Happy surprises can come at the strangest and at unexpected times. I am a closeted CDer and 70 years old. Opportunities to dress have been limited over this long life of mine. I lost my first marriage when my ex- found my stash (bra, panties, and heels.) This led to a long and pa...
From late March through the end of September it’s Australian Rules football season and of course it happily coincides with the cooler months that allows for Caty to emerge in “all her glory.” To repeat what a wise old CD once said, “Crossdressing is a winter sport.”...
Like so many of us, I started out as a child (BC). I became curious about the difference between men and women. While home alone, I decided to explore my mother’s fashion world. I rummaged through her closet and dresser drawers. I discovered that she was fashion conscious, and ...
Hi All! This is a rather long story, but I hope it helps others who are struggling with their dressing and the implications it can cause in our relationships. My name is Dawnie Saxton, and although I have only been a member of CDH since January 2019, I’ve been dressing sinc...
Hi Girls, Scarlett here! Now these stories and suggestions are strictly based on my own cross dressing history and experiences with my wife, along with my readings from two cross dressing sites. And girls, I could write a novel on this subject, however, considering the number of ...
Dating Girls as a Girl: What Is Different?
, , Conflicting feelings about sexual identification and cross dressing, 37
At an outdoor music event where I was in guy mode, flying solo, I noticed a couple consisting of a young man and lady walk on to the lawn and pause. The guy stops, puts his hands on his hips and looks around to assess the situation. The woman stops, watches the guy for a second, ...
I write this in the midst of trying to sort out several thoughts and emotions. I’m elated to share my news, and yet a little hesitant because I sympathize with so many of you. This isn’t me bragging; I want to share my experience as I am sure that I’m not the on...
Meeting my wife, Stacie changed my life around. I wouldn’t be here without her. Stacie’s support has made me realize how important it is to not give up. She has been there for me when I was down. There was a moment when my whole wardrobe was stolen by the 2nd of my ...
It’s February 2018 and due to unforeseen circumstances, “She” has not been part of his life for almost three months. But as of today… “She” Returns “His SO” is away for the weekend; so after a restful night in a silky cami, French knickers, and pj’s she a...
Sharing
, , Hodgepodge, 11
A Hodgepodge Submission Who has a SO who borrows their dresses? And who has their SO lend them dresses along with the comment that she thinks it will suit you? Recently, I opened up to my wife of nearly ten years about my desires (divorced from my first wife who never knew about ...
There I was, 13 or maybe 14, I had the whole world figured out. I was going to be a soldier, marry a beautiful loving woman, and live happily ever after. Wait, maybe it was – I was going to be a beautiful soldier, marry a handsome loving man, and live happily ever after. ...
A Hodgepodge Submission By December 2015, I was 52 when the culmination of circumstances throughout my five-year marriage to my second wife led me to a Crossdresser Support Group (CSG). My wife would be the trigger that allowed for me to disentangle my many layers in pursuit of...
I’ve decided that it’s time for me to share my personal story. Even though I’ve only been crossdressing a few months now, it has been something that has been a part of me for as long as I can remember. It’s also very hard to write about. So, here it goes&#...
We Looked Alike! Hi Girls! I love to keep a journal and I especially like writing about my cross dressing propensities and my alternate desire to dress in an androgynous way whenever possible. Androgynous, for those of you who are not familiar with the term, is an adjectiv...
So we’ve come out as a crossdresser; who helps us the most? The answer is obvious for those lucky enough to have a wife or girlfriend who participates with them. We must consider ourselves the lucky ones; not everyone gets the same support from the normal home life. Without...
I feel as if I have both a girl and boy spirit occupying my same body. Since they live in the same body, it feels to them like a house or home they share in common. What is interesting, and I suppose natural is that the girl spirit likes men and the boy spirit likes girls. They b...
I have enjoyed many of the stories that I’ve read on various blogs on the Internet. With the accounts I opened, I set most to block obscenity and sexually oriented material. When I was befriended and wanted to see the profile of the friend, I lifted the blocks to see their back...
As a kid I was shy. I didn’t want to be, but I was. One day, I remember going to 1st grade wearing my mom’s stockings, holding them up with rubber bands—no pantyhose back then. In retrospect, it had been the wrong thing to do. My self-confidence was low. I blame it ...
When I was young, I loved Deborah Harry. I thought it was just a crush, but realized not only did I find her attractive, but I looked closely at what she wore. It was the way she moved and how the clothes moved with her; I was mesmerized. Not having the words for what I was feeli...
Nearly every crossdresser I’ve had the privilege to meet since I joined Crossdresser Heaven has expressed at least some level of insecurity about their femme side. Why do I need to dress? Am I weird? Will I find someone who can love and accept me? It’s unfortunate that our so...
Featured Members
Meet the featured members for this week. Click their profile photo and send them a note to say hi!
Support our Sponsors
Recent Articles
-
Confirming Your Femininity In Public November 11, 2019
On the average, I present my female self out in the community two times a week. As a result, over the last five years that I have gone completely femme in public, there have been numerous experiences interfacing with the public. Is any outing typical? No, but many are non event...
-
Into a sea of white heaven! November 11, 2019
One day I got a call asking me to show up at a certain address on this day and this time. I was requested to be clean and groomed, not sweaty from working outside. I thought it was a weird call, but said ok; after all, it came from my wife. A week passed and the time came. I got ...
-
Media Review: Casa Susanna November 8, 2019
Casa Susanna is a book edited by Michael Hurst and Robert Swope that presents an extraordinary collection of photographs depicting a secret society of cross dressers from a bygone era. I stumbled upon this book, and its associated story, during some of my recent internet meande...
Tell Us Your Opinion
At Crossdresser Heaven we strive to create a safe, supportive and welcoming community. Please take a few moments to let us know how we’re doing and how we can improve.
Take the Crossdresser Heaven Survey