I was different from what I appeared to be. I started to expl...
My story is like so many other ladies. I started feeling the urge to dress at an early age. I found myself first touching and then trying on my mother and sister’s clothes. I usually felt shame, because as a child of the 60’s, this kind of behavior was taboo. I knew I...
Have you ever spent so much time focused on a project, or aspect of your life, that it feels like it is coming constantly unglued and now you are feeling an avalanche of anxiety because things aren’t working out right in this thing you’ve put so much energy into? It d...
When I`m relaxed, what do I want to do? Now (Jordan) has a different style to my other persona’s, taste. Is this natural, or is it having a “split personality?” The answer is; I’m not sure. So which is the real me? We have a vast difference in musical tast...
If you have read my prior article, “I learned something that Halloween” you will be familiar with the context of this article, when I was 5 years old (https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/i-learned-something-that-halloween/). That Halloween I became the heartbroken tu...
For nearly 15 years I have been haunted by a quote from the book and movie, “A River Runs Through It”. Every time I consider the difficult path I am on in forging a new understanding with my partner I think of these words: “Each one of us here today will at one time...
Having kept Rebecca a secret for so many years, when I retired last October I knew that it was time to give her freedom. I began by visiting Manchester in the north of England for a few days. I took more female items (clothes, makeup and shoes) than male. I was still rather secre...
The confidence I’ve gained from telling her has even led me to be able to wear these panties under my male clothes in place of my usual boxers while I’m out and about. It is hidden yes, but this has been a huge step for me.
“It was time to come clean and admit that they were mine”, Roan talks about events that led to coming out to his wife
Chris has reached a crossroad in her journey. The darkness has become overwhelming - she is a breaking point. Thankfully, a friend is there to be a light and much more.
We are all on a journey. For some, that journey is appears to be surrounded by nothing by darkness, fear, and anger. Sometimes all that is needed is for someone to be a friend - a light showing through the darkness.
Regardless of from where we come or to where we are going, there is something that we all cherish. The path to its obtainment, however, is as unique and varied as we are. For some, it often remains elusive no matter how hard they seek it. Though sometimes, it may just be a mat...
Sometimes the person we are trying hardest to convince is ourselves.
I have talked about how young I was when I first Cross Dressed at the early age of 10 before becoming a Drag Queen, also at a very early age. Between the two I am proud to admit and say out loud that they are my life and there’s nothing in this world that can change that fo...
Don't mock the miss-matched clothes, poor makeup application, the male attributes too hard to hide, but instead notice the genuine smile and light in her eyes.
But before I tell you that, I need to tell you how I discovered my new identity.
But recently, I came to feel that I could wait no more. I had to let the girl within to come into the fore. No longer would she be content to dwell within the night For she deserved to boldly step into the morning light.
And all this is about confidence. Your confidence doesn’t come from how many times you’ve gone out dressed up, although it does help. It comes from who you are. It’s the collection of experiences and knowledge, mainly of yourself, that make you unique.
Friends are there for each other, with loving support you can grow and discover your true self. Meet Alyce who is on her journey of true discovery.
Anna Secret Poet takes her crossdressing to the next level with a cabaret performance - come see!
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Growing Up Female September 20, 2019
When talking to a new friend here at CDH, it occurred to me that we are “growing up female.” While not in the traditional sense, it is instead within an alternate reality. CDH is a microcosm of the real world, and we are living this life there in a metaphorical sense. Had we ...
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First Time Out September 19, 2019
I recently attended a conference in Las Vegas and decided to avail myself of one of the transformation services located there. If I was confident enough in the results, I would return to my hotel totally en femme via a circuitous route, forcing myself to spend time in public. The...
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EVERYONE is special to SOMEONE September 18, 2019
Trans-Siberian Orchestra Lyrics (posted for reflective thoughts as expressed below) “Not The Same” I heard a note In the dark Where it slipped into my mind And somehow still remains Time comes and goes Ebbs and flows And somehow that single note Still rings on and sus...