There is a lot to talk about, and I could make each point a worthy article, but I thought I would instead throw some expanded comments at the wall to see which ones stick… I’ve kind of had one of those weeks where I’m pulled in different directions. One moment, I’m search...
Our childhood is nothing less than amazing! We may not have realised what we have been doing since. You may scoff at the idea, but it is true, we may have simply lost the ability to believe and understand it. Everyone deserves to know and understand It doesn’t require a ...
So, the world attempting to get back to normal, at least that is the phrase I keep hearing from people around me, over and over. I overhear others having a conversation among themselves saying things are finally getting back to normal. My question is, what specifically is this ...
They say with age comes wisdom. It also brings a confluence of memories and wishes. For those of us who see the world as being more than male and female it typically brings more heartache and unanswered questions. I know that I’m part of the new 40 having just turned 60, but as...
Haaaappy Pride Month my beautiful friends. It was not so long ago that the stonewall riots took place, starting a push back that has blossomed into where we are today with parades, banners, and a month every year dedicated to the awareness, acceptance, and even celebration of the...
Breathing is an essential and natural thing that we all do from the moment we enter this world. What is more fascinating is that today, most people do not breathe in a way that is good for their health and longevity of life. It is also one part of life that cannot be monetised, o...
I know from personal experience that this happens on many different levels and reasons, in all forms of creativity. So what is creativity and why does this occur, especially when carried out with one other person or many? By definition The word creativity is a noun that is descri...
In 2013, I stepped in front of an audience in a dress and heels for the first time with no idea what would happen. Now, eight years, several venue changes, dozens of performances, and two independent films later things have reached full circle. My most recent performance was in M...
That time of year is approaching again. Far too often, we go about our daily lives –not giving a thought to how we are able to do so as freely as we do. But a few times each year we are prompted to stop and reflect on the sacrifices made by others that has given us the free...
As early as my childhood, I felt that I was different from others but never understood how until the age of puberty. Even then, it wasn’t crystal clear in my mind or fully formed as a real feeling. Certainly, by puberty, I had begun having certain desires that pulled me in a di...
It occurred to me this week, that so few people can really understand my reasons for choosing to live the way I do! Even more so, on the subject of surgery (SRS). The latter being quite a dramatic and extreme choice that encouraged some to tell me that, it will not change who I a...
A life journey! Where did it all start for me? July 1st, 1960 in an ambulance on a rail crossing in Port Elizabeth South Africa. In a very tumultuous SA during uprises etc, but this is not about politics or South Africa. It’s about a little girl who was part of twins and si...
I am glad that I have my three younger sisters in my life. Growing up and being the oldest, and only son in the family, I knew I had to live with it and did. My sisters were aware there was something different about me growing up. I wasn’t the typical masculine rough and to...
Hello dear souls, this week I ask the question, who is your true friend? Many of us, myself included, have called people our friends, but are they really? In the sentences to follow, in place of any gender-related words, we can also insert anything you feel most ashamed of deep u...
Recently, Cynthia wrote an article that re-spoke two of my favorite quotes: Your need for acceptance can make you invisible in this world. Don’t let anything stand in the way of the light that shines through this form. Risk being seen in all of your glory – Jim Carry I ab...
Anecdotal v. Scientific! My recent preoccupation (yes, I admit it) with the similarities between natural women and heterosexual crossdressers was triggered by an article published on the https://www.mycdlife.com website hosted by Gabrielle Hermosa. In her explanation of th...
Welcome to the New Year my friends; here we go moving forward into 2021 and into the later half of the first month already.! By now, those well made and best intended New Years resolutions might be starting to look like some ancient ruins on a far-off island. For some, I think re...
Dear friends I am writing to let you that my mom passed away recently. She had been stricken with cancer and I put her in hospice on January 6th. I wanted to share with all of my friends, especially Vanessa, that before she passed away I told her I was her daughter. And althoug...
It wasn’t until I was into my 30 something stage of life that this paradox became an understanding of a truth for me. You see, most of my life to this point had been a steep downward helix of codependent behaviors and drama; I so desperately wanted to be loved and treated with ...
Are you one of those people, like me, who hears voices in their head from time to time? The voices I hear speak the loudest whenever I try to expand myself in some way. Like when I wanted to learn how to paint seascapes in acrylic paints, the voice in my head started immediately ...
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