Welcome to the New Year my friends; here we go moving forward into 2021 and into the later half of the first month already.! By now, those well made and best intended New Years resolutions might be starting to look like some ancient ruins on a far-off island. For some, I think re...
Dear friends I am writing to let you that my mom passed away recently. She had been stricken with cancer and I put her in hospice on January 6th. I wanted to share with all of my friends, especially Vanessa, that before she passed away I told her I was her daughter. And althoug...
It wasn’t until I was into my 30 something stage of life that this paradox became an understanding of a truth for me. You see, most of my life to this point had been a steep downward helix of codependent behaviors and drama; I so desperately wanted to be loved and treated with ...
Are you one of those people, like me, who hears voices in their head from time to time? The voices I hear speak the loudest whenever I try to expand myself in some way. Like when I wanted to learn how to paint seascapes in acrylic paints, the voice in my head started immediately ...
Looking back into my childhood, I remember standing in the playpen. In the early 1960’s many of us lived out our days in these little open top cages made of padded framework and mesh netting around the sides. Much like how bunnies or puppies are sold at the pet store. The playp...
CDH, I have a confession to make…I’ve been cheating on you. It’s not easy for me to say this, but I must come clean. I suppose you’re probably wondering who she is? Well, she’s really popular, but also really “easy.” Everybody users her, ...
Did that make you grit your teeth? Make you laugh? Or maybe smile? I hope this article can convince you that it really is good to be different and allow you to feel better about yourself. From as far back as my childhood, I have always felt and been different in the eyes of other...
My five steps to overcoming a s*** storm, or adversity Arguably, the thing each of us wants more than everything else, at our deepest inner level, is to live our lifetime in happiness. To experience freedom of choice; enough abundance financially and in other areas, to cover all ...
I stumbled upon an article this week that took me by surprise and has sparked off the idea to write this. What it mentioned linked strangely well with my own perception of things, reinforcing them in the process. It’s always good to feel that you’re not alone in this world ...
My Amazing wife and I were snuggled up on the couch soaking up Netflix when two head lamps appeared in front of our home, but the moved independently. Two large and polished motorcycles rolled up in front of our house with their engines rumbling low, they stopped and their riders...
What we see as a truth, is only a truth for us when we believe that it is true, otherwise it is simply an opinion or idea. Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live it is asking others to live, as one wishes to live. ...
I saw two pictures the other day in chat; one of a fire with roaring flames and the other glowing embers. It struck me that those images are representative of the lives many of us lead. For many, the kindling had always been there inside us, early in our lives—it just neede...
There are innumerable theories about why many men have a compulsive need to crossdress, to wear the clothes of women, to wear women’s lingerie and hose, to use waist cinchers, hip pads, and especially expensive artificial breasts (silicon masterpieces, preferably with subtly-er...
As the world continues to face one of its biggest challenges, I felt compelled to write something encouraging. So many things weigh heavily on us all-not just the COVID virus itself. The medical and health risks-especially among the older members of society (and the CDH community...
I was reading about the Christmas season and was suddenly struck with the thought that I needed to write this article. Many of us, regardless of our views on religion enjoy the holiday season as a time to celebrate the giving nature of humanity. And as I thought about all the...
We all want the world to hurry up and advance far enough so it recognizes that each of us, regardless of how we present or express our “inner persona,” is worthy of respect and kindness. I think it needs to begin within our own circle of friends and acquaintances. I read som...
Trans-Siberian Orchestra Lyrics (posted for reflective thoughts as expressed below) “Not The Same” I heard a note In the dark Where it slipped into my mind And somehow still remains Time comes and goes Ebbs and flows And somehow that single note Still rings on and sus...
Stop what you are doing for a moment. Take a deep breath, close your eyes, and take yourself out of yourself. Imagine yourself as someone reading the story of your life. What makes a good story? Relatable characters who develop over the course of the narrative, interesting events...
Some final thoughts on the trip to SCC in Florida
Crossdresser Support and Advice, Crossdressing Experiences 8 I’ve been back from the trip now for several weeks and yet it seems like it was just over yesterday. It was back in January that Samantha G and I bucked up each other’s courage and signed up for this year’s Southern Comfort Conference (SCC- a TG/CD conference) in Ft. Lauder...
Well the site is currently running like a well-oiled machine, and so I’ll close this out for now, but thanks to the down time. I was reminded of how precious the gift of the site has been and will continue to be.
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Desert CrossRoads 2021 January 25, 2021 Hi ladies! We finally have finalized our plans for CrossRoads! It will take place April 29th – May 2nd. The Hotel Zoso will be our headquarters and the site for our gala night. The itinerary will be somewhat fluid, as we are hoping for the best, but expect there might still be ...
- Born to Choose January 24, 2021
Welcome to the New Year my friends; here we go moving forward into 2021 and into the later half of the first month already.! By now, those well made and best intended New Years resolutions might be starting to look like some ancient ruins on a far-off island. For some, I think re...
- My Season of Doubt and Shame Part 2 January 24, 2021
This is Part 2 of a two-part story, written as a conversation between my male and female personas. It is based on my personal struggles with certain aspects of my crossdressing. For full appreciation, read Part 1 first. My orientation is overwhelmingly male, so that is...
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