I have been underdressing pretty much daily for the last couple of years. During that time, I have bought women’s clothing, shoes and even nail polish, all in drab. I’ve been trying to add more feminine touches to my everyday life, including trying to wear more feminine h...
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The girl was walking along a narrow lane. It was by its nature a secret lane, yet you may have walked it yourself. The girl was young, and she knew very little about the world. She didn’t know why the way that she had chosen to take seemed so exciting. Neither did she know quit...
Anyone over a certain age who was raised in the UK may remember the BBC programme Listen with Mother. Each episode began with the same calming phrase: ‘Are you sitting comfortably? Then I’ll begin.’ So … are you sitting comfortably? I’m going to tell you a story. It’s...
As a transgender woman living my life, I’ve realized that finding peace within oneself, amidst all this turbulence of societal change and activism going on, is as equally important as survival. Recently, our communities have shown strength and resilience while advocating for ou...
I love the line from John Lennon’s song, “Life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans,” as it is so true. Not only for me but for everyone I’ve ever known. We are so busy saying after we finish this, then I’ll be able to do “That!” Although, there ar...
I provide here for you a review of my early experiences that may be helpful to my sisters in this group. It has been several decades since I first ventured outdoors while dressed. In those days, I went by the name Jill, mostly due to the character Jill in Charlie’s Angels, ...
Well, July was quite a month! On July 8th, as mentioned in my previous article, the Tokyo Closet Ball held our tenth anniversary show. The audience was relatively small but wildly enthusiastic. Tributes came from former members in Canada and Belgium. We had our version of the ...
The first part… As the stories of our childhood used to state, “it all began” when I realised that April 2023 marked ten years since the wonderful professional makeup artist, Michele “R”, had done her first makeover on me, at a block of self-contained apartments in ...
I saw this poem (a variation on the Night Before Christmas poem that so many of us know) just after Christmas. It was too late to post, but I think it applies equally well to Memorial Day. I invite you to read it and my comments. Then spend some time this holiday weekend reflecti...
Dreams Can Come True When I joined Crossdresser Heaven four years ago, one of my very first friends was Andrea Raven. Andrea took me under her wing, and we have remained friends ever since. n the summer of 2019, we discussed the possibility of me venturing out in public for the v...
Our lives are dictated in action by the mood we are in. In this world that we live (crossdressing) it can be amazing the mood transformation that happens the instant we begin the process of becoming our inner woman. Troubles fall away, smiles return, and for a brief moment things...
I have had a hernia for some time. The reason being that I was more concerned about my beloved wife, (who passed 20 Jan last year), than taking the time for the surgery. Also, that, and not worrying about her care, as she had far more medical problems than me. I have been living ...
Conquering Shame and Cultivating Confidence Hello everyone, I am Stephanie. This is my first article; I am thrilled to share with you some of my experience and advice on cross-dressing, and the enjoyment that crossdressing brings us. Crossdressing, a practice that has existed thr...
I’m one of those who likes word play or is it a play on words? The wonderful double meaning, secret message, or even the humorous slam that passes by most who read it. I know I double up as the Managing editor for the site but trust me when I say writing is my passion not corre...
I have recently gone through a big event in my life. Although not linked to my crossdressing, it will no doubt change me. We all have these moments. Sometimes they are big, often small. We see some coming and others hit us out of the blue – and they change us. I look back a...
My name is Geraldine, and after many years of secretly collecting female clothes (over two marriages and with many purges) I only started to actually dress up and transform myself in 2020, in my mid-fifties, and I almost immediately ventured “out and about” En femme. I met up...
If you are like me, you cherish the women’s clothes you own. Perhaps, too, you cherish the friendships you have made here on CDH. Not unlike you, I look to my friends on CDH for inspiration and encouragement. A few have so inspired me they moved me to emulate them. I’ve heard...
If there is one question that is seriously prevalent to my being, it is this: “How do you know?” I’ve asked that question enough times to fill my car with silver dollars. If they made a crossdresser anthem, that would be its title. Although it isn’t just about crossdressi...
Here’s the Thing… I don’t come with an on/off switch. How convenient would that be? To be able to shut off my feelings and close down my brain when I need to be me. Right… which me are we discussing again? That is always going to be the issue. I was standing next to one o...
I wish you all the most wonderful holiday experience you can imagine, always! So, a while ago, like almost a year ago, I began using a product called Pueraria Mirifica. It is an herbal supplement that I got online that enhances breast growth, or so it promises. Let me first state...
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