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Ang replied to the topic "Letter to my Wife" – 4 months ago
Sarah, Your letter is well written. It is explanatory and thoughtful. I think so many of us SO or wives get reactive because we don’t know….where it is going, what it means and we also feel that from the feelings… Read more»
Ang replied to the topic "There are Two Women in My Life and I am One of Them" – 4 months ago
As a SO thank you for sharing your story! I love to hear of successful relationships and get bits and pieces of how they did it.
Ang replied to the topic My Husband Just Told Me… in the forum Introductions & New Members 1 years ago
Welcome to our corner of the internet world! I am another SO (significant other) or GG (genetic girl). I’m so glad you found this great group of people 🙂
First…the internet can be great and helpful but also scary. Please remember that your relationship is defined by the 2 people in it – that has helped me immensely!
I’m glad that your…[Read more]
Ang replied to the topic Dressing in the bedroom in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Hey Leah,
I’m the GG in my relationship. My partner wears female clothing most days at home and underdresses daily outside of the home. In the bedroom whatever is clever goes. Sometimes my partner will wear lady’s pajamas, sometimes sweats (they get cold easily) or male pajama bottoms with a sweatshirt. I have bought things for them to wear too,…[Read more]
Ang replied to the topic Convertable Bra strap made incorrectly in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 1 years ago
Convertible bras and strapless are the bane of bra life…. I have never met one that didn’t leave me red and irritated around it. AND let me tell you I have been bone thin and more than pleasingly plump in my life. No matter my size it has not been easy. I prefer tape in a strapless to the stress of figuring out a new bra.
Clothes can be funny…[Read more]
Ang replied to the topic What About A CD At Work Full-Time? in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 1 years ago
Hi Samantha,
I think for most of us it is better to work one good job as opposed to 2 kinda decent jobs. I am a big believer in finding work/life balance. So good for you for realizing you deserve a good work/life balance.
In regards to your questions….
How would you react to someone who closely resembles a woman being hired in a workplace…[Read more]
Ang replied to the topic How do you feel when you dress for the day? in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 1 years ago
Hi Kayla,
I suppose that depends on the day, LOL, and the outfit.
I wear scrubs to work so while they are comfy and cozy (like pajamas honestly) to me they represent the grind. They are also the clothes I am wearing in times of trauma and emergencies and therefore there really isn’t a “comfort” feeling. Putting on scrubs feels a lot like…[Read more]
Ang replied to the topic A fellow GG asks an honest question in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 1 years ago
Hey there 🙂 I’m not on here as much as I use to be but wanted to take time to respond to you. I think posting this in a forum where all can see can be helpful for those navigating the relationship waters and needing to tell someone about their “CD”ing.
Are some days better than others, personally ?
Yes absolutely! It can go from the highest…[Read more]Ang replied to the topic The boys downstairs in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Hi Jay,
While I am a GG I do want to tell you about the experience my partner has had. My partner has been “tucking” without a gaffe for some time now (years). My partner has said that over time it has gotten easier, and things seem to slide into place better. I know in the beginning it was more difficult for my partner to get things “just so”.…[Read more]
Ang replied to the topic Advice, or a Shoulder to Cry On in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
Becka,
I hope you reach out to a professional counselor. CD, transgender life, and relationships can get complicated at times. I am a GG and I remember in the beginning how hard things were…..one of the kids had a health crisis too during that time. To say it was hard would be an understatement. We worked through it. Intimacy has peaked and…[Read more]
Ang replied to the topic What was it like growing up as a young girl? in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 1 years ago
Caty,
I remember hating men growing up. I hated how difficult everything was to be a girl and how men got everything. I remember being so afraid of men, literally afraid they would hurt me or kill me. I remember getting my period for the first time at a sleepover birthday party. I remember being 13 and getting my first kiss from a JUNIOR IN HIGH…[Read more]
Ang replied to the topic So how goes YOUR journey with all this? in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 1 years ago
Hey Stevie,
How sweet of you to ask! 🙂Things in my neck of the woods are going pretty good. Like any relationship there are ups and downs. I really think I get as much out of spaces like this as every participant on the site. AND I absolutely adore the term FAB girl because it implies fabulous!
My journey with “all this” started pretty…[Read more]
Ang replied to the topic Wearing Heels in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 1 years ago
Samantha,
You are braver than I! I have never been very graceful in heels. I end up looking like something between a newborn horse (foal) and a lady. It is a disaster, LOL. I usually wear 2″ or so heels if at all. That being said many people love them. I think they can also look just as nice with some dress slacks, skirt, or fancy zipper dress!…[Read more]Ang replied to the topic So confused in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
Hi Shelly,
I’m so sorry to hear you are experiencing a break in trust in your relationship. Truly. Sounds like you have been working on the relationship and including all aspects of your partner for the last 3 years and trying to understand each other. I can only imagine how much more that must make this hurt. 🙁The dating site. Is it about…[Read more]
Ang replied to the topic Some rather interesting experiences while 'passing' in the forum Personal Crossdressing Stories 1 years ago
Hi Lauren,
Yes, sometimes unwanted attention can be very unnerving. I think it is important that you practice the same skills us GG do. Keep aware of your surroundings, make sure others know you are aware of your surroundings (don’t be too much looking at your phone, don’t sit in your car with doors unlocked, etc). Also, if you keep keys on hand…[Read more]
Ang replied to the topic Feeling misled in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Ashley,
Your opening lines hurt my heart a little. I’m sorry that we live in a society that has made things so difficult for relationships to navigate through with some gender bending. -AngAng replied to the topic Feeling misled in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Hi Klaire,
I’m sorry you feel misled. I know that anytime in a relationship one partner feels misled or even lied to it can be very hard to overcome.
I think sometimes we want to be supportive and then realize it is harder than we realized (from my perspective as a SO). I know for me after feeling misled I really struggle with the hurt and…[Read more]
Ang replied to the topic Guidance for my wife in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
Hi Saleena,
I hope that things have gotten better for you and your wife since you posted. I am a SO, my partner is actually not on this site, just me.I originally joined this site about 5 years ago to help understand…and to open my eyes a bit. I wanted to know what was out there so I wouldn’t look shocked, scared, or upset and hurt my…[Read more]
Ang replied to the topic Corset love in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 1 years ago
Hi Alexa,
Believe it or not I wore a corset under my wedding gown. In retrospect that was a mistake. You cannot bend, I mean not even a little. Now it does push up what you got real nice, and it holds in the wiggly jiggly pieces in the tummy area well. I made it about halfway through my reception before I ripped that thing off! The corset and the…[Read more]Ang replied to the topic Exercise to Look Leaner in the forum Dear Genetic Girls 1 years ago
Hi Samantha,
I think Pilates is a great way to help elongate your muscles. I have done both Pilates and yogalates to help give longer, leaner shapes versus just strength training. A lot of women love it. It is also very relaxing and really stretches you out. It is also a butt kicking workout!
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Badgergal, you certainly write well! Feelings, spontaneity, word pictures, openess, variety, and supportiveness. ❤️
A gem you are for us.
Thank you!
🌹Connie
Awww <3 thank you!