Really, I must be. Why else would you spend a lifetime doing everything possible to “fix yourself” and fail? My life is in its later stages so maybe there will be something of use here for others to learn from. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. Let me explain. It is a lot abo...
For nigh on 40 years, one of my crossdressing dreams has been to be hairless from the neck down. My beloved of 20 years plus complained a few years back about chest hair poking out the top of my t. shirts, so I fixed that and kept going until I hit my waist.!! Nothing more was sa...
Having the support from my wife’s family has been a great help. I see them as very caring people, plus they’ve taught me much through the years. Prior, my ex-girlfriends were not, their families put me through so much hell. I was rudely asked to be a real man, nearly gett...
This article was inspired by a conversation I had with another one of the girls here at CDH. There is so much which makes this an interesting and special place for crossdressers on the internet, however, so much of it is not apparent to most users. If you love this place like I d...
Solace of You I think back to the years of my youth and my first discovery of dressing. How I can’t forget the progression of my dressing and how it changed me. At first it was a wave of excitement, a taboo, when I tried on my first piece of clothing. Then I went through a ...
So many of us here love hearing about other’s experiences as we share stories of our journeys en femme. I first started dressing at 15 with my sisters clothing when I was home alone. I knew at an earlier stage that I was different because I preferred playing with her dolls ...
One of my favorite words in the English language – Freedom! This one word truly sums up my deepest core values all in two syllables. One of my favorite questions was asked by Mr Shakespeare, a name you may be familiar with. The question is famous, To Be? Or not to be? Whe...
Learning to understand gratitude is an expanding feeling for me, because I never understood who or what I was supposed to feel grateful to. For example, I would naturally say thank you, but who or what was I talking to? I was given one answer of a Deity, a word which carries many...
I sat across the desk of my CEO, a 265-pound pro body builder and company owner who I worked for. I extended a shaky hand offering my phone, revealing an image of Char to him for very the first time. He gazed at the image for a minute without flinching, handed the phone back to m...
Continuing from the last part… Her parents thought I was a girl; I was wearing a girl’s swimsuit at the party and the skirt covered anything that said otherwise. I had medium length hair so they just believed I was a girl. I had to change, but since she wanted to keep up ...
When I started this writing journey of my feelings and experiences, I didn’t know how others would relate to it. It has gone great and given me confidence to continue writing, in hopes that others might be inspired. This time, I’m going to write about the way I change...
Now that just sounds crazy, but is it? The one who approaches you with a venomous hatred is in fact the one who has been abused. They are the one who is truly inside the cage because they have given up their mind and allowed others to fill it with their own projections and belief...
On the average, I present my female self out in the community two times a week. As a result, over the last five years that I have gone completely femme in public, there have been numerous experiences interfacing with the public. Is any outing typical? No, but many are non event...
Hey ladies I am going to share by recounting my journey. I was the scared, little girl who would never talk about dressing or being bigender. I started dressing in the mid 1980’s when I was 25. I got a blue knit pantsuit from Lane Bryan and breast forms from a catalog. I do...
Well it had been a couple of weeks since my first time out in the world as Amy, and the glow from that first experience had of course diminished. I was eager to go out again, but I still didn’t have the courage or confidence to go out on a solo excursion. Plus, of course, that ...
Happy surprises can come at the strangest and at unexpected times. I am a closeted CDer and 70 years old. Opportunities to dress have been limited over this long life of mine. I lost my first marriage when my ex- found my stash (bra, panties, and heels.) This led to a long and pa...
Hi All! This is a rather long story, but I hope it helps others who are struggling with their dressing and the implications it can cause in our relationships. My name is Dawnie Saxton, and although I have only been a member of CDH since January 2019, I’ve been dressing sinc...
It’s February 2018 and due to unforeseen circumstances, “She” has not been part of his life for almost three months. But as of today… “She” Returns “His SO” is away for the weekend; so after a restful night in a silky cami, French knickers, and pj’s she a...
As I sit here in my red dress, with stockings and heels, and pretending that I’m at my job as an office secretary, I cannot help but to feel that this is an important part of me. I knew from a very early age that I was different from what I appeared to be. I started to expl...
I sat at my computer writing. A few articles for our site here and a few others. I also write articles or posts for my own site and have a column in our local paper that is published every week. One of the things I attempt to achieve with each writing is to touch at least one per...
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